In the first verse, Lorde sets the scene of a night out with her friends, where she notices the contrast between her self-control and someone else's lack thereof. This individual may have lost their way, perhaps due to a prolonged absence of apologies and the inability to confront their own mistakes. Lorde's observation of them crying in the dark at parties suggests their inner turmoil and a longing for something more fulfilling. The line "Guess it's been a while since you last said sorry" speaks to the emotional distance they have created.
The pre-chorus reflects on the passage of time and the unexpected nature of growing up. Lorde highlights the significance of personal agency and self-motivation, emphasizing that while others may wish the best for us, we must ultimately strive for our own happiness and fulfillment. The line "You can take 'em if you want 'em, these are just" implies that the secrets Lorde possesses are a result of her experiences and observations, meant to offer wisdom rather than impose them onto others.
The chorus itself is a declaration of Lorde's acquired wisdom and insights, encapsulated in the secrets she has gathered as a girl who has seen it all. These secrets carry a weight of knowledge and understanding that only comes through years of lived experiences. Lorde acknowledges her own growth and the wisdom she has gained, positioning herself as someone who can offer guidance to others.
In the second verse, Lorde touches upon the pain of rejection and the misconceptions one might have about grief before experiencing true loss. She conveys a message of hope and resilience, encouraging the listener to embrace vulnerability in order to love again. The lines "Baby girl, no one's gonna feel the pain for you" demonstrate the necessity of self-reliance in healing and moving forward.
The following pre-chorus reinforces the idea that dreams and aspirations should not be underestimated. Lorde encourages trust in one's inner visions and mystical ambitions, emphasizing the importance of self-belief. The repetition of the line "Couldn't wait to turn fifteen, then you just go" showcases a longing for the past while acknowledging the inevitability of progression and change.
The spoken outro by Robyn adds a unique element to the song, contributing to its introspective nature. It welcomes the listener to a place of sadness and emotional exploration, likening it to a journey. Robyn metaphorically describes emotional baggage and the need to be mindful of its impact on those we care about. She assures the listener that they will be fine and that they can take their time to process and become familiar with their emotions. The reference to a sunrise by euphoria mixed with existential vertigo expresses the complexity and beauty that can be found in the exploration of profound feelings.
Overall, "Secrets from a Girl (Who's Seen It All)" delves into the depth and complexity of personal growth, resilience, and self-discovery. Lorde's lyrics navigate various emotions, from vulnerability and pain to hope and empowerment. Through her own experiences, she offers insights and advice, serving as a guiding light for those who are on their own journey of self-discovery.
Secrets from a Girl
Lorde Lyrics
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It's a funny thing, thought you'd never gain self control
Guess it's been a while since you last said sorry
Crying in the dark at your best friends' parties
You've had enough, gotta turn the lights up, go home
Couldn't wait to turn fifteen
Then you blink and it's been ten years
Everybody wants the best for you
But you gotta want it for yourself
My love
You can take 'em if you want 'em, these are just
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it
Secrets from a girl
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
Secrets from a girl (secrets from a girl)
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
'Member all the hurt you would feel when you weren't desired?
(Doing anything for more touch)
'Member what you thought was grief before you got the call?
Baby girl, no one's gonna feel the pain for you
You're gonna love again, so just try staying open
And when the time comes, you'll fall
Yeah, when the time comes, you'll fall
Your dreams and inner visions, all your mystical ambitions
They won't let you down
Do your best to trust all the rays of light
Everybody wants the best for you
But you gotta want it for yourself
My love
Couldn't wait to turn fifteen, then you just go
(Whoosh)
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
Secrets from a girl
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
Secrets from a girl (secrets from a girl)
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
Welcome to sadness
The temperature is unbearable until you face it
Thank you for flying with Strange Airlines
I will be your tour guide today
Your emotional baggage can be picked up at carousel number 2
Please be careful so that it doesn't fall onto someone you love
When we've reached your final destination
I will leave you to it
You'll be fine
I'm just gonna show you in
And you can stay as long as you need
To get familiar with the feeling
And then when you're ready, I'll be outside
And we can go look at the sunrise
By euphoria mixed with existential vertigo?
Cool
The lyrics to Lorde’s song “Secrets from a Girl” shows a range of emotions and experiences that come with growing up. The first verse talks about going out with friends, enjoying the night with only two drinks then leaving when it's time to go home. It's a funny thing when you finally realize that you have gained self-control, something that the singer thought would never happen. However, as the singer notes in the next line, it has been a while since someone has said sorry, perhaps indicating that some apologies are overdue. The second verse reflects on growing up and how quickly time can pass, and how growing up happens little by little until one day it seems to happen all at once. The bridge of the song reminds the listener that pain is inevitable, but that the best way to move on is to stay open to love and trust the rays of light.
The song shows how, as we grow older, we begin to see the world and ourselves differently, through both positive and negative experiences. It is an ode to the lessons learned throughout life, the hurt we've experienced, the growth that has come with time, and the trust we must continue to maintain in order to move forward.
Line by Line Meaning
Dancing with my girls, only having two drinks then leaving
I am having fun and enjoying the company of my friends, but I am responsible and know when to stop and go home.
It's a funny thing, thought you'd never gain self control
I used to have trouble controlling my impulses and actions, but now I have gained self-control and am proud of myself.
Guess it's been a while since you last said sorry
You have not apologized in a long time, and it's time to make amends with those you have wronged.
