Following the song, Lindemann transitioned her music into pop punk and alternative rock genres with the release of her debut EP, Paranoia (2021). Her debut album, Suckerpunch, was released on September 16, 2022.
Loner
Maggie Lindemann Lyrics
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Gonna stay here a couple more minutes than I should
Gonna take a couple shots and numb my feelings
'Stead of dealin' with my problems, I'll just stare at the ceiling
Avoidance never heals but this sure feels good
I know I said I'd stop before I drown
But I don't like the thought of coming down
Yeah, I'm a loner
And I like it that way
I like a dark room
With nobody but pain
And I don't need permission to feel sad
And don't need no witness to have my back
'Cause I'm a loner
And I like it that way
And I like it that way
I'm always by myself 'cause that's what feels right
And when I'm in a crowded room, I try to stay out of sight
Always show up to the party hours early
'Cause I'm bored of everything by 7:30
I'm always by myself 'cause that's what feels right
I know I said I'd stop before I drown
Just took a couple pills, now I'm on the ground
Yeah, I'm a loner
And I like it that way
I like a dark room
With nobody but pain
And I don't need permission to feel sad
And don't need no witness to have my back
'Cause I'm a loner
And I like it that way
I like it that way
Yeah, I'm a loner
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, I'm a loner
And I like it that way (that way)
I like a dark room
With nobody but pain
And I don't need permission to feel sad
And don't need no witness to have my back
'Cause I'm a loner
And I like it that way
I like it that way
The song "Loner" by Maggie Lindemann is about coping with emotional issues by avoiding them. The lyrics illustrate the main character's struggle to confront her problems and instead turn to solitude, addiction, and isolation. She acknowledges the advice that avoidance never heals, but admits that the temporary high of escaping her emotions feels good. She continues to take shots and numb her feelings while ignoring her issues by staring up at the ceiling. She asserts herself as a loner and emphasizes that she likes it that way, ultimately reiterating that she doesn't need anyone's permission to feel sad or to have her back.
This song illustrates the internal battle of somebody who isolates themselves to cope with their problems. The lyrics acknowledge that the cycle of avoidance doesn't heal, but initially feels good. The repetition of the phrase "I'm a loner and I like it that way" emphasizes that these behaviors are the character's choice and that they're not trying to change. The lyrics demonstrate how avoiding problems can temporarily help, but ultimately cause more damage to mental health in the long run.
Line by Line Meaning
They say avoidance never heals but this sure feels good
Ignoring my problems might not fix them, but it brings me temporary relief.
Gonna stay here a couple more minutes than I should
I have no desire to confront my issues and am willing to delay facing them.
Gonna take a couple shots and numb my feelings
I will drink alcohol to avoid feeling my emotions.
'Stead of dealin' with my problems, I'll just stare at the ceiling
I am not ready to cope with my issues and will instead do nothing, while lost in my thoughts.
I know I said I'd stop before I drown
I am aware of the harmful consequences or habits that I have been engaging in and need to stop before I reach a point of no return.
But I don't like the thought of coming down
I am hesitant to give up my current 'high' or escape from reality, even though it's harmful.
Yeah, I'm a loner
I prefer to be alone and isolated rather than socialize.
And I like it that way
Being alone feels more comfortable and natural to me.
I like a dark room
I prefer dimly lit spaces.
With nobody but pain
I am accustomed to negative emotions and can handle them alone.
And I don't need permission to feel sad
I can experience emotions without approval from others.
And don't need no witness to have my back
I can handle challenges without assistance from others.
'Cause I'm a loner
I am this way due to my personality and preferences.
I'm always by myself 'cause that's what feels right
I feel most comfortable when I am alone.
And when I'm in a crowded room, I try to stay out of sight
Avoiding attention in large gatherings helps me feel more comfortable.
Always show up to the party hours early
I use punctuality as a means to cope with boredom and possible social anxiety.
'Cause I'm bored of everything by 7:30
I easily lose interest in social engagement and am often bored by this time of day.
Just took a couple pills, now I'm on the ground
I have used medication to cope with my issues and am now suffering the negative effects.
Yeah, I'm a loner
I reiterate that I prefer to be alone.
And I like it that way (that way)
I emphasize that being alone and isolated is what feels right for me.
Lyrics © Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Johnathan Carter Cunningham, Joshua Thomas Murty, Margaret Elizabeth Lindemann, Paris O'Neill Carney
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LYRICS
They say avoidance never heals
But this sure feels good
Gonna stay here a couple more minutes than I should
Gonna take a couple shots, and numb my feelings
Instead of dealing with my problems, I’ll just stare at the ceiling
Avoidance never heals
But this sure feels good
I know I said I’d stop before I drown
But I don’t like the thought of coming down
Yeah I’m a loner
And I like it that way
I like a dark room
With nobody but pain
And I don’t need permission to feel sad
And don’t need no witness to have my back
‘Cause i’m a loner
And I like it that way (And I like it that way)
I’m always by myself
‘Cause that's what feels right
And when I’m in a crowded room, I try to stay out of sight
Always show up to the party hours early
‘Cause I’m bored of everything by 7:30
I’m always by myself
'Cause that's what feels right
I know I said I’d stop before I drown
Just took a couple pills, now I’m on the ground
Yeah I’m a loner
And I like it that way
I like a dark room
With nobody but pain
And I don’t need permission to feel sad
And don’t need no witness to have my back
‘Cause i’m a loner and I like it that way
I like it That way
Yeah I’m a loner (yeah)
Yeah I’m a loner
And I like it that way
I like a dark room
With nobody but pain
And I don’t need permission to feel sad
And don’t need no witness to have my back
‘Cause i’m a loner and I like it that way
I like it that way
(byw i'm a singer/songwriter inspired by Lauv/Jeremy Zucker.It'd mean a lot if you check out my music and subscribe,promise you won't regret💛stay safe:)
@brunacristina3360
this girl really deserves recognition, I hope she wins when she releases her ep
@kclave
Loner | Male Version
https://youtu.be/16YRj_t7zHg
@udontknowexactly
💙 she deserves all..m
@SpaceTimeManipulatorSTM
over a million subscribers isn't recognition? I'm confused.
@Thomas-rw5wx
@SpaceTimeManipulator STM look at the views, not really.
@lostinoc3528
@SpaceTimeManipulator STM it is, ppl don't comprehend basic common sense. I guess they want her to be like Ariana Grande. They probably think her music would still be like this if that famous to.
@user-cz5mh3oh1c
"i like a dark room with nobody but pain" i felt that
@Hellgirl97
Same
@Winteriscold06
Same
@kalyanrose3732
Same