Family Affair
M.F.S.B. Ft Leon Huff Lyrics
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It's a family affair, it's a family affair
One child grows up to be
Somebody that just loves to learn
And another child grows up to be
Somebody you'd just love to burn
You see it's in the blood
Both kids are good to Mom
Blood's thicker than mud
It's a family affair, it's a family affair
Newlywed a year ago
But you're still checking each other out
Nobody wants to blow
Nobody wants to be left out
You can't leave, 'cause your heart is there
But you can't stay, 'cause you been somewhere else!
You can't cry, 'cause you'll look broke down
But you're cryin' anyway 'cause you're all broke down!
It's a family affair
It's a family affair
It's a family affair, it's a family affair
It's a family affair, it's a family affair
One child grows up to be
Somebody that just loves to learn
And another child grows up to be
Somebody you'd just love to burn
Mom loves the both of them
You see it's in the blood
Both kids are good to Mom
Blood's thicker than mud
It's a family affair, it's a family affair
It's a family affair
It's a family affair
The song "Family Affair" by M.F.S.B. featuring Leon Huff, provides a reflection on the complexities and challenges of family dynamics. The repeated chorus "It's a family affair" highlights the significance and inescapability of family ties, whilst the verses explore the conflicts that can arise between family members. The first verse alludes to the idea that different family members can possess contrasting personalities and values, with one child described as someone who loves to learn, whilst another is someone who others would love to see fail. Despite differences between siblings, the bridge reminds us that "Mom loves the both of them", as a reminder that blood is thicker than water.
The second verse shifts focus from sibling conflicts to examine marital relations. Despite being a newlywed couple, the theme of being unsure about the future of their relationship emerges, with neither partner wanting to be left out or left behind. The final lines of the verse reveal a sense of being torn, stuck between the commitment to the relationship and the temptation to explore other options. This sense of being stuck between two opposing forces is reflected in the repeated refrain "It's a family affair", suggesting that no matter what direction we take in our lives, family ties will always be present and influential.
Overall, the song highlights how complicated and multi-faceted family life can be, as we navigate the challenges of relationships and responsibilities that come with it.
Line by Line Meaning
It's a family affair, it's a family affair
The song is about the complexities of family dynamics and how they can affect people in different ways.
One child grows up to be
Somebody that just loves to learn
One child in the family is very academically inclined and enjoys learning new things.
And another child grows up to be
Somebody you'd just love to burn
Another child in the family is disliked by some members and they wish to harm them in some way.
Mom loves the both of them
You see it's in the blood
The mother of the family loves both of her children equally and this love is an innate quality within her.
Both kids are good to Mom
Blood's thicker than mud
Both children in the family are loving and caring towards their mother, as family bonds are stronger than any other relationships.
Newlywed a year ago
But you're still checking each other out
Nobody wants to blow
Nobody wants to be left out
A newly married couple is still getting to know each other after a year and neither wants to cause issues or feel excluded.
You can't leave, 'cause your heart is there
But you can't stay, 'cause you been somewhere else!
Someone in the family or relationship is torn between staying due to their emotional connections, but also wanting to leave because they feel distant from their past selves or experiences.
You can't cry, 'cause you'll look broke down
But you're cryin' anyway 'cause you're all broke down!
The same person who is unsure about staying or leaving is struggling internally and doesn't want to appear weak, but they are emotional and overwhelmed anyway.
It's a family affair
The singer concludes that these situations are all part of the complexities and connections that make up family bonds.
Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SYLVESTER STEWART
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