Takes A Woman to Know
Lisa Stansfield Lyrics


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Guess you think that you're cool
Guess you think that you're smart
Guess you think you can tie up my heart
With a ribbon and pull it apart

You don't wanna get down
You don't wanna go deep
Well, I told you I love you
But baby, I figured that you were asleep

If you were a man
You'd walk out that door
Tell me love is a crazy game
We've played it before

If you were a man
You'd get up and go
'Coz you know what it takes
Takes a woman to know

Did you think that I'd wait
With my arms open wide?
When I saw that it's over
I saw it was written right there in your eyes

You don't wanna get down
You don't wanna go deep
Well, I told you I love you
But baby, I figured that you were asleep

If you were a man
You'd walk out that door
Tell me love is a crazy game
We've played it before

If you were a man
You'd get up and go
'Coz you know what it takes
Takes a woman to know

Takes a woman, takes a woman
Takes a woman to know
Takes a woman, takes a woman
Takes a woman to know

Well, I wanted you forever, babe
But that ain't your style
So next time I'm kissing you
I'll be kissing you goodbye, yeah

If you were a man
You'd walk out that door
Tell me love is a crazy game
We've played it before

If you were a man
You'd get up and go
'Coz you know what it takes
Takes a woman to know




Takes a woman to know
Takes a woman to know

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Lisa Stansfield's song "Takes a Woman to Know" speak to the idea that men can be emotionally unavailable while women have a greater understanding of love and relationships. The song suggests that the singer has been involved with a man who is not willing to commit or go deeper in the relationship. She expresses her frustration with him, saying that if he were a man, he would walk out the door and acknowledge the truth about the relationship. However, she also suggests that women are better equipped to navigate the complexities of love and understand the emotional needs of a partner.


The chorus, "Takes a woman to know," reinforces this idea, suggesting that women are more in tune with their emotions and those of others. The song also portrays a sense of power, as the singer encourages the man to leave if he is not willing to commit. Overall, the lyrics suggest that women have a greater understanding of love and relationships, and that men would benefit from trusting and acknowledging the emotional intelligence of women.


Line by Line Meaning

Guess you think that you're cool
You seem to believe that you are impressive or desirable in some way.


Guess you think that you're smart
You appear to think that you are intelligent and knowledgeable.


Guess you think you can tie up my heart With a ribbon and pull it apart
You possibly imagine that you can easily capture and break my heart.


You don't wanna get down You don't wanna go deep Well, I told you I love you But baby, I figured that you were asleep
You seem unwilling to engage in a true, meaningful relationship despite my declaration of love towards you.


If you were a man You'd walk out that door Tell me love is a crazy game We've played it before
If you had the maturity and courage of a man, you would leave and acknowledge that love can be unpredictable and has caused us trouble in the past.


If you were a man You'd get up and go 'Coz you know what it takes Takes a woman to know
If you possessed the qualities often associated with being a man, you would leave because only a woman like me truly understands the complexities and demands of love and emotional connections.


Did you think that I'd wait With my arms open wide? When I saw that it's over I saw it was written right there in your eyes
You expected me to wait eagerly and patiently for you, but when I looked into your eyes, I recognized that our romance had come to an end.


Takes a woman, takes a woman Takes a woman to know Takes a woman, takes a woman Takes a woman to know
Only a woman can truly comprehend the intricacies of love and emotional connections.


Well, I wanted you forever, babe But that ain't your style So next time I'm kissing you I'll be kissing you goodbye, yeah
I had hoped to have a long-lasting, committed relationship with you, but it seems that is not what you want. Therefore, the next time we kiss will be our last.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: CHARLIE DORE, TERRY BRITTEN

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