Love Me or Leave Me
Lester Young Lyrics


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This affair is killin' me
I can't stand uncertainly
Tell me now I've got to know
Whether you want me to stay or to go

Love me or leave me
Or let me be lonely
You won't believe me, I love you only
I'd rather be lonely
Then happy with someone else

You might find the night time
The right time for kissin'
But night time is my time
For just reminiscin'
Regrettin' instead of forgettin'
With somebody else

There'll be no one
Unless that someone is you
I intend to be independently blue
I want your love
But I don't want to borrow
To have it today to give it back tomorrow




For your love is my love
There's no love for nobody else

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Lester Young's "Love Me or Leave Me" express the emotional turmoil caused by uncertainty in a relationship. The singer is deeply in love with someone but is unsure whether their feelings are reciprocated. The phrase "this affair is killin' me" conveys the intensity of the singer's emotions and the pain caused by the uncertainty. The singer is seeking clarity from their partner, asking them to make a decision about whether they want the singer to stay or go.


The chorus of the song, "Love me or leave me, or let me be lonely," emphasizes the singer's desire for a clear answer from their partner. They claim to love their partner unconditionally and express their willingness to be alone rather than unhappy with someone else. The singer believes that their love is unique and cannot be replicated with anyone else, as shown in the line "your love is my love, there's no love for nobody else."


The second verse of the song contrasts the singer's experiences at night with their partner. While their partner may be focused on kissing and passion, the singer is left to regret and reminisce about their time together. The phrase "independently blue" suggests that the singer is content to be alone if necessary but still wants their partner's love.


Overall, the lyrics of "Love Me or Leave Me" convey a sense of emotional turmoil, uncertainty, and unrequited love.


Line by Line Meaning

This affair is killin' me
This romantic situation is causing me great emotional pain and distress


I can't stand uncertainly
I am unable to tolerate the ambiguity and lack of clarity in our relationship


Tell me now I've got to know
Please provide me with a clear answer immediately


Whether you want me to stay or to go
I need to know definitively if you want me to remain in your life or to leave you alone


Love me or leave me
Please choose between committing to a loving relationship with me or ending our involvement completely


Or let me be lonely
If you cannot reciprocate my feelings, I would rather be by myself than spend time with someone who doesn't love me back


You won't believe me, I love you only
I am genuine and sincere in my affection for you; my love and loyalty are only for you


I'd rather be lonely
Being alone is preferable to pursuing a relationship with someone who doesn't truly love me


Then happy with someone else
I would prefer to be alone rather than settle for a loveless relationship with another person


You might find the night time
Perhaps you believe that nighttime is the perfect time for romance


The right time for kissin'
The optimal time for intimate physical contact, like kissing


But night time is my time
For me, nighttime is the ideal opportunity to reflect and reminisce about my feelings and memories


For just reminiscin'
I prefer to use the nighttime to contemplate and recall past experiences and emotions


Regrettin' instead of forgettin'
Sometimes I find myself filled with melancholy instead of moving on from past events


With somebody else
If I were with someone other than you, I would simply feel regretful instead of happy


There'll be no one
I am convinced that no one else can replace you in my heart


Unless that someone is you
You are the only person who has the power to fill the void in my life


I intend to be independently blue
Although I am not seeking to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't love me back, I am prepared to endure the unpleasant feelings of loneliness and isolation that often accompany that stance


I want your love
I am completely devoted to my love for you and wish that you shared those feelings


But I don't want to borrow
Although I desire your love, I do not want to have it for only a short time before you take it back from me


To have it today to give it back tomorrow
I would prefer to have your love for all time, not just for a brief moment that won't be sustained


For your love is my love
The love that I feel for you is the only love that matters and the only love that can make me happy


There's no love for nobody else
My love is exclusively yours and I have no romantic affection for anyone else




Lyrics © DONALDSON PUBLISHING CO, TOBAGO MUSIC COMPANY, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Gus Kahn, Walter Donaldson

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I am learning play sax and what example this is
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Great recording! Thanks for sharing.

@othello4007

Even more than the great Lester Young, I find Teddy Wilson's heady piano exquisite, dazzling and velvety, and Joe Jones' drums, Mr. Zero Dead Time, breathtaking. Thank you, Mert, for your subtle ear, and for your comment which is balm in the heart.

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