I Don't Know How You're Livin'
Lucinda Williams Lyrics


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I cared for you
Dared to do
What I was never prepared to do
I've talked you down
Driven you around
All but followed you underground

I've defended you
Commended you
I've seen it through to the end with you
I've supported you
Encouraged you
Comforted and consoled you

I don't know how your livin'
I don't know where you are
And you may not be willing
To open up the door

If you should ever wonder
You shouldn't have to ask
'Cause I hope you know brother
I've always got your back

I've paid for you
I've borrowed for you
I've planned all my tomorrows for you
I've believed in you
Grieved with you
I've rolled my sleeves for you

I've fed you
I've clothed you
I've loved you and stood up for you
I've sided with you
I cried for you
I put my knees aside for you

But I don't know how your livin'
And I don't know where you are
And you may not be willing
To open up the door

And if you should ever wonder
Well you shouldn't have to ask
'Cause I hope you know brother




I've always got your back
I've always got your back

Overall Meaning

The song "I Don't Know How You're Livin'" is a heartfelt ballad performed by Lucinda Williams. The song's verse's lyrics demonstrate the singer's love and loyalty for their loved one. The conversation in the song implies that the person to whom Williams is singing has been distant and inaccessible. The song implies that they were once very close and that the singer's efforts to reconcile the two of them have not worked. Through the lyrics, it is apparent that the singer is an active part of the other person's life, helping them out of numerous difficult situations. Despite all of that, the person has little to no knowledge of the life's happening of the individual.


The song portrays a message of loyalty, brotherhood, and support. The lyrics speak to the notion that no matter the situation or the state of the relationship, the singer will always be there for him. The song's lyrics are deeply emotional and introspective, creating a sense of sincerity and vulnerability that is authentic to Williams's music.


Line by Line Meaning

I cared for you
I had concern for you


Dared to do
I took risks for you


What I was never prepared to do
I did things for you that I never thought I could do


I've talked you down
I convinced you not to do something harmful


Driven you around
I provided transportation for you


All but followed you underground
I was willing to go to extreme lengths to support you


I've defended you
I spoke up for you when others criticized you


Commended you
I praised you for your good qualities


I've seen it through to the end with you
I supported you until the end of a difficult situation


I've supported you
I provided emotional support for you


Encouraged you
I motivated you to keep going


Comforted and consoled you
I helped you feel better when you were sad


I don't know how your livin'
I'm not sure about your current status


I don't know where you are
I don't know your specific location


And you may not be willing
You might not want to share your situation with me


To open up the door
To discuss your situation with me


If you should ever wonder
If you're curious


You shouldn't have to ask
You don't need to ask me to know that I care


'Cause I hope you know brother
I hope you understand, friend


I've always got your back
I will always support and protect you


I've paid for you
I've provided financial assistance for you


I've borrowed for you
I've borrowed money to help you


I've planned all my tomorrows for you
I've made future plans with you in mind


I've believed in you
I had faith in you and your abilities


Grieved with you
I mourned with you during a difficult time


I've rolled my sleeves for you
I've worked hard to help you


I've fed you
I've provided food for you


I've clothed you
I've provided clothing for you


I've loved you and stood up for you
I cared for you and defended you


I've sided with you
I supported you in a dispute


I cried for you
I got emotional when something bad happened to you


I put my knees aside for you
I humbled myself for you




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: LUCINDA WILLIAMS

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