Crying in the dark at your best friends' parties
I sometimes feel sad and overwhelmed even when I am surrounded by people I care about.
You've had enough, gotta turn the lights up, go home
I know when I have had enough and it's time to leave and go home to take care of myself.
Couldn't wait to turn fifteen
I used to be excited to grow up and gain independence.
Then you blink and it's been ten years
Time passes quickly, and it's important to cherish the moments before they are gone.
Growing up a little at a time then all at once
I am constantly changing and maturing, and sometimes it happens gradually and other times it happens suddenly.
Everybody wants the best for you, but you gotta want it for yourself
I have a supportive network who wants good things for me, but ultimately I need to have the drive and desire to achieve my goals.
My love
A term of affection and endearment.
You can take 'em if you want 'em, these are just
I am sharing some personal truths, but they are not meant to be taken as advice or instructions.
Secrets from a girl, who's seen it all
I am sharing my experiences and insights gained from living through various situations.
Remember all the hurt you would feel when you weren't desired?
I remember the pain I felt when I was rejected or not wanted by someone I cared about.
'Member what you thought was grief before you got the call?
I thought I knew what grief felt like, but it wasn't until I experienced it firsthand that I truly understood it.
Baby girl, no one's gonna feel the pain for you
I need to take responsibility for my own emotional pain and healing, and not expect others to fix it for me.
You're gonna love again, so just try staying open
I have experienced heartbreak before, but I should not close myself off to the possibility of love in the future.
And when the time comes, you'll fall
When I am ready, I will be able to fall in love again.
Your dreams and inner visions, all your mystical ambitions, they won't let you down
I have dreams and aspirations that may seem unrealistic to others, but I believe in them and will not let criticism or doubt bring me down.
Do your best to trust all the rays of light
I should have faith and trust in the positive things and people in my life.
Welcome to sadness
I acknowledge and accept that sadness is a part of life.
The temperature is unbearable until you face it
Emotional pain can be overwhelming, but it is important to confront and process it in order to move past it.
Thank you for flying with Strange Airlines
A metaphor for navigating through the ups and downs of life's unexpected journey.
I will be your tour guide today
I will offer my perspective and insights to help guide you through difficult times.
Your emotional baggage can be picked up at carousel number 2
A humorous way of acknowledging that everyone has emotional baggage that they carry with them.
Please be careful so that it doesn't fall onto someone you love
When we carry emotional baggage, it can affect our relationships with others, so it is important to handle it with care.
When we've reached your final destination, I will leave you to it
I can offer support and guidance, but ultimately each person is responsible for their own emotional journey.
You'll be fine
An assurance that despite the challenges we face in life, we have the strength to get through them.
I'm just gonna show you in
I'm going to give you a glimpse into my experiences and emotions to help you feel less alone.
And you can stay as long as you need to get familiar with the feeling
It is important to take the time we need to process our emotions and become comfortable with them.
And then when you're ready, I'll be outside
I will be there to offer support and encouragement when you are ready to move forward and face the world again.
And we can go look at the sunrise
A metaphor for starting a new day with a fresh perspective and renewed hope.
By euphoria mixed with existential vertigo?
A reference to the feeling of being both excited and overwhelmed by life's possibilities and uncertainties.
Cool
An expression of nonchalant acceptance, as if to say 'It's okay, I got this.'
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Ella Marija Lani Yelich O'Connor, Jack Michael Antonoff, Robin Miriam Carlsson
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@andrew_koala2974
Every'one'
NOT every'body'
You will find every body in the cemetery
Learn that 'One' is unique
One is the Cardinal Number
One is alive
One is irreplaceable
There has NEVER been One like YOU before you were born
There will never be another One like you after you die
One is the number of Souls you have
So learn the importance and significance of "One'
Every'body' is the same - Rotten and stinking after four days
@ivansit0TV
Self love is:
Remember all the hurt you would feel when you weren’t desired?
Remember what you thought was grief before you got the call?
Baby girl, no one’s gonna feel the pain for you
You’re gonna love again, so just try staying open
And when the time comes, you’ll fall
But self love is also:
I care for myself the way I used to care about you.
@AndyZaturno
I love it that she did not give up on Solar Power and the production of new music videos after the poor reception of the lead single. I personally loved it, Solar power, The Path and Stoned at the nail salon are my favorite. Good Job Lorde.
@samuelbonaya7368
https://youtu.be/r_G0xPVSUEI
@AndyZaturno
@@trevortroopa968 I'm Jewish, there's not such thing as "Jesus" in this household.
@crackk7618
Stoned at the nail salon when stoned is good too.i have done it.was soo calming.
@samsamsimmy6293
OMG very this... so glad Lorde did not give up 👏👏
@trevortroopa968
@@AndyZaturno You should study Daniel and you’ll find out the year The Christ was prophesied to be baptized and to be cut off from among the living. The years add up to 30 AD and 33 AD. And nobody was more known than Jesus. So if you’re really Jewish then you should know that means He’s the Christ.
@seankenny5737
the inner child healing happening through this song is so powerful, especially for those of us who have grown up alongside Lordes music. I also lived that journey of awkward jaded teen, to heartbroken party animal, to healed crunchy stoner. ilysm lorde
@meghansullivan6812
word
@Fresahippie
Preach
@gsiya4023
IKR?
I feel kinda sad for the girl running around happily and the grown up versions just don't