Out Of Touch
Lucinda Williams Lyrics


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Once in awhile we might pass on the street
We nod and we smile and we shuffle our feet
Making small talk standing face to face
Hands in our pockets 'cause we feel so out of place

We have been so out of touch
We have been so out of touch
We speak in the past tense to talk about the weather
The broken sentences, we try to piece together
I ask you if you ever see an old friend
You say that you used to
It's been a long time since then

We have been so out of touch
We have been so out of touch

Our paths may cross again in some crowded bar
We feel a little lost 'cause we've drifted away so far
Hoping to find the right words to say
We joke a little and then go on our way

We have been so out of touch




We have been so out of touch
We have been so out of touch

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Lucinda Williams's song "Out Of Touch" are about the awkwardness that comes with reconnecting with someone after a long period of estrangement. While they happen to pass each other on the street, they barely know what to say to each other. They try to make small talk but their hands are in their pockets because neither of them knows what to do with themselves. They then reminisce about the past and the weather, trying to piece together their conversations in broken sentences. They ask each other about their old friends, but both of them realize that it's been too long to even remember them properly.


The song's chorus is "We have been so out of touch" which is repeated multiple times to emphasize the distance between the two individuals. They both feel lost in a crowded bar but hope to find the right words to say. They joke around a little but then go their separate ways feeling just as out of touch as before. The song's simplicity belies the depth of emotion conveyed through its lyrics: regret, longing, and a sense of missed opportunities.


Overall, "Out Of Touch" is a poignant reminder of how time and distance can make it hard to reconnect with people we used to know well. The song's lyrics are relatable to anyone who has experienced this kind of awkwardness, making it a universal and heartfelt ballad.


Line by Line Meaning

Once in awhile we might pass on the street
Occasionally we may cross paths whilst walking


We nod and we smile and we shuffle our feet
We make polite gestures and avoid prolonged interaction


Making small talk standing face to face
Having conversation where we stand close by


Hands in our pockets 'cause we feel so out of place
We carry our hands in pockets because we are disconnected from each other


We have been so out of touch
Our communication has deteriorated due to our lack of contact


We speak in the past tense to talk about the weather
We speak of weather events in past tense as they had occurred long ago


The broken sentences, we try to piece together
Our conversation is fragmented and we struggle to make sense of it


I ask you if you ever see an old friend
I inquire if you have seen anyone familiar to us


You say that you used to
You acknowledge that you had seen them before but not recently


It's been a long time since then
It has been a significant duration since we last had contact with that person


Our paths may cross again in some crowded bar
There is potential for us to meet again in a crowded social setting


We feel a little lost 'cause we've drifted away so far
We experience disorientation and detachment due to our long-term separation


Hoping to find the right words to say
We aspire to communicate accurately and concisely


We joke a little and then go on our way
We alleviate the tension by making light of the situation, then part ways




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Lucinda Williams

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