Secret Pain
Man Overboard Lyrics


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In more ways then one I've been fighting the gravity
It pulled me back to you
You could find yourself or the true side of loyalty
It broke me as the sun comes through my window
We are nearly alone
In many years from now you'll find yourself with a family
And they won't wait for you
You couldn't find yourself
You couldn't find any honestly
It broke me as the sun comes through my window
Alone indoors

Break me off on another day when I prayed for you
There wasn't much to say, I threw you out on a holiday
When I looked for you, you didn't wanna play
What we had today
I'll Remember it
And I'm not taking chances with our friendship
Separate rooms
Cure me of you somehow. (so inside out I feel)
He's just a bit too cautious




He knows just when to leave
And I spoke to her about him, her eyes say she believes

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Man Overboard's song Secret Pain depict a struggle with a past relationship and its aftermath. The first two lines refer to the gravity of the situation that has pulled the singer back to the person in question, despite all efforts. The lyrics also suggest that the other person had trouble being loyal, causing significant pain to the singer, as symbolized by the brokenness caused by the sun shining through the window. The lyrics emphasize the feeling of being alone, despite being together.


The chorus implies a realization that the relationship was doomed, and even though there were good times to cherish, there was a need to move on. The phrase "break me off on another day" refers to breaking the pattern of the past and finding ways to move past the pain, despite the singer being unsure how to do it. There's also an acknowledgement that their friendship was in a fragile state, and he didn't want to take any chances with it. The singer says that even though they are in separate rooms, he still feels inside out and wants to be cured of the pain.


Line by Line Meaning

In more ways then one I've been fighting the gravity
I have been struggling in many aspects of my life


It pulled me back to you
Despite my struggles, I am still drawn to you


You could find yourself or the true side of loyalty
You have the choice to discover your true self and what loyalty means to you


It broke me as the sun comes through my window
The pain I feel is overwhelming and affects me every day


We are nearly alone
We are experiencing this pain separately, almost in solitude


In many years from now you'll find yourself with a family
Someday, you will start a family and move on from this pain


And they won't wait for you
Your future family will not wait for you to overcome this pain


You couldn't find yourself
You are struggling to find your true self


You couldn't find any honestly
You are having a hard time being honest with yourself and others


Alone indoors
You are feeling isolated and alone


Break me off on another day when I prayed for you
I am asking for a new chapter to start, a day when I can let go of the pain and focus on you


There wasn't much to say, I threw you out on a holiday
Our last encounter was brief and filled with emotion, and I ended it abruptly


When I looked for you, you didn't wanna play
When I reached out to you, you were not willing to engage with me


What we had today
Our connection and relationship


I'll Remember it
I will never forget what we had


And I'm not taking chances with our friendship
I value our friendship and do not want to risk losing it


Separate rooms
We are keeping our distance, both physically and emotionally


Cure me of you somehow. (so inside out I feel)
I need to find a way to heal from the pain of missing you


He's just a bit too cautious
He is hesitant and unsure


He knows just when to leave
He understands when it is time to move on


And I spoke to her about him, her eyes say she believes
I talked to her about you, and her eyes showed that she trusts and believes in you




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Comments from YouTube:

Jinzo94

When this album came out I had just discovered man overboard. I was in my first year in college, lonely, I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. Not much has changed since then but I remember listening to this album in full that every time I first played this song, that entire year. This album got me through so much & I’ll for ever love this band for that

BJM

dude why is pop-punk so nostalgic...

D G

Listening them again after 2 years, makes me miss going to shows

Mikhail Britanico

this is song's been stuck in my head for hours now

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New album sounds awesome, a lot different than their previous albums.

Joshua Howard

Rise, you have the best bands :)

James Bolton

Love me some Man Overboard. :)

kaley I

Saw them on Halloween and they were fucking amazing

Maggie Austin

can't wait to see them on halloween

Alex Trio

Love the gang vocals at the end

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