Wife and Mother
Lord Kitchener Lyrics


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If your mother and your wife are drowning
I want to no which one you would be saving
If your mother and your wife are drowning
I want to no which one you would be saving
Well for me I'm holding on to my mother
And my wife she will have to excuse,
Kitchener I can always get another wife
but I can never get another mother in life
I heard some men saying around the corner
That they rather their lawful wife than their mother
I ask them the reason, this what they answer
They can romance their wife but not their mother
Well my wife can be flourishing in pool of
gold, but my mother comes first in this blessed world
Course I can always get another wife but
I can never get another mother in my life
If there is a quarrel with you and your mother,
she may be mad, but still consider over the matter
Don't care how hasty that your mother maybe,
she will never try to make that little talk so lengthy
But your wife from the time you have a roll
with her, She's gone with somebody to America
So I can always get another wife but I
can never get another mother in my life

This is what I got to say openly,
to compare your mother with your wife is crazy
Your wife is like a little lam in front
you, she pretend to be loving, reliable and true
But go to the bathroom to sponge your
face, when you return another man in your place
So I can always get another wife but I




can never get another mother in my life
End .

Overall Meaning

Lord Kitchener's song "Wife and Mother" discusses the importance of a man's relationship with both his wife and his mother and the choice he may have to make if they were in danger. The song begins by asking the question of which one a man would save if they were drowning, his mother or his wife. Kitchener then shares his own personal choice, stating that he would hold onto his mother and his wife would have to excuse him. He argues that while he can always get another wife, he can never get another mother in life.


The lyrics go on to challenge the idea that some men may prefer their wife over their mother, claiming that they can romance their wife but not their mother. Kitchener argues that while a wife may be flourishing in a pool of gold, his mother comes first in this blessed world. He suggests that in the event of a quarrel, a man should always consider and reconcile with his mother, noting that she will never make a little talk lengthy like a wife might. Kitchener concludes the song by stating that comparing a mother to a wife is crazy, as a wife can pretend to be loving and true, but a man can never get another mother in his life.


Overall, Lord Kitchener's "Wife and Mother" encourages men to value and prioritize their relationship with their mother while also acknowledging the importance of their relationship with their wife.


Line by Line Meaning

If your mother and your wife are drowning
Lord Kitchener poses a hypothetical scenario in which a man's wife and mother are drowning and asks whom the man would try to save.


I want to no which one you would be saving
Kitchener expresses his curiosity about the man's decision in the aforementioned scenario.


Well for me I'm holding on to my mother
Kitchener states that, in his own case, he would choose to save his mother.


And my wife she will have to excuse,
Kitchener acknowledges that his wife may not be happy with his decision but he is willing to face her displeasure.


Kitchener I can always get another wife
Kitchener notes that he could easily find another wife if necessary.


but I can never get another mother in life
Kitchener emphasizes the irreplaceable nature of a mother in one's life.


I heard some men saying around the corner
Kitchener shares a conversation that he overheard among some men.


That they rather their lawful wife than their mother
Kitchener relays the conclusion of the conversation that some men would choose to save their wife over their mother.


I ask them the reason, this what they answer
Kitchener clarifies that he asked the men for their reasoning behind their decision.


They can romance their wife but not their mother
The men justify their decision by stating that they have a romantic relationship with their wife that they do not have with their mother.


Well my wife can be flourishing in pool of gold,
Kitchener acknowledges that his wife may have material wealth and abundance.


but my mother comes first in this blessed world
Kitchener reaffirms that his mother holds a higher place in his life than his wife.


Course I can always get another wife but
Kitchener reiterates that he could easily find another wife if necessary.


I can never get another mother in my life
Kitchener emphasizes again the unique and irreplaceable role of a mother in one's life.


If there is a quarrel with you and your mother,
Kitchener brings up a situation in which a man may be in conflict with his mother.


she may be mad, but still consider over the matter
Kitchener suggests that a mother, even if angry, will still thoughtfully consider the issue at hand.


Don't care how hasty that your mother maybe,
Kitchener acknowledges that a mother may act hastily at times.


she will never try to make that little talk so lengthy
Despite acting impulsively at times, a mother will not prolong a minor disagreement needlessly.


But your wife from the time you have a roll
Kitchener contrasts a mother's behavior in a quarrel with a wife's behavior.


with her, She's gone with somebody to America
Kitchener implies that a wife may use any opportunity to leave a husband, even during a minor disagreement.


So I can always get another wife but I
Kitchener repeats his conviction that finding another wife would not be difficult.


can never get another mother in my life
Kitchener reminds the listener of the unique and irreproducible role of a mother in one's life.


This is what I got to say openly,
Kitchener begins his concluding thoughts.


to compare your mother with your wife is crazy
Kitchener expresses his belief that it is foolish to compare the role and importance of a mother with that of a wife.


Your wife is like a little lam in front
Kitchener uses a simile to describe a wife as vulnerable and easily influenced.


you, she pretend to be loving, reliable and true
Despite this vulnerability, a wife may act as if she is loving and trustworthy.


But go to the bathroom to sponge your face,
Kitchener uses a hypothetical example to illustrate a wife's untrustworthiness.


when you return another man in your place
The implication is that a wife may cheat on her husband while he is away, even for a few minutes.


So I can always get another wife but I
Kitchener repeats his belief that finding another wife would be easy.


can never get another mother in my life
Kitchener reminds the listener of the unique and irreplaceable role of a mother in one's life.


End .
Kitchener concludes his song.




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@MrDanielphenix

Great lyrics, fine humour, music fits perfectly....and a favorite of Kevin Ayers...that says it all

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