Righteously
Lucinda Williams Lyrics


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You don't have to prove
Your manhood to me constantly
I know you're the man can't you see
I love you Righteously

Why you want to dis me
After the way you been kissin' me
After those pretty things you say
And the love we made today

When you run your hand
All up and run it back down my leg
Get excited and bite my neck
Get me all worked up like that

Think this through
I laid it down for you everytime
Respect me I give you what's mine
You're entirely way too fine

Arms around my waist
You get a taste of how good this can be
Be the man you ought to tenderly
Stand up for me

Flirt with me don't keep hurtin' me
Don't cause me pain




Be my lover don't play no game
Just play me John Coltraine

Overall Meaning

In "Righteously," Lucinda Williams sings about a relationship in which she is secure in her love for her partner and does not need constant validation of his manhood. She urges him to respect her and be tender with her, rather than hurting her and playing games. Throughout the song, Williams asserts her self-confidence and independence in the relationship.


One of the striking aspects of this song is the way Williams plays with gender roles and expectations. By telling her partner that she doesn't need him to constantly prove his manhood to her, she challenges the idea that men must always be dominant and assertive in relationships. When she asks him to be tender and stand up for her, she is flipping the script on traditional gender roles and encouraging men to be vulnerable and emotionally present.


Another notable aspect of the song is Williams's use of sensual imagery to describe her feelings for her partner. She describes his touch on her leg and his bites on her neck in vivid detail, using these images to convey the intense physical and emotional connection between them.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't have to prove
You don't need to constantly prove your masculinity to me


Your manhood to me constantly
I don't need you to constantly prove yourself as a man


I know you're the man can't you see
I know you're the one for me, why can't you see that?


I love you Righteously
I love you with a purity and sincerity


Why you want to dis me
Why do you want to disrespect me?


After the way you been kissin' me
After the way you've been kissing me with such passion and love


After those pretty things you say
After the sweet things you say to me


And the love we made today
And the affectionate lovemaking we experienced today


When you run your hand
When you run your hand up and down my leg


All up and run it back down my leg
Gently caress my leg and then bring your hand back down


Get excited and bite my neck
Demonstrate your passion by biting my neck and getting me excited


Get me all worked up like that
Turn me on and get me aroused


Think this through
Consider what I have done for you in the past


I laid it down for you everytime
Everytime, I gave you everything I had in me


Respect me I give you what's mine
If you respect me, I'll give you my all


You're entirely way too fine
You are an amazing person, and I'm lucky to have you


Arms around my waist
Hug me close and hold me tight


You get a taste of how good this can be
You can experience how amazing our relationship can be


Be the man you ought to tenderly
Be the man I know you can be, and treat me with tenderness


Stand up for me
Defend me and support me


Flirt with me don't keep hurtin' me
Flirt with me, but don't hurt me


Don't cause me pain
Don't make me suffer


Be my lover don't play no game
Be my true lover, and don't play any games


Just play me John Coltraine
Make love to me the way John Coltrane plays his music: with soul and passion




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: LUCINDA WILLIAMS

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Comments from YouTube:

Corey Anderson

Pettibones lead work in this is absolutely amazing... it oozes the same emotion and depth that Lucinda’s voice does... if this song doesn’t hit you deep inside you must have no pulse.

Cheyenne King

Heard this song once on the radio and it took me years to find it again. Love this sexy cool song.

Blurt Reynolds

The lyrics and guitar just burn into your soul. Still get chills when I hear it. If it comes on when I’m driving it gets loud!!!

Brenda Tomlinson

It’s on my road trip mix :)

Marcus Aurelius

A lone deserted Diner somewhere in England and I've discovered Lucinda. Better Late than Never .

Kevin Newsom

Hahha...nice. She has been around the block...

Adz Dahlman

Shit happens ~ ha ha*

Adz Dahlman

~ 'a lone' ~ alone : interesting how language pans out eh . Obv can't have an alone diner ; but , the word lone is so very specific and rarely used - lone wolf - lone trader - ~ just overthinking here....

Pinot Grigio Girl

7 years later, SAME.

Adz Dahlman

@Pinot Grigio Girl 7 yrs lone wolf ok*

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