Songs of Love and Hate
Leonard Cohen Lyrics


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If you want a lover,
I'll do anything you ask me to
And if you want another kind of love,
I'll wear a mask for you
If you want a partner, take my hand
Or if you want to strike me down in anger,
Here I stand
I'm your man

If you want a boxer,
I will step into the ring for you
And if you want a doctor,
I'll examine every inch of you
If you want a driver, climb inside
Or if you want to take me for a ride,
You know you can
I'm your man

Ah, the moon's too bright
The chain's too tight
The beast won't go to sleep
I've been running through these promises to you
That I made and I could not keep
But a man never got a woman back,
Not by begging on his knees
Or I'd crawl to you baby
And I'd fall at your feet
And I'd howl at your beauty
Like a dog in heat
And I'd claw at your heart
And I'd tear at your sheet
I'd say please, please
I'm your man

And if you've got to sleep
A moment on the road,
I will steer for you
And if you want to work the street alone,
I'll disappear for you
If you want a father for your child,
Or only want to walk with me a while
Across the sand
I'm your man





(If you want a lover)

Overall Meaning

In "I'm Your Man," Leonard Cohen expresses his willingness to do anything and be anything for his lover. He sings that he'll be a partner, a boxer, a driver, and even a doctor if it means fulfilling the needs of his partner. This song is an expression of intense devotion and commitment to his lover, willing to endure any challenge or discomfort. The verses intensify in their poeticism and promise, with Cohen pledging to fall at his partner's feet and howl at her beauty like a “dog in heat”. In the chorus, Cohen reassures his partner of his availability in every situation by repeating the phrase, “I’m your man.”


The song, however, is not a straightforward love song. The last verse suggests that Cohen has not fully lived up to his promises, singing about the “promises” he had made and could not keep. But he still maintains that he is the best partner for his lover, and he would work hard to earn her love.


Line by Line Meaning

If you want a lover,
If you're craving for a partner to love, I am willing to do everything you want.


I'll do anything you ask me to
I am ready to fulfill your every demand.


And if you want another kind of love,
If you want a different kind of affection or intimacy, I'll wear a mask and adjust to how you want it.


I'll wear a mask for you
I will adapt to your wants and needs, even if it means hiding who I truly am.


If you want a partner, take my hand
If you're seeking for a lifelong commitment, I am willing to stand by your side.


Or if you want to strike me down in anger,
If you are furious and need someone to lash out at, I am here, ready to take the punch.


Here I stand
I am unmovable, ready to face whatever comes our way together.


I'm your man
I am the person you're looking for.


If you want a boxer,
If you need someone to fight for you, I am willing to take on the challenge.


I will step into the ring for you
I will take on any struggle or hardship for your sake.


And if you want a doctor,
If you need someone to examine or heal your wounds, I will be that person for you.


I'll examine every inch of you
I'll be meticulous in tending to your every need or concern.


If you want a driver, climb inside
If you need someone to drive you towards your goals, I am more than happy to assist you.


Or if you want to take me for a ride,
If you want to take charge and lead the way, I am willing to follow you.


You know you can
I trust and believe in you, and I will help you achieve what you want.


I'm your man
I am exclusively yours, now and forever.


(Ah,) the moon's too bright
It seems that everything, even the moon, is out of place and unreasonable.


The chain's too tight
I feel trapped and constrained, unable to free myself from what's holding me back.


The beast won't go to sleep
My inner demons and fears keep me awake and restless, preventing me from feeling peace.


I've been running through these promises to you
I've been trying to keep the commitments I made to you.


That I made and I could not keep
Unfortunately, I was not able to deliver on a few of the promises I made and I apologize for that.


But a man never got a woman back, (not by) begging on his knees
Desperation and begging will not win back a woman's love.


(Or) I'd crawl to you baby
If I have to humiliate and degrade myself, I am willing to do it if it means I can make things right with you.


(And) I'd fall at your feet
I am willing to surrender to you and acknowledge your power over me.


(And) I'd howl at your beauty
I am amazed and flabbergasted by how beautiful you are.


Like a dog in heat
I am so desperate for you that I am behaving like a dog in heat, involuntarily and instinctively wanting your affection.


(And) I'd claw at your heart
I am ready to do anything to touch your heart, even if it means using destructive ways to do so.


(And) I'd tear at your sheet
I am yearning to be with you so badly that I am willing to destroy everything, even your own bedsheet, while doing so.


I'd say please, please
I am desperately pleading with you to take me back and giving you one last chance to do so.


I'm your man
I am still willing to be yours and committed to you, even after everything that's happened.


(And) if you've got to sleep
If you're tired and need to recharge, I will take care of everything while you rest.


A moment on the road,
If we're on a journey, and you feel like pausing for a bit, I will adjust our pace and take our time.


I will steer for you
I will take control and guide us towards our destination while you rest.


(And) if you want to work the street alone,
If you want to be independent and work on your own, I respect your decision and will let you do so.


I'll disappear for you
I will respect your wishes and retreat from your life while you focus on your goals.


(If you want a father for your child),
If you want me to be a father figure to your child, I am ready and willing to do so.


Or only want to walk with me a while
If you simply want companionship and nothing more, I will still be there for you, as long as you want me to.


Across the sand
Through anything and everything, I will always be beside you.


I'm your man
I am here for you, and am committed to you, now and in the future.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, BMG Rights Management
Written by: LEONARD COHEN

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