Silent Treatment
Lips Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

You're on your own
I'd like to come meet you and walk you home
But instead I'll stay away
Seems that that's all that you want these days

The light's gone out
I feel like I'm crawling around in the dark
When you don't say what you mean
It's clear that we're falling apart at the seams

How can you hold me while feeding me lies?
How could you be keeping all these secrets buried deep inside?
Why can't you see that you push me away?
I'm getting further with every word that you forget to say
How can you hold me and treat me this way?

The pull is gone
I don't know why I'm still holding on
I can't read your mind
I'm hoping that things will improve with time

How can you hold me while feeding me lies?
How could you be keeping all these secrets buried deep inside? (Buried deep inside)
Why can't you see that (can't you see that) you push me away? (Push me away)
I'm getting further with every word that you forget to say (forget to say)
How can you hold me and treat me this way?

I saw you veering off the road
(Why do you act this way?)
I couldn't carry on alone
(Throwing my love away)
I never asked for a reason
Instead I chose to hope that I had things wrong
And that things would somehow turn around
And change, I hope that things will change

But how can you hold me while feeding me lies?
How could you be keeping all these secrets buried deep inside? (Buried deep inside)
Why can't you see that (why can't you see that) you push me away? (Push me away)
I'm getting further with every word that you forget to say (forget to say)
How can you hold me and treat me this way?

(Talk to me, talk to me) how can you hold me?
(Talk to me, talk to me) how can you hold me?




(Talk to me, talk to me) how can you hold me?
(Talk to me, talk to me)

Overall Meaning

In "Silent Treatment," Lips sings about feeling alone in a failing relationship, where their partner is withholding communication and hiding their true emotions. The first verse establishes the desire to connect with their partner but feeling shut out instead. The second verse suggests that the lack of communication is causing them to drift apart and highlights the frustration and confusion of being held by someone who is feeding them lies and keeping secrets. The chorus questions how their partner can hold them while treating them so poorly and pushing them away with each unspoken word.


As the song progresses, the lyrics become more intense and expressive of Lips' desire for communication and understanding. In the second half of the song, Lips sings about seeing their partner veering off the road, and the metaphor suggests that their relationship is heading for disaster. The bridge expresses the hope that things may change, but ultimately they are left feeling alone and desperate for their partner to talk to them. The repetition of "Talk to me" at the end of the song highlights the need for communication and the frustration of being ignored.


Overall, "Silent Treatment" is a song about the pain of being shut out by someone you love and the need for communication and honesty in a relationship. The lyrics express a sense of loneliness and frustration that many people can relate to and demonstrate Lips' emotional depth as a songwriter.


Line by Line Meaning

You're on your own
You are alone in this situation.


I'd like to come meet you and walk you home
I wish to offer my support and companionship by walking you home.


But instead I'll stay away
However, I will refrain from intervening.


Seems that that's all that you want these days
It appears you desire solitude, and that is what you are receiving.


The light's gone out
Our relationship has lost its brightness and intensity.


I feel like I'm crawling around in the dark
I am lost and confused because of your lack of communication.


When you don't say what you mean
Your silence or dishonesty is causing misunderstandings and problems.


It's clear that we're falling apart at the seams
Our relationship is disintegrating due to the lack of honesty and communication.


How can you hold me while feeding me lies?
I do not understand how you can continue to be affectionate while deceiving me.


How could you be keeping all these secrets buried deep inside?
I am confused and hurt by your unwillingness to open up and share your thoughts and feelings.


Why can't you see that you push me away?
Your behavior is causing distance and a lack of emotional connection between us.


I'm getting further with every word that you forget to say
The more you withhold or lie, the more distant I become.


The pull is gone
The attraction between us has vanished.


I don't know why I'm still holding on
Despite the issues, I am still trying to make the relationship work.


I can't read your mind
I cannot understand your thoughts and emotions without proper communication.


I'm hoping that things will improve with time
I am optimistic that our issues can be worked through and our relationship can improve in the future.


I saw you veering off the road
I noticed you behaving erratically or wrongly.


(Why do you act this way?)
(I am questioning why you behave in this manner.)


I couldn't carry on alone
I cannot continue to try and make the relationship work by myself.


(Throwing my love away)
(Your behavior is causing me to feel like you are disregarding my affection.)


I never asked for a reason
I never demanded an explanation or justification for your actions.


Instead I chose to hope that I had things wrong
I hoped that perhaps I was mistaken about the issues in our relationship.


And that things would somehow turn around
I clung to the hope that our issues could be resolved and our connection would improve.


But how can you hold me while feeding me lies?
I am still perplexed by your ability to be physically affectionate while being dishonest.


How could you be keeping all these secrets buried deep inside?
I am frustrated and hurt by your reluctance to share your innermost thoughts and feelings with me.


(Buried deep inside)
(Your secrets and lies are troubling and causing damage to our relationship.)


Why can't you see that (why can't you see that) you push me away? (Push me away)
I am pleading with you to recognize how your actions, or lack thereof, are hurting the relationship and causing separation.


I'm getting further with every word that you forget to say (forget to say)
The more you withhold or hide, the more we drift apart and the harder it is to reconnect.


(Talk to me, talk to me) how can you hold me?
(I urge you to please communicate with me so that we can work on our relationship.)


(Talk to me, talk to me) how can you hold me?
(I need you to talk to me and express yourself honestly so that we can rebuild our connection.)




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Steph Brown, Fen Ikner, Kimbra Johnson

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Lord of the Woods

Yes, yes, YES, GIRL!

Classic Kimbra.
Never stray from your natural trajectory; never compare yourself to anyone else... because there IS * NO * COMPARISON!
The true "Kimbra Genre" is not even CLOSE to anything I'm normally drawn to, but the artistry and uniqueness pulls me in (e.g., "Settle Down" is a TRIP!).

And, my GOD, those LIPS! May I dream?

P.S., If there EVER IS a re-make of the movie "Antony and Cleopatra", I nominate Kimbra, as she appeared in the "Somebody That I Used To Know" video, as the female lead... KILLER CASTING CHOICE!



All comments from YouTube:

Pao Hudson

This woman sings beautiful I do not know why she does not have so many views .. Mexico Present ! 🇲🇽 ❤️

Shel Parks

KIMBRA so versatile. And her 40',s type vibe and sound is hypnotizing, and I melt to everything she does.

Nancy Offenhiser

Kimbra, You just keep getting better and better! Love from a fan in the States 😘

Paul Monticelli

I agree

Paul Monticelli

She is amazing

goo

@Mark Angelo L. Escleto No! :)

1 More Replies...

Jimmy Cothren

There simply aren't words for how underappreciated Kimbra is.

Paul Monticelli

She is just an amazing talent.
She keeps getting better and better.

daisy barrett

Beautiful voice. Beautiful visuals. Amazing as usual

oyesuken

Amazing voice, always full of passion.

More Comments

More Versions