You're Standing By
Manfred Mann Lyrics


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Oh i want all your friends around girl
I work to put you down girl
And laughed to see you cry
And yet you're standing by

I tried to make it clear girl
That i don't want you near girl
The price is much to high
Oh yet you're standing by

And i try to go home, try to go home, try to go home, try to go home,
Try to go home without you
I guess i don't make my mind girl
But i always known that i wind up loving you

This hurting don't make sense girl
I want to say the best is just a pretense girl
Oh now i don't need to lie
And i'm so glad that you're standing by

Yes, yes, i'm so glad that you're standing by girl
Yes, yes, i want to tell the world that i'm so proud you're mine girl




Oh no i won't cry no more
I don't have to be a fool in life no more

Overall Meaning

In Manfred Mann's song "You're Standing By," the singer reflects upon a tumultuous relationship with a girl. The lyrics suggest that the singer has been unkind to her, working to put her down and laughing at her tears. He insists that he doesn't want her near and that the price of their relationship is too high, yet she continues to stand by him. Despite his attempts to leave her and go home without her, he always ends up loving her. The singer admits that the hurting doesn't make sense and that he was just pretending to be better off without her. He is grateful that she is still standing by him, and he no longer needs to cry or be a fool in life.


The song deals with the complexity of relationships and the struggle to reconcile one's feelings with one's actions. Through the lyrics, the singer expresses his regret for the way he has treated the girl, but also his love for her. He acknowledges that he has caused her pain, but he also cannot help his feelings for her. The song's storytelling, though simple, is emotionally charged, and the singer's vocals capture the internal turmoil of the character he is portraying.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh i want all your friends around girl
I want to publicly humiliate you in front of your friends and make you feel small.


I work to put you down girl
I intentionally try to lower your self-confidence and self-worth.


And laughed to see you cry
Seeing you in emotional pain brings me joy and satisfaction.


And yet you're standing by
Despite my mistreatment of you, you continue to stay with me and support me.


I tried to make it clear girl
I've tried to be direct with you and express that I don't want to be in a relationship with you.


That i don't want you near girl
I don't want to be in close proximity or intimate with you.


The price is much to high
Being with you comes with too many negative consequences.


Oh yet you're standing by
Despite all of this, you continue to support and care for me.


And i try to go home, try to go home, try to go home, try to go home,
I attempt to distance myself from you over and over again.


Try to go home without you
I try to leave behind the idea of being in a relationship with you.


I guess i don't make my mind girl
I can't seem to make a decision about whether or not to be with you.


But i always known that i wind up loving you
I know that I will ultimately end up falling in love with you.


This hurting don't make sense girl
I'm confused by my internal conflict about my feelings towards you.


I want to say the best is just a pretense girl
I believe that the idea of being in a happy, loving relationship is just an act or facade.


Oh now i don't need to lie
I don't feel the need to pretend anymore.


And i'm so glad that you're standing by
I'm grateful that you continue to stand by me and support me, despite my internal conflict.


Yes, yes, i'm so glad that you're standing by girl
I reiterate my gratitude for your unwavering support.


Yes, yes, i want to tell the world that i'm so proud you're mine girl
I want to publicly claim you as mine and express pride in our relationship.


Oh no i won't cry no more
I won't let my internal conflict and confusion bring me to tears anymore.


I don't have to be a fool in life no more
I no longer have to make foolish decisions and can move towards clarity and resolution.




Writer(s): Thomas Mc Guiness

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Adrian


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Canadian Sinver / Songwriter Ian Thomas wrofe this song. He lives in Stoney Creek, Canada.

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I live in Davenport,was still in the army when the band was stranded herein Davenport.

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