Damselfly
Loyle Carner Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

It's been a minute since I've been with some women
Not 'cause they been lacking, just I've been lacking the feelin'
I've been staring at the ceiling
Listen to the chat that they're revealing
Wondering if I open up or keep concealing
I ain't try to be demeaning
It seems
Thought you knew dis
I don't really do dis
Moving like a Judas
Talking all that talk
But ain't no time for acting foolish
When you ask, are all the brothers saying "true dis"
I might just jump on this for free
Jumping on them freestyle
I've been well
Moving brain, senile
It's sole sunsets
Beautiful is one guess
One morning afternoon in that sun dress
The summer flies by
Every morning, I'm still yawning
Same conversation, never boring
("Yo, she texted you" "Swear?" "Nah it's Tommo" "Ah for fuck's sake")

I know that these days are feeling cold
My love could take her home
As if we never knew
I was too young for you

Ay, and then you say you ain't about guys
Ay, especially brothers from the south side
But been about mine
Ever since the trap line
You and me been living on this cloud nine
Saying it's about time
Stunting, front light
Nothing will change until it drains
Ain't nothing the same
'Cause you become like the blood in my veins
Saying I'm way too young
To be stuck on the rain
And still it's peak
Weeks 'til I figured out you played keys
Eighteen, you been listening to Jay Dee
Blaming the bait trees
Telling me you hate these
G's but didn't need me telling you they ain't me
Because they ain't me, they ain't me
Don't need to know about the colours that they paint me
I've been too busy getting dizzy off that JD
Dreaming of the places you could take me, so now I'm sayin'

I know that these days are feeling cold
My love could take her home




As if we never knew
I was too young for you

Overall Meaning

In Loyle Carner's song "DAMSELFLY," he is reflecting on his past relationships and how he has been emotionally disconnected from them. He acknowledges that he has been lacking the feeling of being with women, not because they were lacking, but because he was. As he is lying in bed and listening to "chat" that women reveal, he grapples with the decision to open up to them or keep concealing his emotions. He then contrasts his inner struggle with the false bravado of other men who talk a lot but don't act wisely. He reminds the listener that he won't be acting foolishly, and he may just jump on the freestyle if he feels like it. The song then shifts to him reminiscing about a summer romance that made him feel alive. The nostalgic imagery of the sunsets, summer dress, and lazy mornings contrasts with the cold and mundane present.


The second verse shows a different side to the story. Loyle Carner talks about a girl who he has been in a relationship with, but she is reluctant to accept him fully because of his background. She claims that she is not into guys from the south side, implying that there is a class divide or geographical divide between them. However, both of them are happy with each other and feel like they are on cloud nine. The irony is that while they are together, he feels like they are enough for each other, and her prejudices don't matter. He blames her for playing games with him, and in his frustration, he laments that he is too young to be feeling so much pain. The repetitive chorus reinforces the hopelessness of the situation, and how his love cannot take her home because of the societal barriers that exist.


Line by Line Meaning

It's been a minute since I've been with some women
It has been a while since I have been in a relationship with a woman


Not 'cause they been lacking, just I've been lacking the feelin'
It's not because women are lacking, it's because I have not had the emotional desire to pursue a relationship


I've been staring at the ceiling
I have been lost in thought and reflection


Listen to the chat that they're revealing
I am listening to their conversation


Wondering if I open up or keep concealing
I am contemplating whether or not to be honest and open or to keep my emotions hidden


I ain't try to be demeaning
I do not intend to be disrespectful


It seems
This is the way things appear


Thought you knew dis
I thought you were aware


I don't really do dis
I am not someone who behaves in this way


Moving like a Judas
Behaving treacherously, like Judas in the Bible


Talking all that talk
Saying all those things


But ain't no time for acting foolish
There is no time to behave in a silly or unwise manner


When you ask, are all the brothers saying 'true dis'
When you ask if everyone agrees with what you are saying


I might just jump on this for free
I might just join in the conversation without payment


Jumping on them freestyle
Improvising on a spontaneous and unfixed topic


I've been well
I have been doing alright


Moving brain, senile
My brain is active, but it feels like it is getting old and forgetful


It's sole sunsets
The only thing that makes me feel better is the beauty of sunsets


Beautiful is one guess
The beauty is subjective and open to interpretation


One morning afternoon in that sun dress
I remember one particular morning or afternoon when she was wearing a sun dress


The summer flies by
The summer season passes very quickly


Every morning, I'm still yawning
I am still tired every morning


Same conversation, never boring
We keep having the same conversation, but it never gets boring


('Yo, she texted you' 'Swear?' 'Nah it's Tommo' 'Ah for fuck's sake')
(Example of the conversation that keeps repeating)


I know that these days are feeling cold
I am aware that these days are feeling difficult and lonely


My love could take her home
My love could provide comfort and support


As if we never knew
As if we never had a relationship or knew each other


I was too young for you
You were more experienced and mature than me and our relationship could not succeed


Ay, and then you say you ain't about guys
You said you were not interested in men


Ay, especially brothers from the south side
Especially men from the southern part of town


But been about mine
You have been interested in me anyway


Ever since the trap line
Since we first met in a dangerous and illicit environment


You and me been living on this cloud nine
We have been living in a state of extreme happiness and bliss


Saying it's about time
Feeling like it is the appropriate time for us to be together


Stunting, front light
Showing off, displaying ourselves in the best possible way


Nothing will change until it drains
Things will not improve until we let them run their course


Ain't nothing the same
Things have changed completely


'Cause you become like the blood in my veins
You have become a part of me, like the blood in my body


Saying I'm way too young
Saying that I am too immature or inexperienced


To be stuck on the rain
To be dwelling on something negative or unpleasant


And still it's peak
And yet, it is still the worst situation


Weeks 'til I figured out you played keys
It took me weeks to realize that you play the keyboard


Eighteen, you been listening to Jay Dee
You have been listening to music by Jay Dee since you were 18 years old


Blaming the bait trees
Blaming drugs for causing problems


Telling me you hate these
Saying that you hate drug use


G's but didn't need me telling you they ain't me
Saying that you dislike people who use drugs, but you did not need me to tell you that I am not one of those people


Because they ain't me, they ain't me
Because I am not like them, I am not like them


Don't need to know about the colours that they paint me
You do not need to know about the negative things people say about me


I've been too busy getting dizzy off that JD
I have been too preoccupied with consuming JD (Jack Daniels whiskey) to worry about what people say about me


Dreaming of the places you could take me, so now I'm sayin'
I am dreaming of the places you could show me, and now I am saying that I want to experience them with you




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Benjamin Coyle-Larner, Tom Misch

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found

More Versions