Ways to Break a Heart
Maddie Zahm Lyrics


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You could grab me in the evening
Drive me round and round to talk about my feelings
About you leaving
You could kiss my best friend
Call me in the morning to tell me all about it
Say I'm just too much commitment
You could text me while I'm sleeping
'Cause you know I can't get mad at you when I'm dreamin'
So you could leave it

Anything, anything is better than this
You're making it harder than it already is

All the days that you kept me guessing
'Cause you couldn't end it
And of all the ways that you could've said it
But you didn't
You could have told me that things weren't right
Drove me home and let me cry
But of all the ways that you break a heart
You couldn't even pick one
You couldn't even pick one

You could swear you never loved me
Hope to god you never run into my family
But that's too easy
You could have done the right thing
Hold my hand and tell me how much i mean
And that you'll miss me

'Cause anything, anything is better than this
You're making it harder than it already is

All the days that you kept me guessing
'Cause you couldn't end it
And of all the ways that you could've said it
But you didn't
You could have told me that things weren't right
Drove me home and let it lie
But of all the ways that you break a heart
You couldn't even pick one
You couldn't even pick one

All the days that you kept me guessing
'Cause you couldn't end it
And of all the ways that you could've said it
But you didn't

All the days that you kept me guessing
'Cause you couldn't end it
And of all the ways that you could've said it
But you didn't
You could have told me that things weren't right
Drove me home and let me cry
But of all the ways that you break a heart
You couldn't even pick one




You couldn't even pick one
You couldn't even pick one

Overall Meaning

The song "Ways to Break a Heart" by Maddie Zahm talks about the various ways someone can end a relationship. From avoiding confrontation to lying and cheating, the lyrics express the pain and frustration of being on the receiving end of a heartbreak that seems to have no closure or explanation. The singer expresses her disappointment in her partner's inability to choose a respectful and honest way to end their relationship, instead opting for hurtful and confusing tactics. The chorus emphasizes the fact that anything would be better than the current situation, which is causing unnecessary hurt and confusion.


Throughout the song, the singer lists different scenarios in which her partner could have ended things in a more respectful and honest way. From taking her out to talk about their feelings to telling her that things weren't right and driving her home, she emphasizes that any option would have been better than what actually happened. By failing to choose any of these alternatives, the partner has effectively caused even more pain and seems unwilling to take responsibility for their actions. Overall, the song is a powerful expression of the emotional toll that heartbreak can take and the importance of honesty and respect in any relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You could grab me in the evening
You have the option to spend time with me in the evening


Drive me round and round to talk about my feelings
You could take me on a long drive to discuss my emotions


About you leaving
Specifically about the topic of you leaving me


You could kiss my best friend
You would even consider betraying me by kissing my closest friend


Call me in the morning to tell me all about it
After kissing my friend, you would then have the audacity to call me in the morning and boast about it


Say I'm just too much commitment
In order to justify your actions, you would accuse me of being too demanding


You could text me while I'm sleeping
Even when I'm asleep, you could choose to send me a message


'Cause you know I can't get mad at you when I'm dreamin'
You assume that I won't get angry at you for waking me up from my sleep because I'll still be half-asleep and confused


So you could leave it
After wreaking havoc in my life, you could simply choose to walk away and not deal with the aftermath


Anything, anything is better than this
The current situation is so unbearable that anything would be an improvement


You're making it harder than it already is
Your actions are causing me additional pain and difficulty


All the days that you kept me guessing
You kept me in a state of uncertainty for prolonged periods of time


'Cause you couldn't end it
You lacked the courage to simply end things and move on


And of all the ways that you could've said it
There were many possible methods for you to communicate your intentions


But you didn't
You deliberately chose not to use any of those methods


You could have told me that things weren't right
One possible way to handle the situation would have been to directly inform me that things were not going well


Drove me home and let me cry
Another possible approach would have been to take me home and allow me to express my emotions safely


But of all the ways that you break a heart
Out of all the potential methods to end a relationship, you chose the one that causes the most damage


You couldn't even pick one
You didn't even have the decency to choose a slightly less hurtful way of breaking things off


You could swear you never loved me
You might try to claim that you never had any feelings for me


Hope to god you never run into my family
You fear potential confrontation with my loved ones, as they would not approve of your behavior


But that's too easy
Avoiding me and my family would be a cowardly approach to the situation


You could have done the right thing
The correct course of action would have been to deal with the situation head-on and with integrity


Hold my hand and tell me how much I mean
You should have shown me compassion and told me how much you appreciate me


And that you'll miss me
You should have expressed regret for ending things and stated that you would miss me


You couldn't even pick one
Once again, you failed to choose a humane method of ending things




Writer(s): Madeleine Marie Zahm, David Franscisco

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