Real Life
Louden Swain Lyrics


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Everybody cares
Everybody listens when they're scared
Makin' their lists
Makin' a fist without you here
Even if we can
Even if we don't quite understand
Only you know me
No one else knows dick about me

I - I'm so inclined to come by
Anytime a glass of wine
Can set us straight
It's a date
It's a real life

These are big shoes
And they feel raw and slightly used
Walk them on down
To the edge of this desolated town
Back up the bus
It's a lonely world but what's the fuss
I think about my dad
He never wanted the son you're looking at

I'm so inclined to come by
Anytime a glass of wine
Can set us straight
It's a date
It's a real life

Humbled by the rush
This clock is set too fast for us
Slow it on down
I realize we all end up in the ground
A surprising task
Procreation, it kicks me in the ass
So here I go
I'm packin' only love down this one-way road

I'm so inclined to come by
Anytime a glass of wine
Can set us straight
It's a date




It's a real life
A real life

Overall Meaning

The song "Real Life" by Louden Swain is about the importance of relationships and taking the time to connect with loved ones, even if it means stepping outside of our comfort zones. The lyrics suggest that everyone needs someone to lean on, especially during times of fear or uncertainty. The opening lines, "Everybody cares, everybody listens when they're scared," imply that people generally want to be there for one another and lend support when it's needed. The chorus, which repeats the phrase "I'm so inclined to come by anytime a glass of wine can set us straight," suggests that breaking bread together and taking the time to talk and share can be a powerful way to build and repair relationships.


The verses of the song delve deeper into the singer's personal struggles and relationships. He reflects on the challenges of walking in someone else's shoes, and the importance of being humble and compassionate. He also mentions his father, who was likely not involved in his life, and how this absence has affected him. The line "He never wanted the son you're looking at" suggests a feeling of rejection and disappointment, and underscores the singer's need for understanding and acceptance.


Overall, "Real Life" is a song about the universal need for human connection and how coming together, even in difficult times, can help us find meaning and purpose in life.


Line by Line Meaning

Everybody cares
Everyone cares about something or someone.


Everybody listens when they're scared
People pay more attention when they are afraid.


Makin' their lists
People make lists of things to do or things they want to accomplish.


Makin' a fist without you here
People are unable to achieve their goals without help sometimes.


Even if we can
Even though we can try.


Even if we don't quite understand
Even if we do not comprehend.


Only you know me
Only you understand me.


No one else knows dick about me
No one else understands me that well.


I - I'm so inclined to come by
I am highly motivated to visit someone in particular.


Anytime a glass of wine
Whenever I can have a glass of wine and relax.


Can set us straight
Can help us regain our composure.


It's a date
We have a specific time set to meet up.


It's a real life
This is happening in reality, not just in our imaginations.


These are big shoes
These are important responsibilities or challenges.


And they feel raw and slightly used
They are difficult and have been tried before.


Walk them on down
Move forward with them.


To the edge of this desolated town
To the point where nothing exists anymore.


Back up the bus
Go back and try again.


It's a lonely world but what's the fuss
The world can be a lonely place, but it is not worth the worry.


I think about my dad
I reflect on my father.


He never wanted the son you're looking at
He never imagined his son to be like how I am currently.


Humbled by the rush
I am humbled by being swept away by events or emotions.


This clock is set too fast for us
Time passes by too quickly for us to keep up.


Slow it on down
Slow down the pace of events.


I realize we all end up in the ground
We all die, in the end.


A surprising task
A difficult and unexpected challenge.


Procreation, it kicks me in the ass
Having children is a difficult and challenging experience.


So here I go
I am about to start.


I'm packin' only love down this one-way road
I am only taking love with me on this one-way journey.


It's a real life
This is all happening in reality.




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