Ex
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Once upon a time I knew how to make you happy or make you blue
Guess I'll be the same again, but it's not that easy to just be a friend

Look at where we are today with our pointless efforts to lay the blame
Maybe things can never work after so much betrayal and so much hurt
We're in the same position but a million miles apart
Maybe things will work eventually, but I just don't know where to start
When love has gone away
Something takes it's place
Does it really have to be hate?

So, what's it gonna be?
It's up to you and me
I just hope it isn't too late

Things you say to me, to love and hate you.
For all the pain, all it does is get us nowhere

Yes, maybe in the end, we can be good friends want to but it isn't easy
Woah!

So, love has been and gone, how do we go on?
Is there something still worth saving?
Well, what's it gonna be, we can wait and see
Tell me, do you think we'll make it?

Let's stop the silly games, dishing out the blame
I know that we feel the same way
This doesn't have to be such a tragedy
Everything will work out some day





Well, maybe in the end, we can just be friends, I want to but it isn't easy
Yes, maybe in the end, we will be good friends, this is how it really should be

Overall Meaning

The song "Ex" by Lush puts emphasis on the difficulty of letting go of a past relationship and moving on. The lyrics suggest that the love has ended and that something else has taken its place - possibly hatred or bitterness. The singer of the song laments about the situation they are in, expressing their confusion about whether they should continue to hold onto hope for reconciliation or let go completely. Reflecting back on the past, the singer acknowledges that they used to be able to make their partner happy or sad, but now the situation seems too complicated to just be friends. The chorus indicates that the decision to let go and move on is up to both parties in the relationship, but there is still a glimmer of hope that they could possibly reconcile and be good friends again.


The chorus of the song suggests that there's an overwhelming sense of ambivalence which plagues those who have gone through breakups. It can be hard to move on, and it can be even harder to hold onto hope for the future. It is difficult to let go of something you once invested time, energy, and passion into. The song is relatable due to its themes of heartbreak and the uncertainty of what's to come. It highlights a fundamental human experience, and many people have experienced the emotions expressed in the song.


Line by Line Meaning

Once upon a time I knew how to make you happy or make you blue
I used to know how to manipulate your emotions, for better or worse


Guess I'll be the same again, but it's not that easy to just be a friend
I'll try to act the same as before, but being just friends is not an easy option


Look at where we are today with our pointless efforts to lay the blame
Our current situation is the result of futile attempts to attribute fault


Maybe things can never work after so much betrayal and so much hurt
There has been so much pain and damage that perhaps things can never be fixed


We're in the same position but a million miles apart
We're in similar emotional states, but very distant from each other


Maybe things will work eventually, but I just don't know where to start
There is hope for a resolution, but it's unclear how to begin solving the problem


When love has gone away
After the end of a romantic relationship


Something takes it's place
A new emotion fills the void left by the love that is no longer present


Does it really have to be hate?
Is it necessary for that new emotion to be hatred?


So, what's it gonna be?
What will our relationship become?


It's up to you and me
We both have a role in determining the future of our relationship


I just hope it isn't too late
I'm worried that we've already passed the point of no return


Things you say to me, to love and hate you.
Your words express both love and hatred towards me


For all the pain, all it does is get us nowhere
Despite all the suffering, our relationship is not progressing


Yes, maybe in the end, we can be good friends want to but it isn't easy
There is a possibility of being friends eventually, but it will require effort


Woah!
Expressing surprise


So, love has been and gone, how do we go on?
After the end of love, how do we move forward?


Is there something still worth saving?
Is there any hope of salvaging our relationship?


Well, what's it gonna be, we can wait and see
We'll have to wait and see what happens


Tell me, do you think we'll make it?
Do you believe our relationship can be saved?


Let's stop the silly games, dishing out the blame
We should stop playing games and accusing each other of blame


I know that we feel the same way
I understand that we have similar feelings


This doesn't have to be such a tragedy
Our situation doesn't have to be a tragic end


Everything will work out some day
Eventually, things will fall into place


Yes, maybe in the end, we will be good friends, this is how it really should be
Ideally, we can maintain a positive friendship in the end.




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Written by: MIKI BERENYI

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