So Loud
Love .45 Lyrics


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You can catch me in our messages
Where she don't reply
I shoulda seen this coming I'm a pessimist
And I don't know why
So baby hold on
Don't let me go too soon
She wont believe anything that I got to say
So I got more to prove
All the silence kills me slowly
Can you be honest for once do you still want me
Cause you don't seem to care at all
Would you pick up if I called
Cause its not easy giving up on you the way that you give up on me

Oh oh
I'm not sorry for the way that I am
I'm fine being an idiot for you
I had you in my hands but you slipped right through
It wasn't part of the plan but what else can I do
Except wait and wait and wait and wait and wait oh yeah
Except wait and wait hate waiting on you

You can catch me in our messages
Where she don't reply
I shoulda seen this coming I'm a pessimist
And I don't know why
So baby hold on
Don't let me go too soon
She wont believe anything that I got to say
So I got more to prove
All the silence kills me slowly
Can you be honest for once do you still want me
Cause you don't seem to care at all




Would you pick up if I called
Cause its not easy giving up on you the way that you give up on me

Overall Meaning

These lyrics depict a relationship in turmoil, where the singer feels neglected and uncertain about their partner's feelings. The first paragraph suggests that the singer often tries to communicate with their partner through messages but receives no response, leading to feelings of disappointment and a realization of their own pessimistic nature. Despite this, the singer wants their partner to hold on and not let them go too soon, indicating a desire to salvage the relationship. However, the singer acknowledges that their partner may not believe anything they say, so they feel the need to prove themselves further.


The second paragraph reflects the singer's self-awareness that they may not be perfect in their actions, but they have no regrets about who they are and the lengths they are willing to go for their partner. They express that they had their partner within their grasp, but somehow lost them. It was not part of their plan, but they find themselves in a position of waiting, repeatedly waiting for their partner's response without any resolution. The phrase "hate waiting on you" suggests frustration and impatience.


The repetition of the first paragraph in the third paragraph reinforces the singer's frustration and longing for their partner's attention. They express the same sentiment of feeling unheard and unnoticed, wondering if their partner still wants them. The singer questions their partner's level of care and contemplates whether their calls would even be answered. Despite the difficulties, the singer admits that giving up on their partner is not easy, highlighting the asymmetry in their feelings and commitment.


Overall, these lyrics convey the emotional struggle of a one-sided relationship. The singer feels ignored and unimportant, yearning for their partner's attention and validation. They continue to hold on and hope for a change, but also question whether their efforts are in vain. The lyrics evoke a sense of longing, frustration, and uncertainty in love and relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

You can catch me in our messages
You can find me constantly reaching out and trying to communicate with you


Where she don't reply
But you never respond to my messages


I shoulda seen this coming I'm a pessimist
I should have anticipated this outcome because I tend to expect the worst


And I don't know why
I am unsure why this keeps happening to me


So baby hold on
But please, don't let our relationship slip away


Don't let me go too soon
I don't want us to end prematurely


She wont believe anything that I got to say
You no longer trust anything I say


So I got more to prove
Therefore, I must work harder to demonstrate my sincerity


All the silence kills me slowly
The lack of communication is tormenting me gradually


Can you be honest for once do you still want me
Could you please be truthful and let me know if you still have feelings for me


Cause you don't seem to care at all
Because it seems like you have no concern for our relationship


Would you pick up if I called
I wonder if you would even answer my call


Cause its not easy giving up on you the way that you give up on me
Because it is incredibly difficult for me to let go of you in the same way you easily let go of me


Oh oh
Expressing frustration and sadness


I'm not sorry for the way that I am
I do not apologize for being myself


I'm fine being an idiot for you
I am content with being foolish and naive for the sake of our relationship


I had you in my hands but you slipped right through
I once had you completely, but you escaped from my grasp


It wasn't part of the plan but what else can I do
Losing you was not my intention, but now I am left with no other choice


Except wait and wait and wait and wait and wait oh yeah
Except patiently endure and hope for a change, even though it feels endless


Except wait and wait hate waiting on you
Except endure the frustration and resentment that comes from waiting for your response




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Written by: Jaiden Jefferson

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Comments from YouTube:

@emilyumana5608

Always loved this song πŸ’•

@Jinji55233

this is my fathers band , thanks for sharing much love!

@deanwoods2487

Your father was fortunate to come across my old roommate Jim playing the drums. Been a very long time but he's still killing it.

@Jinji55233

@@deanwoods2487 my father is Jim , he still plays the drums and very much still kills it! πŸ’œ

@ZakDub

So thankful I have their original CD that I purchased in concert when they headlined 2004 at the Gothic Theater in Denver. Love .45 / The Fray / Rubber Planet. So talented..... What happened to them?

@BasquePower

So sad they broke up wish they could get back together someday

@LD60

Such an emotional and powerful song, thanks for sharing!

@sandratracey1235

I'm listening for the millionth time, here on Youtube though, going through them all saying, "This is the best one!" This whole album is just perfection.

@MrJRSLim

Miss this band. Not sure what happened to them.

@wyvrennemacdaniels6813

they're working on a second album now.

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