If It
Mariah Carey Lyrics


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Won't you talk to me
This is so out of hand, out of hand
Something's gone wrong
With the life that we planned

Won't you look at me
You're avoiding my gaze, yes you are
And it seems like you've changed
In so many ways

It isn't fair
It isn't right
If it's really gone
Then tell me tonight
If it's over
If it's over
Let me go

Won't you speak to me
I'm just here holding on
'Cause baby I really don't need to wait around
Oh no, if the feeling is gone

It isn't fair
It isn't right
'Cause if it's really gone
Then tell me tonight baby
If it's over
If it's over
Let me go

Don't you know, I don't need no apologies, no
I'm not looking for no sympathy
All I'm asking for
Is for your honesty

Won't you give it to me
Give it to me now

It isn't fair
It just isn't right
'Cause if it's really gone
You've got to say the word tonight

If it's over
If it's over
Baby if it's over
Won't you let me know
Baby if it's over





If it's over
Over, let me go

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Mariah Carey's song "If It's Over" speak to the heart of a relationship that is falling apart. The singer is desperately trying to communicate with the person who used to love them, but they are avoiding their gaze and refusing to speak to them. Despite this, the singer is holding on to hope that things can be fixed, but only if the other person is honest about their feelings. They want to know if the relationship is truly over so they can move on and let go.


The repetition of the phrase "If it's over" creates a sense of urgency and anxiety. The singer is stuck in limbo, waiting for the other person to make a decision. There is a sense of unfairness in the situation, as the singer is left in the dark about what is really going on. The lines "Don't you know, I don't need no apologies, no / I'm not looking for no sympathy / All I'm asking for / Is for your honesty" show that the singer just wants the truth, even if it hurts.


Overall, the song captures the pain of a relationship on the brink of dissolution. The singer is desperately trying to hold on, but also knows that they need to let go if the other person doesn't feel the same. The song is a powerful expression of heartbreak and vulnerability.


Line by Line Meaning

Won't you talk to me
Please communicate with me


This is so out of hand, out of hand
Our situation has become unmanageable


Something's gone wrong
Our relationship has taken a turn for the worse


With the life that we planned
The future we envisioned together is no longer feasible


Won't you look at me
Please make eye contact with me


You're avoiding my gaze, yes you are
You are deliberately not meeting my eyes


And it seems like you've changed
Your behavior towards me is different than before


In so many ways
There are multiple aspects that have shifted in our relationship


It isn't fair
Your lack of honesty is unjust


It isn't right
It is morally incorrect


If it's really gone
If our relationship is truly over


Then tell me tonight
Please inform me right now


Let me go
Set me free from this situation


Won't you speak to me
Please say something to me


I'm just here holding on
I am trying to hold onto our relationship


'Cause baby I really don't need to wait around
I don't want to waste my time waiting for an answer


Oh no, if the feeling is gone
If you no longer have feelings for me


Don't you know, I don't need no apologies, no
I don't want your apologies


I'm not looking for no sympathy
I don't want your pity


All I'm asking for
I just want


Is for your honesty
Is for you to be truthful with me


Won't you give it to me
Please tell me the truth


Give it to me now
Tell me right away


It just isn't right
It is morally incorrect


You've got to say the word tonight
You need to tell me the truth tonight


Baby if it's over
If our relationship is truly over


Won't you let me know
Please inform me


If it's over over, let me go
If our relationship is really over, please let me move on




Lyrics © FRANAM PUB ADMINISTRATION, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Mariah Carey, Carole King

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IF IT'S OVER LYRICS

[Verse 1]
Won't you talk to me
This is so out of hand
Out of hand
Something's gone wrong
With the life that we planned

[Verse 2]
Won't you look at me
You're avoiding my gaze
And it seems like you've changed
In so many ways

[Chorus]
It isn't fair
It isn't right
If it's really gone
Then tell me tonight
If it's over
If it's over
Let me go

[Verse 3]
Won't you speak to me
I'm just here holding on
'Cause, baby, I really don't need to wait around
If the feeling is gone

[Chorus]
It isn't fair
It isn't right
If it's really gone
Then tell me tonight
If it's over
If it's over
Let me go

[Verse 4]
I don't need no apologies
I'm not looking for no sympathy
All I'm asking for
Is for your honesty
Won't you give it to me
Give it to me now

[Verse 5]
It isn't fair
It just isn't right
'Cause if it's really gone
You've got to say the word tonight
If it's over
If it's over
Baby if it's over
Won't you let me know
Baby if it's over
If it's over
Over - let me go



All comments from YouTube:

Tony Ham

Mariah is Mariah. Some people like her older material and some like her newer material, but she's still Mariah. Nobody ever sang like this. Nobody.

david N

She was, she is, and on a personal note, she always will be the Greatest! Angelic Voice! No yelling or ridiculous screaming! Just heavenly :-)

jmatt4life

She was in total control of her voice back then, ABSOLUTE MASTERY!!!

C Moore

That lower register!!! Mariah's range is unmatched.

Kimberley Jackson

It's why I love this song. Her lower register 🥰

Prophecy & Revelations

Not many artists sound just as good singing live as they do on their records. She does! Way 2 Go Mariah!!!🥳

Chloe Carlington

She's the epitome of beauty in the mid 90s, in my opinion, she's soooo gorgeous like this.

MaKiyah Smith

Chloe Carlington this was the early 90s , 1992

R. Ann

Gorgeous
Performers nowadays already have work done and wear a gallon of makeup at the age that she was here.

Love Me Some Soul

Yass she is 💕

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