How Can I Tell Her
Lobo Lyrics


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She knows when I'm lonesome, she cries when I'm sad
She's up in the good times, she's down in the bad
Whenever I'm discouraged, she knows just what to do
But, girl, she doesn't know about you

I can tell her my troubles, she makes them all seem right
I can make up excuses not to hold her at night
We can talk of tomorrow, I'll tell her things that I want to do
But, girl, how can I tell her about you?

How can I tell her about you?
Girl, please tell me what to do
Everything seems right whenever I'm with you
So, girl, won't you tell me how to tell her about you? Oh-whoa

How can I tell her I don't miss her whenever I'm away?
How can I say it's you I think of every single night and day?
But when is it easy telling someone we're through
Ah, girl, help me tell her about you

How can I tell her about you?
Girl, please tell me what to do
Everything seems right whenever I'm with you
So, girl, won't you tell me how to tell her about you? Oh-whoa





Oh-whoa
(Oh-whoa)

Overall Meaning

The song "How Can I Tell Her About You" by Lobo is about a man who is torn between two women. The first woman is his current girlfriend, who is always there for him through thick and thin, and who he can talk to about anything. The second woman, who is not named in the lyrics, is the woman he really loves, but he doesn't know how to tell his girlfriend about her.


The first verse of the song describes how the man's girlfriend is always there for him, and how she can sense when he's sad or lonely. She knows just what to say or do to make him feel better. However, the man is struggling with his feelings for another woman, and he doesn't know how to tell his girlfriend about her.


The second verse talks about how the man can confide in his girlfriend and make excuses to not hold her at night, but he still can't bring himself to tell her about the other woman. He's torn between his feelings for both women and is unsure of what to do next.


Line by Line Meaning

She knows when I'm lonesome, she cries when I'm sad
My partner is highly empathetic towards my emotions and always there for me, even in my low moments


She's up in the good times, she's down in the bad
My partner is constantly supportive of me through thick and thin


Whenever I'm discouraged, she knows just what to do
My partner is always aware of what to do to soothe me when I feel disheartened, and aids me in overcoming the hurdle


But, girl, she doesn't know about you
All of her efforts to comfort me are ultimately futile since she doesn't know about your presence and significance in my life


I can tell her my troubles, she makes them all seem right
Whenever I share my worries with her, she has the ability to calm me down and put things into perspective


I can make up excuses not to hold her at night
Although I am still able to avoid intimacy with her by providing invalid rationales for not holding her


We can talk of tomorrow, I'll tell her things that I want to do
We discuss our future aspirations and I verbalize my future plans with her


But, girl, how can I tell her about you?
Regardless of how much I have shared with her, there is no way for me to talk to her about the impact you have on my life


How can I tell her about you?
Please help me come up with a way to communicate your importance to her


Girl, please tell me what to do
Requesting help and guidance from the person whom I have these complicated feelings for


Everything seems right whenever I'm with you
Being surrounded by you makes everything feel so much better and easier to tackle


So, girl, won't you tell me how to tell her about you? Oh-whoa
I need your help in figuring out how to discuss our unique relational dynamics with her




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Written by: Kent Lavoie

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