The Difference Is Why
Lenny Kravitz Lyrics


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I'm just a human
I never said I was god
And each day I wonder where you are
How could our lives once be so together
Now we're apart
I know we can make it
But where do we start?
Sometimes the scales get unbalanced
Don't you know the reason why?

The difference is why
The difference is why

You say you can't trust me
Have you tried?
You say you don't love me
That's a lie
There are so many so many rainbows
That we were to climb
But baby baby why can't we survive?
We've got to get our heads untangled
And free our state of mind

The difference is why
The difference is why

Sometimes the scales get unbalanced
Don't you know the reason why?

The difference is why




The difference is why
Does this have to mean goodbye?

Overall Meaning

In this song, Lenny Kravitz is grappling with a relationship that has turned sour. He admits that he is just a human, not a deity, and wonders where his partner has gone. The two of them used to be so close, but now they are apart. He believes that they can make things work again, but he doesn't know where to start. Oftentimes, the scales of a relationship get unbalanced, but he is unsure of why. He implores his partner to trust him and tries to convince them that their claim of not loving him is a lie. They had so many things they were going to do, so many ambitions to fulfill, but now Lenny is left to wonder why they can't survive together.


The chorus of the song, "The difference is why," is repeated throughout to emphasize the central idea that the differences between people and the imbalances in relationships are what cause strife. Lenny argues that they must untangle their heads and free their state of mind to have a chance at being together again. The last line, "Does this have to mean goodbye?" signals a plea for reconciliation and a desire to continue the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm just a human
I acknowledge that I am not infallible, and that I will make mistakes.


I never said I was god
I am not all-knowing or omnipotent.


And each day I wonder where you are
I miss you and think about you often.


How could our lives once be so together
I am reflecting on how close we used to be.


Now we're apart
Our relationship has broken down, and we are no longer together.


I know we can make it
I have hope that we can heal our relationship and reconcile.


But where do we start?
I am unsure of how to begin repairing our relationship.


Sometimes the scales get unbalanced
Occasionally, our feelings and emotions toward each other become uneven or disproportionate.


Don't you know the reason why?
Do you understand why our feelings are imbalanced?


The difference is why
The reason our emotions and feelings are uneven or imbalanced is what separates us.


You say you can't trust me
You do not have faith in me or my actions.


Have you tried?
Have you made an effort to learn my perspective and understand my actions?


You say you don't love me
You claim that your feelings for me have dissipated or disappeared completely.


That's a lie
I believe that you still have feelings for me, and that you are simply suppressing them or denying them outright.


There are so many so many rainbows
Together, we had so many possibilities for happiness and fulfillment.


That we were to climb
We had so many exciting dreams and goals that we were supposed to achieve together.


But baby baby why can't we survive?
I am questioning our ability to continue and maintain our relationship.


We've got to get our heads untangled
We need to sort out and clarify our thoughts and emotions in order to move forward.


And free our state of mind
We need to let go of any negative or harmful thoughts that are weighing us down and preventing us from healing our relationship.


Does this have to mean goodbye?
I am questioning whether or not our broken relationship has to result in permanent separation.




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Written by: LENNY KRAVITZ

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