Can't Live With You
Ludacris Lyrics


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I can't live with ya, can't live without you
I say I can't live with ya, can't live without you
Ooh I can't live with ya, can't live without you
I can't live with ya, can't live without you

One day I love you, the next I can't stand you
Huh, it's too much for me to handle
I made my mind up thinkin' I'm on the right track
So then I leave you, but then come right back
And I don't like that, I swear I'm so confused
Don't know what I want or what's the right thing to do
But the right thing is you, you're my destiny
Even at my worst you still bringin' out the best in me
But then you testin' me, know how to push my buttons
Fussin', fightin, yeah we always gettin' into somethin'
So mad I make you cry, then we make love
A never-endin' cycle, make up to break up
It's time to wake up, I need to smell the coffee
Play with these other women, or get 'em all off me
And you wonder why your man'll just doubt ya
Can't live with ya, can't live without ya

[Chorus]
I can't live with ya, can't live without you
I say I can't live with you, can't live without you
Ooh I can't live with ya, can't live without you
The one thing that I know, is I can't seem to let you (go)
You got me to the point of walking out the (door)
And then I find myself coming back for (more)
I don't know what to do
Cause I can't live with ya, and can't live without you

One day I love you, the next I can't stand you
Huh, it's too much for me to handle
One minute naggin' me, always harrassin' me
Next minute squeezin' me, huggin', kissin' and grabbin' me
Just when I think it's cool, you back startin' shit
Findin' the smallest things just to start an argument
Goin' through my phone, know you shouldn'ta took it though
I hope your stupid ass find what you're lookin fo'
Stormin' out the house mad, throwin' breakin' shit
Callin' your girls, exaggeratin' and fakin' shit
Pack your clothes like you really 'bout to leave this time
Know you messed up but actin like it's me this time
It's a revolvin' door, that keeps spinnin' 'round
Are we gon' be together, or are we finished now?
And you wonder why your man'll just doubt ya
Can't live with ya, can't live without ya

[Chorus]

When the going get tough and the fightin' be rough
Now some folks may call it hood but I guess we call it love
I be askin' for your touch then I don't give you my trust
First I hate you with a passion then I can't need you enough
I be, wantin' to spend my whole life wit'chu
And I be, talkin' 'bout how you and me are through
And my mind says yes but my heart says no
And my mind says walk but my feet won't go away, yeah
See I be tellin' you to go
But deep inside I want you to stay
Uh, and you know how to make me smile
But at times you ruin my day
Ooh, we gotta get better
Gotta get it together
And you wonder why your girl just doubt ya
Can't live with you, can't live without you





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

Ludacris's "Can't Live With You" is a song that explores the complexity of a toxic relationship. The lyrics reveal how the singer is caught up in a cycle of breaking up and making up with his partner. He confesses that he loves his partner, but also has moments of hating them, and doesn't know what to do. The lyrics suggest that the tension and drama of the relationship have become overwhelming, yet the singer can't seem to let go of his partner.


The opening lines of the song set the theme of the lyrics. Ludacris emphasizes his confused feelings towards his lover with each verse. He admits to his moments of wanting to leave and moments of wanting to be with her forever. No matter how much the relationship is straining on his mental health and causing him confusion, he cannot seem to break away from it. The repeated chorus speaks to this message, saying that no matter how much he tries, he can't live with her, but he also can't live without her. In the end, the song paints a picture of a toxic relationship that may be causing more pain than happiness, despite the singer's love for his partner.


Overall, "Can't Live With You" is a relatable song about the complexities of relationships. It illustrates the push and pull that people can experience in a relationship that is no longer healthy, yet they hold onto the hope that things will improve. The song serves as a reminder that there is a fine line between love and toxicity.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't live with ya, can't live without you
The singer is torn between wanting to be with and without their partner.


One day I love you, the next I can't stand you
The singer's feelings towards their partner are unpredictable and constantly fluctuating.


Huh, it's too much for me to handle
The constant ups and downs of the relationship are emotionally exhausting for the singer.


