Betrayed
Lou Reed Lyrics


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Betrayed, by the one who says she loves you
By the one who says she needs you - above all other men
Betrayed, by her fragile, vicious beauty
Her father did his duty and I lie down betrayed

Justice taught her confidence, her mother was like steel
Her cousins, they're all convicts
She alone rose above that wheel
But a motorcyclist, no matter how good
Is slave to the oncoming truck
And the poison of her father was her most pitiless luck

Betrayed, by the one who says she loves you
By the one who says she needs you - above all other men
Betrayed, by her fragile, vicious beauty
Her father did his duty and I lay down betrayed

Three of us lie in his bed - night of infamy
One of us lies on our back - her father's in her head
And quick she turns and slaps my face
And with her eyes open wide she screams
I hate you, I hate you, I hate you
But she's looking right by me

Betrayed, by the one who says she loves you
By the one who says she needs you - above all other men




Betrayed, by her fragile, vicious beauty
Her father did his duty and I lie down betrayed

Overall Meaning

Lou Reed’s song Betrayed is a powerful representation of the complexities of human emotion and the impact of familial abuse. The lyrics describe the pain and betrayal of a man who is in love with a woman that he believes loves him too. However, he soon discovers that the woman he loves is carrying the scars of abuse inflicted by her father. Despite having risen above her difficult background, she is nevertheless unable to escape the legacy of her father and the harmful impact this has on her relationships.


The lyrics further describe how the woman’s inner turmoil leads her to lash out at the man she loves, causing him further pain and confusion. The song is a poignant commentary on the impact of abuse, the long-lasting effects of trauma and the survival instincts and coping mechanisms that people develop over time. The use of metaphors such as the motorcyclist and the oncoming truck adds depth to the narrative while the vivid descriptions of violence, both physical and emotional, communicate the anguish of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Betrayed, by the one who says she loves you
Feeling betrayed by the person who professed love for you


By the one who says she needs you - above all other men
The person who claimed to need you more than anyone else is the one who betrayed you


Betrayed, by her fragile, vicious beauty
Feeling betrayed by the allure of her fragile yet fiercely attractive nature


Her father did his duty and I lie down betrayed
Betrayed after realizing that the root of her harmful behavior was her father's upbringing


Justice taught her confidence, her mother was like steel
Growing up with a just father made her confident, while her mother's unyielding nature made her strong


Her cousins, they're all convicts
Her relatives were predominantly criminals


She alone rose above that wheel
Despite her background, she managed to break free from the cycle of crime and negativity


But a motorcyclist, no matter how good
Even a skilled motorcyclist is vulnerable to the dangers of the road


Is slave to the oncoming truck
Regardless of skill or ability, a motorcyclist has no control over an impending accident


And the poison of her father was her most pitiless luck
The most unfortunate fact of her life was that the negative influence of her father poisoned her personality


Three of us lie in his bed - night of infamy
Three people, including the singer, shared the same bed one fateful night


One of us lies on our back - her father's in her head
One person, still under the influence of her father's toxic presence, is lying on her back


And quick she turns and slaps my face
Suddenly, she turns around and slaps the singer


And with her eyes open wide she screams
Screaming with her eyes wide open


I hate you, I hate you, I hate you
Repeating the phrase 'I hate you' in a fit of anger


But she's looking right by me
Despite screaming at the artist, she doesn't seem to be looking at him




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BERESFORD ROMEO, LOU REED, TONY ADDIS

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