Whalebones
Man Man Lyrics


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He felt her curves surrounding his neck
Like a yoke he knows, he'll never forget
The way she cut through his bed
Like a snake would bite through a cave of flesh

But he holds her, though she's broken
He swears he don't care where she's been
He's tired of being human
He wears her close to the bone as though she were his own skin

He shoots from the heart instead of the head
His mouth and his words, they rarely connect
He looks to the past and where his tongue's tread
And he knows he's meant the opposite

But she holds him like an infant
Though it breaks her in half to know he'll wake like a man
Sold on cold indifference
When he reaches for her, she's gone
She slips like the wind through blackened sails, but

Who are we to love at all?
Who are we to love at all?

(Who are we to love at all?)
And I hope you don't mind if I hang all of my hopes
I hang all my hopes on this time
Although I've been warned, I'll probably get burned
I'd rather get burned than to not try

(Who are we to love at all?)
And I hope you don't mind if I hang all of my hopes
I hang all my hopes on this time
'Cause you won't let it go
Let it go
Let it go
Let it go

(Who are we to love at all?)
'Cause you won't let it go
Let it go
Let it go
Let it go

(Who are we to love at all?)
'Cause you won't let it go
Let it go
Let it go
Let it go





'Cause you won't let it go
Who are we to love at all?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Man Man's song Whalebones convey a sense of loyalty, passion, and sacrifice in love despite the hardships that come with it. The song describes a complicated relationship between two people who are madly in love with each other but are burdened by their past and their inability to communicate their feelings properly. The first verse shows how the man is strangled by the woman's love, and he accepts it, even though it hurts him. He wears her like a second skin, feeling her pain and carrying her burdens as if they were his own. He adores her, despite her imperfections and past mistakes, and he pledges to stick by her side no matter what.


The second verse then shifts the focus to the woman's perspective. She, too, is consumed by her love for the man, but she knows he is not perfect. She worries that he will leave her when he wakes up and realizes what he's gotten into. But she still holds on to him, knowing that it will break her heart in the end. The refrain of the song, "Who are we to love at all?" suggests that love itself is a mysterious force that cannot be fully comprehended, yet there is a beauty in its tangled complexities that cannot be denied. The final lines of the song express a sense of hope and determination to embrace love regardless of the risks involved.


Overall, "Whalebones" is a poignant song that captures the pain and beauty of love in a unique way. It is a song about two flawed people who find solace in each other's company and are determined to hold on to this feeling despite what others may say or think.


Line by Line Meaning

He felt her curves surrounding his neck
He felt suffocated by the weight of her presence


Like a yoke he knows, he'll never forget
He felt trapped and burdened by her, and knows he'll never forget that feeling


The way she cut through his bed
Her impact was so powerful that it felt like she cut through his very being


Like a snake would bite through a cave of flesh
Her presence was predatory and dangerous, like a venomous snake biting through flesh


But he holds her, though she's broken
Despite her flaws and imperfections, he still clings to her


He swears he don't care where she's been
He claims to not care about her past mistakes or actions


He's tired of being human
He's exhausted with the struggles and emotions that come with being human


He wears her close to the bone as though she were his own skin
He's so deeply attached to her that he feels like she's a part of him


He shoots from the heart instead of the head
He makes decisions based on emotions rather than logic or reason


His mouth and his words, they rarely connect
His words often fail to convey his true intentions or feelings


He looks to the past and where his tongue's tread
He reflects on his past mistakes, particularly with regards to communication


And he knows he's meant the opposite
He's aware that his words often come across as the opposite of what he really means


But she holds him like an infant
Despite his flaws, she comforts and nurtures him


Though it breaks her in half to know he'll wake like a man
It pains her to see him revert back to his flawed self after moments of vulnerability


Sold on cold indifference
He's become numb to emotions and human connection


When he reaches for her, she's gone
When he tries to connect with her, she's already emotionally withdrawn or distant


She slips like the wind through blackened sails, but
She evades his attempts at connection like wind through darkened sails


Who are we to love at all?
Who are any of us to truly understand or experience love?


And I hope you don't mind if I hang all of my hopes
He places all of his hopes and dreams for a relationship on her


Although I've been warned, I'll probably get burned
He's aware of the potential risks and negative outcomes, but still pursues the relationship


I'd rather get burned than to not try
He values the experience and potential benefits of trying and failing over never trying at all


'Cause you won't let it go
She won't let go of the relationship, despite its difficulties


Let it go
He's trying to let go of his negative emotions and baggage




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