Not the First
Man Overboard Lyrics


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It all started when I saw you glow,
Feelings came fast spinning out of control
Wish you were here, wish the feelings could show
How would you know, you know?

The freak kid picked last for the team
Out of his league but a boy can still dream
Turns out she wasn't turned off as it seems
Now they're a team, a team

Where did you go, I want to know, are you back for good?
Maybe all along I treated you like I should
You can help me pick up the pieces if you would

I won't forget the first day that we met
I hadn't even hit rock bottom yet
Walked towards the light going faster each step
Till I just slept, I slept

Then in a dream you came back to me
And in the morning I could no longer see
That's my dilemma, that's my sick fantasy
You're here with me, with me

Where did you go, I want to know, are you back for good?
Maybe all along I treated you like I should
You can help me pick up the pieces if you would

Oh, and this is not the first night
Staying up and trying to word everything right
Do you know it's like to have someone steal your heart away?

And oh, I know I've said it all before
Now I'm the idiot standing at your front door
With my hands in my pockets, just trying to steal your heart away

I've looked everywhere
I've looked everywhere
I've looked everywhere

Where did you go, I want to know, are you back for good?




Maybe all along I treated you like I should
You can help me pick up the pieces if you would

Overall Meaning

The song “Not the First” by Man Overboard is a song about someone reflecting on their past relationship and how they treated their partner. The singer of the song reminisces about seeing their partner for the first time and the intense emotional connection they felt. The lyrics “It all started when I saw you glow, feelings came fast spinning out of control” show the initial spark between the two. However, the relationship fell apart and now the singer is hoping for a chance to fix things with their partner. The chorus expresses the singer's desire for their partner to come back into their life and help them pick up the pieces of their broken heart.


The song also implies a sense of regret, as the singer acknowledges that they might not have treated their partner as well as they could have. The lines “Maybe all along I treated you like I should” express the singer's realization that they could have done more for their partner. The last section of the song depicts the singer trying to reconnect with their partner, admitting that they have been searching everywhere for them. The overall message of the song seems to be about second chances and hoping for a chance to make things right with someone they still love.


Line by Line Meaning

It all started when I saw you glow,
The singer experienced strong emotions when they first saw the person they are singing about.


Feelings came fast spinning out of control
The singer's emotions became overwhelming and difficult to manage.


Wish you were here, wish the feelings could show
The singer desires to be with the person they are singing about and wants to express their emotions to them.


How would you know, you know?
The artist questions whether the person they are singing about would understand their feelings if they were expressed.


The freak kid picked last for the team
The artist feels like an outsider or an underdog.


Out of his league but a boy can still dream
Despite feeling like they are not good enough for the person they are singing about or that the person is not interested in them, the singer still has hope and dreams about being with them.


Turns out she wasn't turned off as it seems
The person the singer is singing about ended up being interested in them despite the singer's doubts.


Now they're a team, a team
The artist and the person they are singing about are now together and may be working together to achieve something.


Where did you go, I want to know, are you back for good?
The artist is searching for the person they are singing about and wants to know if they will stay for good.


Maybe all along I treated you like I should
The artist realizes that they may not have treated the person they are singing about well in the past and regrets it.


You can help me pick up the pieces if you would
The singer is asking the person they are singing about for help in overcoming some difficulties or challenges.


I won't forget the first day that we met
The artist holds the memory of meeting the person they are singing about in high regard and feels like it was a significant moment in their life.


I hadn't even hit rock bottom yet
At the time of meeting the person they are singing about, the singer had not yet experienced their lowest point.


Walked towards the light going faster each step
The singer felt like meeting the person they are singing about helped them move towards a better place or mindset and they were feeling better each day.


Till I just slept, I slept
The singer seems to have experienced some sort of rest or peace as a result of meeting the person they are singing about.


Then in a dream you came back to me
The artist is dreaming about being with the person they are singing about again.


And in the morning I could no longer see
When the artist wakes up from the dream, they are no longer able to see or be with the person they are dreaming about.


That's my dilemma, that's my sick fantasy
The singer is struggling with their desire to be with the person they are singing about and feels like it may not be realistic or healthy.


You're here with me, with me
The singer is imagining being with the person they are singing about despite the distance between them in reality.


Oh, and this is not the first night
The artist has been in this situation before and has likely stayed up thinking about the person they are singing about before.


Staying up and trying to word everything right
The artist is putting effort into figuring out how to express their emotions to the person they are singing about.


Do you know it's like to have someone steal your heart away?
The artist is asking if the person they are singing about knows what it's like to have intense feelings for someone.


And oh, I know I've said it all before
The singer has likely expressed their feelings to the person they are singing about before in a similar way.


Now I'm the idiot standing at your front door
The artist feels foolish for continuing to pursue or express their feelings to the person they are singing about.


With my hands in my pockets, just trying to steal your heart away
The singer is still hoping to win over the person they are singing about and is putting effort into making it happen.


I've looked everywhere
The singer has likely gone to great lengths and searched in many places to try to find the person they are singing about or to try to win their affections.


Where did you go, I want to know, are you back for good?
Repeating this line reinforces the singer's desire to know where the person they are singing about is and whether they will stay or not.


Maybe all along I treated you like I should
Repeating this line further emphasizes the artist's regret for not treating the person they are singing about well in the past.


You can help me pick up the pieces if you would
Repeating this line reinforces the artist's request for help from the person they are singing about.




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