She was born in Hampshire and has lived in Devon, Brighton and London. She is of Finnish descent.
Hackman went to Bedales School where she met Cara Delevingne. Together they formed a short-lived band where Hackman played drums and Delevingne played guitar and sang.
Johnny Flynn also studied at the same school and knew and appreciated Hackman's music. He was instrumental in getting her first record deal with Transgressive and produced her debut single.
In 2013 she toured Australia and Europe as an opening act for Laura Marling
Boyfriend
Marika Hackman Lyrics
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I think you know she stayed with me last night
I held his world in my hands
I threw it out to see where it would land
You came to me for entropy and I gave you all I had
He makes a better man than me
So I know he won't feel bad
It's fine 'cause I am just a girl
"It doesn't count"
He knows a woman needs a man to make her shout
I hope your boyfriend doesn't mind (I know he doesn't mind)
You tell me that you love me every time (You love me all the time)
I held his girl in my hands (I know he doesn't mind)
She likes it 'cause they're softer than a man's (I like to moisturize)
Heaven knows we're meant to be
But it's turned into a mess
No one takes us seriously just because I wear a dress
It's fine 'cause I am just a girl
"It's just a dream"
A woman really needs a man to make her scream
"I can't do any higher"
You came to me for entropy and I gave you all I had
He makes a better man than me
So I know he won't feel bad
The lyrics of Marika Hackman's song "Boyfriend" can be interpreted as a commentary on heteronormative relationships and societal gender roles by the perspective of a woman who is interested in another woman's boyfriend. The first verse of the song puts the lyrics into context as the singer reveals that the woman's boyfriend stayed with her the previous night, putting the boyfriend at the center of the story. The singer admits to having the boyfriend on her mind and throwing his world into chaos to see how he would react to the situation.
The following lines of the song portray the singer's perception of the societal norms in heterosexual relationships. She suggests that women are expected to be submissive and require a man to satisfy their sexual desires, as the woman in question comes to her for "entropy," or sexual excitement. However, the singer expresses her belief that the woman's boyfriend "makes a better man" than her, hinting at the feeling of inadequacy and societal pressure that the singer feels as a woman.
The chorus of the song highlights the power dynamic present in the situation, as the singer acknowledges that society expects women to need men for validation and sexual pleasure. However, she is aware of the dynamic and is fine with being the "other woman," as she believes that women should not rely on men for their happiness or fulfilment. The song's final line suggests that the singer has given all she had to the woman, indicating that the relationship was not just about sexual pleasure but emotional connection.
Line by Line Meaning
I've got your boyfriend on my mind
I cannot help thinking about your boyfriend.
I think you know she stayed with me last night
I believe you already know that your boyfriend was with me last night.
I held his world in my hands
I had control over his life.
I threw it out to see where it would land
I let go of my grip on him to find out what he would do.
You came to me for entropy and I gave you all I had
You approached me seeking chaos, and I provided everything I could.
He makes a better man than me
Your boyfriend is a better partner than I am.
So I know he won't feel bad
I am sure he won't be hurt by what we did.
It's fine 'cause I am just a girl
I justify my actions because I am a woman.
"It doesn't count"
I tell myself that what we did was not serious, so it does not matter.
He knows a woman needs a man to make her shout
Your boyfriend knows that women need men to satisfy them sexually.
I hope your boyfriend doesn't mind (I know he doesn't mind)
I wish your boyfriend would not mind, but I am certain he will not be upset.
You tell me that you love me every time (You love me all the time)
You express your affection for me repeatedly, or perhaps even constantly.
I held his girl in my hands (I know he doesn't mind)
I had control over his partner, and I am sure he will not be bothered.
She likes it 'cause they're softer than a man's (I like to moisturize)
His girlfriend enjoys female bodies because they are more tender than male bodies, and I take care of my skin.
Heaven knows we're meant to be
Divine forces believe we are fated to be together.
But it's turned into a mess
However, our relationship has fallen into disarray.
No one takes us seriously just because I wear a dress
People do not view us seriously because I am a woman and wear feminine clothing.
It's fine 'cause I am just a girl
Once again, I excuse my behavior because of my gender.
"It's just a dream"
I tell myself that our relationship is not tangible, it is only a fantasy.
A woman really needs a man to make her scream
Women require men to provide them with intense sexual pleasure.
"I can't do any higher"
I cannot go any further, both physically and emotionally, in our relationship.
Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MARIKA LOUISE HACKMAN
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@danielbrown1724
I absolutely love her voice and vocal melodies 🤘🤗💜
Her voice works perfectly for the Double-tracking,
I love the production on the whole album. The engineer really went all out
🤗
Well done Marika!! You’re right, it’s definitely a huge shift from ‘We slept at last 💜
@lizzie3454
I've got your boyfriend on my mind
I think you know she stayed with me last night
I held his world in my hands
I threw it out to see where it would land
You came to me for entropy and I gave you all I had
He makes a better man than me
So I know he won't feel bad
It's fine 'cause I am just a girl
"It doesn't count"
He knows a woman needs a man to make her shout
I hope your boyfriend doesn't mind (I know he doesn't mind)
You tell me that you love me every time (You love me all the time)
I held his girl in my hands (I know he doesn't mind)
She likes it 'cause they're softer than a man's (I like to moisturise)
Heaven knows we're meant to be
But it's turned into a mess
No one takes us seriously just because I wear a dress
It's fine 'cause I am just a girl
"It's just a dream"
A woman really needs a man to make her scream
You came to me for entropy and I gave you all I had
He makes a better man than me
So I know he won't feel bad
@user-nf3hh8kn5r
Marika could steal me from my nonexistent boyfriend any day
@daniellewieners4750
You and me both lol
@molly386
“no one takes us seriously
just because i wear a dress”
that hit too close to home who gave you the right-
@z0uLess
Women tend to hide their anger while men tend to hide their fears, use this as a rule to get along with people.
@Edible_Kittens
She looks so rugged and Kurt Cobain-esque but her voice is genuinely one of the most seductive I’ve ever heard. What a godly combo.
@tamerebel
I just love all the details in this video - the way he looks up the lyrics on the back of his hand and the cuts from one band to the other are amazing
@euphoricdreamer6536
I have fallen in love with this song and with marika, this is too good
@quinmp3
this song perfectly described my life but she recently broke up with her boyfriend so i guess my prayers to tegan and sara were answered
@heatherjensen7507
i am in love with this comment
@emillylacerda9252
Loll