Sweet Rough Man
Ma Rainey Lyrics


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I woke up this mornin', my head was sore as a boil, (2)
My man beat me last night with five feet of copper coil

He keeps my lips split, my eyes as black as jet, (2)
But the way he love me, makes me soon forget

Every night for five years, I've got a beatin' from my man, (2)
People says I'm crazy, I'll explain and you'll understand

My man, my man, Lord, everybody knows he's mean, (2)
But when he starts to lovin', I wring and twist and scream





Lord, it ain't no maybe 'bout my man bein' rough, (2)
But when it comes to lovin', he sure can strut his stuff

Overall Meaning

Ma Rainey's song Sweet Rough Man tells the story of a woman who has endured physical abuse from her partner for five years. She wakes up with a sore head due to her man beating her with copper coils. Her lips are split, and her eyes are bruised as a result of the regular abuse. Despite the pain she endures, she admits that she loves him, and the love overshadows the physical pain. When he expresses love and affection towards her, she reacts passionately, screaming and writhing. The song suggests that love, no matter how rough it may be, can be gratifying and that physical pain can be erased by love.


This song addresses domestic violence and brings it to the foreground. The opening lyrics set the tone for the rest of the song by plainly articulating the physical abuse that the woman is going through. The lyrics convey the complexity of being in a violent relationship, and how it can be challenging to let go of someone you love, even if they are abusive. The song has a catchy rhythm and melody, taking the listener on a journey that depicts emotions and experiences that affect many women worldwide.


Line by Line Meaning

I woke up this mornin', my head was sore as a boil,
I woke up this morning and my head was hurting a lot,


My man beat me last night with five feet of copper coil
My partner hit me with a five-foot copper wire last night which caused me pain.


He keeps my lips split, my eyes as black as jet,
He hits me so hard that my lips are often split and my eyes are blackened.


But the way he love me, makes me soon forget
However, I often feel his love and it makes me forget the pain he causes me.


Every night for five years, I've got a beatin' from my man,
For the past five years, I have been beaten every night by my partner.


People says I'm crazy, I'll explain and you'll understand
Some people think I'm crazy for staying with him, but I have an explanation that will help you understand why I do.


My man, my man, Lord, everybody knows he's mean,
Everyone knows that my man is very cruel and mean.


But when he starts to lovin', I wring and twist and scream
However, when he shows love, I react very passionately and scream and twist.


Lord, it ain't no maybe 'bout my man bein' rough,
It's a fact that my man is rough and violent.


But when it comes to lovin', he sure can strut his stuff
But when it comes to being romantic, he is very good at it.




Writer(s): MA RAINEY

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