It's Not Easy
Lucky Dube Lyrics


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I remember the day
I called mama on the telephone
I told her mama
I'm getting married
I could hear her voice on the other side
Of the telephone she was smiling
And she asked me a question
That I proudly answered
She said son
Did you take time to know her
I said mama
She is the best
But today it hurts me so
To go back to mama and say
Mama I'm getting divorced
Oh I'm getting divorced

This choice I made
Didn't work out the way I thought it would
This choice I made
l say

This choice I made
Didn't work out the way I thought it would
This choice l made
Mama said to me

It's not easy to understand it son
But I hope you'll make it
You'll be happy again
It's not easy to understand it son
But I hope you'll make it
You'll be happy again
It's not easy to understand it son
But I hope you'll make it
You'll be happy again

I remember in church
When the preacher man read the scriptures
You looked so beautiful
So beautiful and so innocent

I did not know that behind that beauty
Lies the true colors
That will destroy me in the near future
This choice I made
Didn't work out to be what I thought it would be
This choice I made
l say

This choice I made
Didn't work out the way I thought it would
Now I'm hurting

Mama said to me
Mama said to me
Mama said to me
Mama said to me

I remember when I held you by the hand
Preacher man read the scriptures
Putting words in your mouth
Maybe what the preacher man said
Was not something that was within you
Now I know what they mean when they say
Beautiful woman
Is another man's plaything
Oh Lord
I'm hurting now l say

This choice I made
Didn't work out the way I thought it would
This choice I made

This choice I made
Didn't work out the way I thought it would
Now I'm hurting
Mama said to me

It's not easy to understand it son
But I hope you'll make it
You'll be happy again (Mama said to me)
It's not easy to understand it son
But I hope you'll make it
You'll be happy again

Mama said to me
Mama said to me
Mama said to me
Mama said to me
Mama said to me
Mama said to me




Mama said to me
Mama said to me

Overall Meaning

Lucky Dube's song "It's Not Easy" tells a story of a man who is struggling with the aftermath of his failed marriage. The song starts with the man recalling the joy he felt when he called his mother to inform her of his engagement. However, he is now faced with the harsh reality of his divorce. He reminisces on the questions his mother asked him when he first informed her about his engagement, and how the circumstances have changed now. He is struggling to come to terms with the fact that his relationship did not turn out as he had hoped.


The second verse of the song highlights the contrast between the beauty of his bride and the reality of her true character. He recalls the preacher's description of his bride as being beautiful and innocent, but realizes that her true colors were revealed soon after they got married. He feels hurt and betrayed by the situation and is struggling to make sense of his current situation.


Throughout the song, the man's mother provides him with words of encouragement and hope. While his situation isn't easy, his mother believes that he can overcome it and find happiness again. The refrain "It's not easy to understand it son, but I hope you'll make it, you'll be happy again" reminds him that while things may not be easy for him right now, there is still hope for his future.


At its core, "It's Not Easy" is a story of a man struggling to come to terms with his failed marriage. Lucky Dube's powerful vocals and emotive lyrics give voice to the confusion, sadness, and hope that comes with dealing with such a complex and emotional experience.


Line by Line Meaning

I remember the day
I recall a moment from the past.


I called mama on the telephone
I phoned my mother.


I told her mama, I'm getting married
I informed her that I am getting married.


I could hear her voice on the other side
I heard her voice coming from the other end of the phone.


Of the telephone she was smiling
She was smiling while talking to me on the phone.


And she asked me a question, That I proudly answered
She inquired and I proudly responded.


She said son, Did you take time to know her
She queried if I took the time to truly know my partner.


I said mama, She is the best
I replied that she was the best.


But today it hurts me so, To go back to mama and say, Mama I'm getting divorced, Oh I'm getting divorced
Now, it pains me to say to my mother that I am getting divorced.


This choice I made Didn't work out the way I thought it would This choice I made l say
My decision didn't work out as expected.


Mama said to me, It's not easy to understand it son But I hope you'll make it You'll be happy again
My mother comforted me, saying that it's not easy, but she hoped that I would be happy again.


I remember in church When the preacher man read the scriptures You looked so beautiful So beautiful and so innocent
I recall a moment in church when you looked beautiful and innocent during the reading of the scriptures.


I did not know that behind that beauty Lies the true colors That will destroy me in the near future
I didn't know that beneath your beauty hid the colors of your true nature that would lead to our downfall.


Now I'm hurting Mama said to me
Now, I'm in pain, and my mother is there to console me.


Maybe what the preacher man said Was not something that was within you
Perhaps, the preacher man's words didn't align with your true character.


Now I know what they mean when they say Beautiful woman Is another man's plaything Oh Lord I'm hurting now l say
Now, I understand the saying that a beautiful woman is a toy for another man, and it hurts me deeply.


Mama said to me
My mother comforts me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LUCKY PHILLIP DUBE

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