I made my mind up thinkin' I'm on the right track
The artist often thinks they have made a decision to leave the relationship, but it doesn't always stick.


So then I leave you, but then come right back
Even when the artist tries to leave the relationship, they end up returning to their partner.


And I don't like that, I swear I'm so confused
The singer feels trapped and unsure about what they want in the relationship.


Don't know what I want or what's the right thing to do
The singer is struggling to make a decision about the future of the relationship.


But the right thing is you, you're my destiny
Despite the confusion, the artist still believes their partner is meant to be with them.


Even at my worst you still bringin' out the best in me
The artist believes that even though their relationship is difficult, their partner still helps them to be their best self.


But then you testin' me, know how to push my buttons
The artist's partner also knows how to aggravate them and cause tension in the relationship.


So mad I make you cry, then we make love
The relationship is full of extremes, where fights are followed by intense expressions of love and passion.


A never-endin' cycle, make up to break up
The pattern of fighting and reconciling in the relationship is exhausting and seems to have no end.


I need to smell the coffee
The singer needs to take a step back and face the reality of the situation.


Play with these other women, or get 'em all off me
The singer is considering the possibility of being with other women or staying away from them altogether to avoid any temptation.


One minute naggin' me, always harrassin' me
The singer's partner can often be critical and nitpicky, causing tension in the relationship.


Next minute squeezin' me, huggin', kissin' and grabbin' me
Despite the fighting, the artist's partner also shows them love and affection.


Just when I think it's cool, you back startin' shit
The artist's partner often starts fights for no apparent reason, causing the artist to feel on edge even during peaceful moments.


Goin' through my phone, know you shouldn'ta took it though
The singer's partner is invading their privacy by going through their phone, even though they know it's wrong.


I hope your stupid ass find what you're lookin fo'
The singer is frustrated with their partner's behavior and is sarcastically wishing them luck in finding what they're searching for.


And you wonder why your man'll just doubt ya
The artist's partner should not be surprised that they are having trust issues in the relationship.


Now some folks may call it hood but I guess we call it love
The artist recognizes that their relationship may not fit traditional definitions of healthy love, but they still feel a strong connection to their partner.


I be askin' for your touch then I don't give you my trust
The artist wants physical affection from their partner, but struggles to trust them emotionally.


First I hate you with a passion then I can't need you enough
The singer has extreme feelings towards their partner, ranging from intense hatred to overwhelming need.


And my mind says yes but my heart says no
The artist's rational mind may tell them to leave the relationship, but their emotions are keeping them tied to their partner.


And my mind says walk but my feet won't go away, yeah
The singer has a difficult time actually leaving the relationship, despite knowing it may be the best option.


See I be tellin' you to go
The singer sometimes tries to push their partner away.


But deep inside I want you to stay
At the same time, the singer is conflicted and still has strong feelings of attachment towards their partner.


And you know how to make me smile
Despite the issues in the relationship, the artist's partner still has the ability to bring them joy.


But at times you ruin my day
However, there are moments where the artist's partner causes them stress or discomfort.


Ooh, we gotta get better
The singer recognizes that the relationship needs to improve in order to survive.


Gotta get it together
The singer is committed to working towards a healthier relationship with their partner.


And you wonder why your girl just doubt ya
The artist's partner should not be surprised that they are questioning the relationship and have trust issues.


The one thing that I know, is I can't seem to let you (go)
Overall, the artist is still struggling with feelings of attachment and cannot bring themselves to fully let go of the relationship.


You got me to the point of walking out the (door)
Despite not being able to leave the relationship permanently, there have been times where the artist has wanted to end things.


And then I find myself coming back for (more)
However, they always end up returning to their partner.


I don't know what to do
The artist is lost about what steps to take in the relationship.


Cause I can't live with ya, and can't live without you
The singer is stuck in a difficult situation where they cannot make a clean break from their partner, despite the negative aspects of the relationship.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: CHRISTOPHER BRIDGES, JOHNTA AUSTIN, KEVIN CATES, MARCUS ALLEN

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