It'S My Party
Lesley Lyrics


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It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too if it happened to you

Nobody knows where my Johnny has gone
But Judy left the same time
Why was he holding her hand
When he's supposed to be mine

It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too if it happened to you

Playin' my records, keep dancin' all night
But leave me alone for a while
Till Johnny's dancin' with me
I've got no reason to smile

It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too if it happened to you

Judy and Johnny just walked through the door
Like a queen with her king
Oh what a birthday surprise
Judy's wearin' his ring

It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too if it happened to you

Oh it's my party, and I'll cry if I want to
Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
You would cry too if it happened to you





It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to

Overall Meaning

Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party" is a classic hit that captures the mood of a teenager's birthday party gone wrong. The song's protagonist feels betrayed by her boyfriend, Johnny, who has left her party and shows up later with another girl, Judy. The lyrics are an expression of her sadness, anger, and sense of loss. The chorus "It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to, cry if I want to, cry if I want to. You would cry too if it happened to you" reiterates her right to feel how she does and posits that the situation is universal.


The first verse sets the scene at the party where the singer's boyfriend, Johnny, is missing, and one of her friends, Judy, has left with him. The second verse describes the party-goers still having fun while she's left feeling abandoned. However, in the third verse, Johnny and Judy return to the party, and the singer discovers that Johnny has given Judy a ring. The chorus, which repeats throughout the song, is her emotional reaction to discovering the betrayal.


The song captures the teenage angst of the time when relationships were just developing, and emotions were running high. It resonated with young girls who felt like they were not in control of their lives, and it became an instant hit. Today, it remains a classic song and an anthem for anyone who has ever felt heartbroken.


Line by Line Meaning

It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to
I have the right to cry at my own party if I feel like it


Cry if I want to, cry if I want to
I'll cry whenever I please


You would cry too if it happened to you
If you were in my shoes, you would cry too


Nobody knows where my Johnny has gone
I don't know where my boyfriend Johnny went


But Judy left the same time
My friend Judy also left at the same time as Johnny


Why was he holding her hand
Why was Johnny holding Judy's hand?


When he's supposed to be mine
He's supposed to be my boyfriend


Playin' my records, keep dancin' all night
We're playing my favorite music and dancing all night


But leave me alone for a while
Please let me be alone for some time


Till Johnny's dancin' with me
I'll only feel better once Johnny starts dancing with me


I've got no reason to smile
I have no reason to be happy


Judy and Johnny just walked through the door
Judy and Johnny have just arrived at the party


Like a queen with her king
They look like royalty - a perfect couple


Oh what a birthday surprise
It's a surprise to see them together at my birthday party


Judy's wearin' his ring
Judy is wearing Johnny's engagement ring




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Elof Loelv, Herb Wiener, John Gluck Jr., Joseph Bartlett-Vanderpuye, Seymour Gottlieb, Wally Gold

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Comments from YouTube:

@gurl3270

The line "but hes supposed to be mine" sounds so childish and innocent. Its my favorite line

@zachhh1217

IKR LIKE ITS SO INNOCENT AND YET SO DARK

@ckydafm

I think she was talking about Judy

@ckydafm

@@jakefromstatefarm3179 yeah..

@Ap-kx4og

@@ckydafm Actually, she didn’t write the song. I think she didn’t even know she was lesbian at that time

@ckydafm

@@Ap-kx4og wait she didn’t write the song???!?

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@squeezemyparticiple

She was SEVENTEEN in this performance. Absolutely incredible.

@desexplicando

Wait? What? I thought she was in her 20's, maybe 30's

@valelaval4986

Wow people looks much more mature back in the days

@farinks3344

omg i thought she was in her 30s

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