The Sadness Of It All
Loretta Lynn Lyrics


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She works day and night in a dingy cafe
Feedin' locals and passers by
She never complains of a heartache and pain
But sometimes she breaks down to cry
And her honky tonk husband spends most of his time
Drinking whiskey and watching TV
And now rumor has it he's foolin' around
But the rumor she she does not believe

And the sadness of that all is I could fall
Like rain from the sky for you
Sadness of that all is I could fall
Like rain from the sky for you

Each night at nine around closin' time
He drops by to say hello
We sit down and talk and go for walk
It gets just as far as it goes





And the sadness of it all...
And the sadness of it all...

Overall Meaning

In Loretta Lynn's song "The Sadness Of It All", the lyrics describe the story of a waitress who works tirelessly at a gloomy cafe, feeding locals and travelers, while bearing the pain and heartache silently. She occasionally breaks down and cries, but she never complains. Her husband, who also frequents the cafe, spends most of his time drinking whiskey and watching TV. There are rumors that he is having an affair, but the waitress chooses to dismiss them.


The chorus, "And the sadness of it all is I could fall, like rain from the sky for you," speaks of the waitress's desire to love and be loved, despite the sadness that surrounds her. The lines "Each night at nine around closin' time, He drops by to say hello, We sit down and talk and go for walk, It gets just as far as it goes" suggests that there is another man who comes to the cafe, who shows interest in the waitress, but their relationship does not progress any further.


The song's lyrics are heartbreaking and relatable, exploring the themes of love and heartbreak, loneliness and hope, and the desire for something more, despite the sadness and despair that surrounds us.


Line by Line Meaning

She works day and night in a dingy cafe
She spends long hours working in a less than desirable setting serving the locals and those passing through


Feedin' locals and passers by
She provides sustenance and nourishment for the people in her community and those just passing through


She never complains of a heartache and pain
Despite internal struggles, she never vocalizes her emotional turmoil


But sometimes she breaks down to cry
However, every so often her emotions spill over and she succumbs to crying in private


And her honky tonk husband spends most of his time
Her spouse spends the majority of his days at the honky tonk bar


Drinking whiskey and watching TV
He passes the time by consuming alcohol and watching television


And now rumor has it he's foolin' around
There are whispers that he is unfaithful to her


But the rumor she does not believe
Despite what she hears, she doesn't believe the rumors of his infidelity


Each night at nine around closin' time
Around the time the cafe closes, he comes to visit her each night


He drops by to say hello
He stops by to simply greet her


We sit down and talk and go for walk
They spend their time in conversation and taking strolls


It gets just as far as it goes
However, their relationship doesn't advance beyond this point


And the sadness of it all...
Despite the struggles she deals with, her sadness runs deeper


And the sadness of it all...
Her sadness is all consuming and pervasive




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