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How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go?
How many, how many, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

How many lips have kissed you
And set your soul aglow?
How many, how many, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
And even if I ask you
Darlin', don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
But darling, I love you so




No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
Though I really don't want to know

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Les Paul's song "I Really Don't Want to Know" speak to the universal human experience of jealousy and insecurity in a romantic relationship. The singer acknowledges his jealousy and curiosity about how many other people his lover has been with, both physically and emotionally, but ultimately decides that he doesn't want to know the answers to these questions. He would rather continue living in a state of uncertainty and maintain the illusion of being the only one his lover has ever truly loved.


The repetition of the phrase "how many, how many, I wonder" emphasizes the singer's obsessive thoughts and ruminations about his lover's past. He wants to know the intimate details of her previous relationships, but at the same time, he is afraid that this knowledge will only intensify his feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. He acknowledges that even if he were to ask her directly, he doesn't want her to confess because the truth might be too painful to bear.


The last stanza of the song offers a bittersweet resolution to this dilemma. The singer knows that his lover may have secrets that he will never uncover, but he still loves her regardless. The uncertainty of their relationship may always haunt him, but he is willing to accept this as the price of being with someone he truly cares about.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you
I am curious to know how many people have embraced you in the past


And hated to let you go?
And how many of them found it difficult to let you leave their arms?


How many, how many, I wonder
I continue to wonder how many people you have been with


But I really don't want to know
Yet, I do not want to hear the answer or have my suspicions confirmed


How many lips have kissed you
I am also curious as to how many people have kissed your lips


And set your soul aglow?
And how many of those kisses ignited passion within you?


So always make me wonder
Continue to keep me guessing


Always make me guess
Always keep me wondering about your past


And even if I ask you
Even if I inquire


Darlin', don't confess
Please do not reveal the truth to me


Just let it remain your secret
Keep your past to yourself


But darling, I love you so
Despite my curiosity, my feelings for you have not changed


No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
I still continue to wonder, though


Though I really don't want to know
I really do not want to know the answer to my questions




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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Kunsh Sood

Can you make this a series? I would love to see Strat and tele.

Robert Baker

Yep I'm thinking it might be :)

Mr. Algebro

He can't do it with Tele because there are no valid reasons to not buy one...

Pedro Slick

@Mr. Algebro hum... it's impossible to change from bridge to neck on a telecaster if your in the middle of a song in a quick change 😂 just kidding you can! But it's not that easy !

Simple Man Guitars

@Mr. Algebro That's what I was gonna say. You'd have an easier time making a video called "Why you don't need ANOTHER Tele" but even that would be a hard case to make. LOL!

Kipperbob Sam

@Pedro Slick you can make it easier, fit a switch from a Les Paul on it. Another thing that makes the Telecaster the most versatile is the ease of modification, with split humbuckers it can get from the twangiest of cleans to the heaviest of overdriven distortion in seconds. Plus the Telecaster is the toughest best stayin in tune guitar I've ever laid hands on,

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Gary Novak

I've been thru almost 100 guitars over my 30 years of playing, they were cool but mostly just tools to get the job done. Then I got my 2019 Gibson Les Paul Traditional. I now have an indescribable bond with this beautiful guitar. It's not the most versatile, it's not the most comfortable, and it certainly wasn't the cheapest, but the way it makes me feel while playing makes it worth every penny I paid.

Steve B

That's all that matters brother! It's irrelevant what anyone says if you're happy with your AXE nothing else matters! Play on!

Clarksville TN Landscaping Services

Your comment sure makes me feel good that I nailed it first round. I bought the same guitar, my first LP about a year ago. They are unique but really what I call the holy grail.

Hawker35

Same...playing also 30 years and an American Strat for the most part. Just got a LP Standard. Love the sustain and the growl I can get from it. The most surprising thing was the awesome clean sounds. I was not expecting that. I use a POD GO and an FR speaker now so that really helps with the sound versatility.

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