Friend Of Mine
Lily Allen Lyrics


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I don't want us to have a fight
But in the background
I can hear you chatting shite
I hear it every night
And you think you're being really cool
And you've been doing it
Since we were both at school
Now who looks like a fool

You're no friend of mine, girl
And I've known it for a while, girl
You're just a waste of time, girl
Why don't you have another line, girl?

Tell me what did you expect
Have you got no self respect?
Reputation to protect?
Soon you'll be a nervous wreck
Tell me what did you expect
Have you got no self respect?
Reputation to protect?
Soon you'll be a nervous wreck

What happened to the good old days?
I was kinda hoping this was all a stupid phase
Who are you anyway?

I know you've heard this all before
I know some people who are calling you a whore
Don't know you anymore

You're no friend of mine, girl
And I've known it for a while, girl
You're just a waste of time, girl
Why don't you have another line, girl?

Tell me what did you expect
Have you got no self respect?
Reputation to protect?
Soon you'll be a nervous wreck
Tell me what did you expect
Have you got no self respect?
Reputation to protect?
Soon you'll be a nervous wreck

Tell me what did you expect
Have you got no self respect?
Reputation to protect?
Soon you'll be a nervous wreck
Tell me what did you expect
Have you got no self respect?




Reputation to protect?
Soon you'll be a nervous wreck

Overall Meaning

The song "Friend Of Mine" by Lily Allen is a scathing rebuke of a former friend who has become unreliable, untrustworthy and self-destructive. The lyrics are both angry and sad, as Allen expresses her disappointment and frustration with someone she used to love and trust. The song is about a friend who has lost her way and become a toxic influence, spreading gossip and lies behind Allen's back. She warns her ex-friend that her behavior will catch up with her, and that she will end up alone unless she changes her ways. The chorus is particularly biting, as Allen sings "You're no friend of mine, girl / And I've known it for a while, girl / You're just a waste of time, girl / Why don't you have another line, girl?" It's a stark reminder that sometimes the people we care about the most can end up hurting us the most.


The verses amplify Allen's frustration with her friend's behavior. She can hear her talking "shite" in the background, and knows that this has been going on for years. She asks rhetorically "What happened to the good old days?" and wonders how her friend could change so much. Despite her hurt and anger, however, Allen still cares about her former friend, and tries to impart some wisdom. She tells her that she needs to have more self-respect and protect her reputation if she wants to avoid becoming a "nervous wreck".


In conclusion, "Friend Of Mine" is a powerful song about the pain of losing a friend. It's a reminder that even the strongest bonds can be broken by toxicity and betrayal. The song is a standout from Lily Allen's debut album "Alright, Still", showcasing her talent for writing catchy, witty and heartfelt songs.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't want us to have a fight
I don't want to argue with you


But in the background
However, something is bothering me


I can hear you chatting shite
I can hear you talking nonsense


I hear it every night
It's constantly in my head


And you think you're being really cool
You think you're impressing someone


And you've been doing it
You've been acting this way


Since we were both at school
Since we were young


Now who looks like a fool
Now who appears foolish


You're no friend of mine, girl
You're not my friend


And I've known it for a while, girl
I've realized this for a long time


You're just a waste of time, girl
You're not worth my time


Why don't you have another line, girl?
Why don't you do something else with your time?


Tell me what did you expect
What did you think would happen?


Have you got no self respect?
Why don't you respect yourself?


Reputation to protect?
Don't you care about what others think?


Soon you'll be a nervous wreck
Your actions will catch up with you


What happened to the good old days?
When were things simpler?


I was kinda hoping this was all a stupid phase
I hoped this was just temporary behavior


Who are you anyway?
Who are you trying to be?


I know you've heard this all before
I know other people have told you the same


I know some people who are calling you a whore
I know some people are making negative judgements about you


Don't know you anymore
I don't recognize you


Tell me what did you expect
What did you think would happen?


Have you got no self respect?
Why don't you respect yourself?


Reputation to protect?
Don't you care about what others think?


Soon you'll be a nervous wreck
Your actions will catch up with you


Tell me what did you expect
What did you think would happen?


Have you got no self respect?
Why don't you respect yourself?


Reputation to protect?
Don't you care about what others think?


Soon you'll be a nervous wreck
Your actions will catch up with you




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: LILY ROSE BEATRICE ALLEN, IYIOLA BABATUNDE BABALOLA, DARREN EMILIO LEWIS, O'KELLY JR. ISLEY, ERNIE ISLEY, MARVIN ISLEY, RONALD ISLEY, RUDOLPH BERNARD ISLEY, CHRISTOPHER HOWARD JASPER

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