Age
Lianne La Havas Lyrics
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When I call his name, he turns his back
The weather is growing cold
And I want him back again
I kinda know this other guy but he's rather
Old enough to be my father
So he's not the one for me
I'm at a loss
Not a coincidence he left me because
My older man
Was ready to love me like the woman that I am
Ooh
So is it such a problem if he's old?
As long as he does whatever he's told
I'm glad that it's just my heart that he stole
And left my dignity alone
When in Rome we landed our first kiss
I slurred my words but he pretended not to notice
And then he sat down to play
My heart sang a symphony
So far, so swimmingly
I'm glad I got up to find my fish in that sea
We've come so far
So who gives a damn about the ages we are
Ooh
So is it such a problem if he's old?
As long as he does whatever he is told
I'm glad that it's just my heart that he stole
And left my dignity alone
So is it such a problem that he's old?
As long as he does whatever he is told
I know I'm gonna survive the December cold
With somebody to retrieve my long lost soul
With somebody to retrieve my long lost soul
The lyrics of Lianne La Havas's song "Age" are an introspective exploration of the complex emotions surrounding a relationship between a young woman and an older man. The opening lines, "Why do I love him? He don't love back / When I call his name, he turns his back," convey the singer's frustration and confusion as she grapples with the one-sided nature of the relationship. She's deeply invested in this man but feels sidelined and dismissed by him.
The second verse introduces another man, who is "old enough to be my father," but the singer rejects him because she's interested in younger men. This rejection highlights the contradiction of her feelings for the older man - she's drawn to him despite the age difference, even though she internally acknowledges that it's not what she generally wants.
The chorus incorporates a sense of resignation, with the singer accepting that the relationship is flawed but contending that she doesn't care about the judgments of others. She's committed to this man, and as long as he does what she wants, she's willing to overlook the complications and risks that come with being with someone much older or in a power dynamic that may not be in her favor.
Overall, "Age" is a poignant and affecting take on a relationship that's caught between desire, frustration, and social norms. The singer is trying to figure out what she wants, and she's not always sure of the answer. It's honest, vulnerable, and musically rich, making it a standout track for Lianne La Havas.
Line by Line Meaning
Why do I love him? He don't love back
I question why I have feelings for someone who does not reciprocate my love.
When I call his name, he turns his back
He ignores me when I try to get his attention.
The weather is growing cold
The environment is changing and becoming less favorable.
And I want him back again
Despite the circumstances, I still desire his love and attention.
I kinda know this other guy but he's rather
I am aware of another person, but he has a particular attribute that makes him unsuitable.
Old enough to be my father
The other guy is significantly older than me, perhaps making the relationship inappropriate.
So he's not the one for me
I conclude that the other guy is not a suitable partner for me.
'Cause I fancy younger men
I am attracted to men who are younger than me.
I'm at a loss
I am unsure of what to do or how to proceed.
Not a coincidence he left me because
It was not by chance that my previous partner left me.
My older man
My former partner was significantly older than me.
Was ready to love me like the woman that I am
Despite our age difference, my former partner was willing and able to love me as a mature woman.
So is it such a problem if he's old?
I ask if it is truly an issue if my partner is significantly older than me.
As long as he does whatever he's told
If my partner is obedient and compliant, is his age really a concern?
I'm glad that it's just my heart that he stole
Fortunately, my partner only took my heart and not my dignity or self-respect.
And left my dignity alone
My partner did not damage my pride or honor.
When in Rome we landed our first kiss
I recall the moment my partner and I shared our first intimate moment together.
I slurred my words but he pretended not to notice
Despite my nervousness and imperfections, my partner was kind and did not judge me.
And then he sat down to play
My partner began to perform music, expressing his creativity and passion.
My heart sang a symphony
My heart was filled with emotion and love, just like a musical symphony.
So far, so swimmingly
Our relationship has been progressing smoothly and successfully so far.
I'm glad I got up to find my fish in that sea
I am content that I took the initiative to find my perfect partner among many other options.
We've come so far
Our relationship has developed and grown over time.
So who gives a damn about the ages we are
Age is not important or significant when it comes to love and relationships.
I know I'm gonna survive the December cold
I will be able to endure the harsh and difficult times that may come our way.
With somebody to retrieve my long lost soul
Having a partner to love and support me helps me to recover my lost sense of self.
With somebody to retrieve my long lost soul
Having a partner to love and support me helps me to recover my lost sense of self.
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: LIANNE CHARLOTTE BARNES, MATT HALES
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