The Gentleman
Mad Caddies Lyrics


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What do you think of me
Do you really want to see a piece of me that I hide
Something that's hard to find
What's behind your smile
Is it really worth my while
What's beneath your ton-bed skin open up and let me in

Do you really want to feel something that is so unreal
Do you really want to be the one and only one for me
When we go to sleep tonight
I'll have different goals in sight
Tell you what you want to hear
Have another drink my dear
I'm not going to try to hurt you
I'll be honest kind and true
I'll take you out and treat you right
Like a decent man would do

Now I got you in my grasp do not fear my checkered past
Have you now begun to see this diabolic side of me
In your mind I'm always there I guess
You thought I really cared now it's time to say goodbye
You bit the hook
Believed the lie
I'm not going to try to hurt you I'll be honest kind and true
I'll take you out and treat you right like a decent man would do

Gonna modify my behavior to make you think I'm your savior
Now that I'm inside your head
I'm gonna use you
Probably abuse you
Should have listened to what your mom said
I'm not going to try to hurt you
I'll be honest kind and true
I'll take you out and treat you right
Like a decent man would do





Yeah right!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Mad Caddies' song "The Gentleman" tell the story of a deceiving man trying to win over a woman's trust through sweet talk and acts of kindness, but revealing his true intentions of using and possibly abusing her once he has her in his grasp. The lyrics reveal the manipulative tactics of the man, who changes his behavior to charm the woman, and uses her vulnerability and trust to satisfy his own selfish desires.


The first verse questions the woman's perception of the man, asking if she wants to see the hidden side of him that's hard to find. The chorus shows him promising to treat her right and be honest, but the second verse exposes his true motives of manipulation and control, "now that I'm inside your head, I'm gonna use you, probably abuse you." The bridge brings it full circle, with the man again promising to treat her right, but adding a sarcastic "yeah right" at the end, as the listener knows his true intentions.


This song serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of falling for someone's charm, without truly knowing their intentions. It also emphasizes the importance of taking the time to get to know someone and not falling for superficial acts of kindness, without looking deeper into their true character.


Line by Line Meaning

What do you think of me
Asking if the person thinks positively or negatively about the singer


Do you really want to see a piece of me that I hide
Asking if the person wants to see a different side of the singer that is usually concealed


Something that's hard to find
The hidden part of the singer's personality that is not easily discovered


What's behind your smile
Asking what the person is really feeling, despite their outward appearance


Is it really worth my while
Questioning if it is worth the artist's time and effort to find out what the person is truly feeling


What's beneath your ton-bed skin open up and let me in
Asking the person to reveal their true feelings and emotions that they keep hidden beneath their surface level appearance


Do you really want to feel something that is so unreal
Asking if the person is truly searching for something genuine or if they are just searching for a superficial experience


Do you really want to be the one and only one for me
Asking if the person truly wants to be in an exclusive and committed relationship with the artist


When we go to sleep tonight
Referring to the eventual end of the night and the passage of time


I'll have different goals in sight
Implying that the artist is not truthful about their future intentions and plans


Tell you what you want to hear
Implying that the singer is not always truthful with the person and may say things to manipulate them


Have another drink my dear
Pushing the person to drink more, potentially in an attempt to lower their inhibitions


I'm not going to try to hurt you
Attempting to reassure the person that the singer has no intentions of harming them


I'll be honest kind and true
Promising to be genuine and truthful with the person


I'll take you out and treat you right
Implying that the singer will treat the person well and respectfully


Like a decent man would do
Attempting to position the artist as a morally upright person who behaves in a respectable manner


Now I got you in my grasp do not fear my checkered past
Implying that the artist has control over the person, despite any negative actions in their past


Have you now begun to see this diabolic side of me
Asking if the person is now starting to realize the singer's negative qualities


In your mind I'm always there I guess
Imagining that the person is constantly thinking about the singer


You thought I really cared now it's time to say goodbye
Implying that the artist was not truthful about their emotions and now it is time to end the relationship


You bit the hook
Implying that the person was tricked or manipulated by the artist


Believed the lie
Implying that the person was not aware of the artist's true intentions and was deceived


Gonna modify my behavior to make you think I'm your savior
Imagining that the singer will adjust their actions and behaviors to appear as a hero or savior to the person


Now that I'm inside your head
Achieving some level of relationship control, where the artist has an impact on the person's thoughts and feelings


I'm gonna use you
Implying that the singer will manipulate the person for their own benefit


Probably abuse you
Acknowledging that the singer's intentions may be harmful or abusive toward the person


Should have listened to what your mom said
Suggesting that the person should have heeded their mother's warnings or advice about being involved with the singer


Yeah right!
A sarcastic remark about the artist's previous promises and assurances in the song




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: SANDRA LAWRENCE, TOM DOUGLAS

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AggressiveBoarHog

What do you think of me
Do you really want to see a piece of me that I hide
Something that's hard to find
What's behind your smile
Is it really worth my while
What's beneath your ton-bed skin open up and let me in

Do you really want to feel something that is so unreal
Do you really want to be the one and only one for me
When we go to sleep tonight
I'll have different goals in sight
Tell you what you want to hear
Have another drink my dear
I'm not going to try to hurt you
I'll be honest kind and true
I'll take you out and treat you right
Like a decent man would do

Now I got you in my grasp do not fear my checkered past
Have you now begun to see this diabolic side of me
In your mind I'm always there I guess
You thought I really cared now it's time to say…

patrick desrochers

mad caddies for ever!

Jody Streloff

Love this one!

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