I Know What It's Like to Be Loved
Mark Heard Lyrics


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They say that the body is not of a durable kind
Just cosmic pedestrians destined as bones in the ground
While we and our fortunes are gathering dust
We yearn for a hope that would lay those assumptions to rest
I know where that hope lives
And I know what it's like to be loved
Hate is a swindler and often we know we've been had
We do unto others, then run with a leisurely laugh
And when we've had all our barbarian fun
We yearn for hearts that would soften like wax in the sun
I know about forgiveness
And I know what it's like to be loved

Oh shall we lie dormant with no everlasting exchange?
With no fascination beyond the terrestrial range?
As our inheritance seems swept out to sea
We ache with a knowledge that that's not the way it should be
I know that's not the way it is
And I know what it's like to be loved




I know that's not the way it is
And I know what it's like to be loved

Overall Meaning

Mark Heard's song I Know What It's Like to Be Loved is a reflection about the desires and anxieties that haunt our lives as human beings. Heard draws a sharp contrast between our mortal and transient bodies, which will eventually turn into dust, and our aspirations for hope and love that go beyond our earthly existence. The lyrics suggest that while we are aware of the impermanence of our lives, we yearn for something that would transcend the physical realm and give us a sense of meaning and purpose.


Heard also highlights the destructive power of hate and how it can deceive us into believing that hurting others will bring us joy and satisfaction. But ultimately, he argues that this kind of pleasure is short-lived and hollow and that true happiness can only be found by showing forgiveness and experiencing the warmth of affection that comes from being loved.


The third verse of the song questions whether life is just a fleeting and meaningless experience or if there is something more significant and awe-inspiring waiting for us beyond the horizon. Heard suggests that it's possible to find hope and reassurance by recognizing that our existence is not limited to this world but extends to a higher and transcendent realm. By acknowledging this truth, we can embrace the uncertainty and challenges of life and find comfort in the knowledge that we are not alone.


Line by Line Meaning

They say that the body is not of a durable kind
It is commonly believed that the human body is not long-lasting and will inevitably decay over time.


Just cosmic pedestrians destined as bones in the ground
We are merely temporary beings on this Earth, destined for death and eventual decay.


While we and our fortunes are gathering dust
As we go about our lives accumulating possessions and wealth, they will eventually become insignificant and forgotten.


We yearn for a hope that would lay those assumptions to rest
Despite the harsh reality of our mortality and the fleeting nature of our worldly possessions, we long for a belief or faith that can provide comfort and rest from these assumptions.


I know where that hope lives
As the singer of this song, I know where that hope can be found.


And I know what it's like to be loved
I have experienced the feeling of being loved, which brings a sense of peace and contentment.


Hate is a swindler and often we know we've been had
Hatred is deceiving and often causes us to feel as though we have been cheated in some way.


We do unto others, then run with a leisurely laugh
We harm others without remorse and often enjoy doing so.


And when we've had all our barbarian fun
After we have indulged in our cruel behaviors and actions, we eventually tire of it.


We yearn for hearts that would soften like wax in the sun
We desire forgiveness and loving-kindness from those we have wronged.


I know about forgiveness
As the singer of this song, I have experienced forgiveness personally.


And I know what it's like to be loved
I have also experienced the feeling of being loved, which includes forgiveness and compassion.


Oh shall we lie dormant with no everlasting exchange?
Shall we simply exist without experiencing any meaningful, eternal connections or relationships?


With no fascination beyond the terrestrial range?
Without any curiosity or interest in things beyond Earthly matters?


As our inheritance seems swept out to sea
As it seems our legacy or what we pass on to future generations is being lost or forgotten.


We ache with a knowledge that that's not the way it should be
We feel a deep sense of sadness and discomfort with the idea that our existence on this Earth should be meaningless and without purpose.


I know that's not the way it is
As the singer of this song, I know that there is more to our existence than simply living and dying on this Earth.


And I know what it's like to be loved
Through my experiences with love and forgiveness, I have come to know that there is more to life beyond our physical realm.




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