I Really Don't Want to Know
Les Paul & Mary Ford Lyrics


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How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go?
How many, how many, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

How many lips have kissed you
And set your soul aglow?
How many, how many, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
And even if I ask you
Darlin', don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
But darling, I love you so




No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
Though I really don't want to know

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Les Paul's song "I Really Don't Want to Know" speak to the universal human experience of jealousy and insecurity in a romantic relationship. The singer acknowledges his jealousy and curiosity about how many other people his lover has been with, both physically and emotionally, but ultimately decides that he doesn't want to know the answers to these questions. He would rather continue living in a state of uncertainty and maintain the illusion of being the only one his lover has ever truly loved.


The repetition of the phrase "how many, how many, I wonder" emphasizes the singer's obsessive thoughts and ruminations about his lover's past. He wants to know the intimate details of her previous relationships, but at the same time, he is afraid that this knowledge will only intensify his feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. He acknowledges that even if he were to ask her directly, he doesn't want her to confess because the truth might be too painful to bear.


The last stanza of the song offers a bittersweet resolution to this dilemma. The singer knows that his lover may have secrets that he will never uncover, but he still loves her regardless. The uncertainty of their relationship may always haunt him, but he is willing to accept this as the price of being with someone he truly cares about.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you
I am curious to know how many people have embraced you in the past


And hated to let you go?
And how many of them found it difficult to let you leave their arms?


How many, how many, I wonder
I continue to wonder how many people you have been with


But I really don't want to know
Yet, I do not want to hear the answer or have my suspicions confirmed


How many lips have kissed you
I am also curious as to how many people have kissed your lips


And set your soul aglow?
And how many of those kisses ignited passion within you?


So always make me wonder
Continue to keep me guessing


Always make me guess
Always keep me wondering about your past


And even if I ask you
Even if I inquire


Darlin', don't confess
Please do not reveal the truth to me


Just let it remain your secret
Keep your past to yourself


But darling, I love you so
Despite my curiosity, my feelings for you have not changed


No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
I still continue to wonder, though


Though I really don't want to know
I really do not want to know the answer to my questions




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Royalty Network, O/B/O DistroKid, Spirit Music Group, Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@EzyGoin686

How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, how many, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

And how many lips have kissed you
And set your soul aglow
How many, how many, I wonder,
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
even if I ask you
darlin don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
But darlin I love you so
No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

...... MUSIC BREAK .......

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
even if I ask you
darlin don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
But darlin I love you so
No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
But I really don't want to know



All comments from YouTube:

@69dragster

i fell in love with them when i was about 7 i still love them and im 63 now

@briannacarnegie51

This song is so beautiful. The first time I heard this song, I was caught.

@bobbihigh1299

Nice

@frankgreco8447

One of their best.

@highwayexplorer

Jason & The Scorchers brought me to here!

@EzyGoin686

How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, how many, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

And how many lips have kissed you
And set your soul aglow
How many, how many, I wonder,
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
even if I ask you
darlin don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
But darlin I love you so
No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

...... MUSIC BREAK .......

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
even if I ask you
darlin don't confess

Just let it remain your secret
But darlin I love you so
No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

No wonder, no wonder, I wonder
But I really don't want to know

@RicardodaCosta

Beautiful interpretation!

@mariomsa821820

Perfeita canção e interpretação!!!

@billchew450

I thought Eddy Arnold did the original till I heard this beautiful original

@charmeurlover9655

I LIKE SONG BEAUTIFUL

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