No Chance
Lou Reed Lyrics


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It must be nice to be steady; it must be nice to be firm
It must be nice never to move off the mark
It must be nice to be dependable and never let anyone down
It must be great to be all the things you're not
It must be great to be all the things that I'm not

I see you in the hospital; your humor is intact
I'm embarrassed by the strength I seem to lack
If I was in your shoes
So strange that I'm not
I'd fold up in a minute and a half
And I didn't get a chance to say goodbye

It must be nice to be normal; it must be nice to be cold
It must be nice not to have to go, oh, up or down
But me, I'm all emotional no matter how I try
You're gone, and I'm still here alive
And I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
No, I didn't get a chance to say goodbye

There are things we say we wish we knew, and in fact we never do
But I'd wish I'd known that you were going to die
Then I wouldn't feel so stupid; such a fool that I didn't call
And I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
I didn't get a chance to say goodbye

No, there's no logic to this - who's picked to stay or go
If you think too hard, it only makes you mad
But your optimism made me think you really had it beat




So I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
I didn't get a chance to say goodbye

Overall Meaning

Lou Reed's song "No Chance" is a poignant reflection on mortality, loss, and missed opportunities for closure. The lyrics capture the singer's envy of someone who is steadfast and predictable in their life, especially when faced with the chaotic and unpredictable reality of human experience. Alongside this, the singer also observes someone they care for in a hospital, and feels ashamed of their own vulnerability in contrast with their friend's courage and resilience. The sense of regret becomes particularly acute when the singer realizes that their friend is going to die, and they are suddenly overwhelmed by feelings of foolishness and missed chances. The closing lines of the song acknowledge the senselessness of trying to make sense of life and death, expressing appreciation for their friend's optimism in the face of adversity, but also acknowledging how little that optimism can do to ease the pain of loss.


The song stems from a place of personal grief for Lou Reed, who lost a number of friends and loved ones to AIDS and related illnesses during the 1980s and 1990s. The lyrics reflect the sense of helplessness and inadequacy that can come with watching someone suffer and die, and the sense of confusion and disbelief that can persist even after they are gone. From a musical standpoint, the song is notable for its spare, elegiac melody and its use of understated instrumentation, including acoustic guitars and subtle percussion. The result is a haunting and deeply moving tribute to the fragility and beauty of life.


Line by Line Meaning

It must be nice to be steady; it must be nice to be firm
It must be comforting to never waver or doubt yourself


It must be nice never to move off the mark
It must be pleasant to always know what you want and never deviate from it


It must be nice to be dependable and never let anyone down
It must feel good to always come through for people without fail


It must be great to be all the things you're not
It must be liberating to not be burdened by the traits and emotions that hold me back


It must be great to be all the things that I'm not
It must be wonderful to possess the qualities that I lack


I see you in the hospital; your humor is intact
I visited you in the hospital and was surprised that you were still able to laugh and joke despite everything


I'm embarrassed by the strength I seem to lack
Your resilience makes me feel ashamed of my own weakness


If I was in your shoes
If I had to go through what you're going through


So strange that I'm not
It's strange that I'm not the one who's sick and dying


I'd fold up in a minute and a half
I would crumble under the weight of what you're enduring in a very short amount of time


And I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
I regret not being able to say goodbye to you before you passed away


It must be nice to be normal; it must be nice to be cold
It must be convenient to not be burdened by the same intense emotions that I experience


It must be nice not to have to go, oh, up or down
It must be soothing to not have the emotional ups and downs that I go through


But me, I'm all emotional no matter how I try
I can't help but be emotional even though I try to put on a brave face


You're gone, and I'm still here alive
You passed away and I'm still here living, which makes me feel guilty


There are things we say we wish we knew, and in fact we never do
There are things we wish we could know, but the truth is we never really will


But I'd wish I'd known that you were going to die
I wish I had known in advance that you were going to pass away


Then I wouldn't feel so stupid; such a fool that I didn't call
If I had known, I wouldn't feel foolish for not calling or saying goodbye


And I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
I regret not being able to have a proper goodbye before you passed away


No, there's no logic to this - who's picked to stay or go
There's no rhyme or reason to who lives and who dies


If you think too hard, it only makes you mad
Overthinking this situation will only drive you crazy


But your optimism made me think you really had it beat
Your positive attitude made me believe that you were going to overcome your illness


So I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
I regret not being able to have a proper goodbye before you passed away




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LOU REED

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