Getting to Know You
Marni Nixon Lyrics


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It's a very ancient saying
But a true and honet thought
That if you become a teacher
By your pupils you'll be taught
As a teacher I've been learning
You'll forgive me if I boast
And I've now become an expert
In the subject I like most
Getting to know you.
(Ohhhh!)
Getting to know you
Getting to know all about you
Getting to like you
Getting to hope you like me
Getting to know you
Putting it my way
But nicely
You are precisely
My cup of tea
Getting to know you
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day
Getting to know you
Getting to know all about you
Getting to like you
Getting to hope you like me
Getting to know you
Putting it my way
But nicely
You are precisely
My cup of tea
Getting to know you
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day
Getting to know you
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day
Getting to know you
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new




Things I'm learning about you
Day by day

Overall Meaning

Marni Nixon’s “Getting to Know You” exudes a certain charm that’s hard to resist. At first glance, the lyrics may seem simple and straightforward, but upon closer inspection, one can see the depth and sincerity behind it. The opening lines, “It’s a very ancient saying, but a true and honest thought, that if you become a teacher, by your pupils you'll be taught,” reflect the idea that learning is a never-ending process. It suggests that even teachers, who are presumed to know everything, still have much to discover, and that they can also learn from their students.


The song then progresses into a charming melody that expresses the joy of getting to know someone. It describes the experience of learning about a person’s likes, dislikes, quirks, and personalities, and finding oneself drawn to them. The lyrics convey the singer’s feelings of comfort and ease when around the other person, and the excitement of discovering new things about them each day. In addition, the line, “Putting it my way, but nicely,” suggests the importance of communication in any relationship, as well as the need for compassion and understanding.


Overall, “Getting to Know You” is a song about the beauty of discovering another person. It reminds us of the joy that comes with genuine human connections and, at the same time, encourages us to be open-minded, patient, and respectful towards each other.


Line by Line Meaning

It's a very ancient saying
An ancient proverb holds true


But a true and honest thought
The proverb encompasses an honest truth


That if you become a teacher
The proverb speaks of the benefits of being a teacher


By your pupils you'll be taught
Teachers learn from their students as well


As a teacher I've been learning
The singer is speaking from their experience as a teacher


You'll forgive me if I boast
The singer is humbly requesting forgiveness for taking pride in their accomplishments


And I've now become an expert
The singer has become knowledgeable in their chosen subject


In the subject I like most
The subject the artist is referring to is their favorite


Getting to know you.
The song's chorus begins


(Ohhhh!)
An exclamation of excitement or enthusiasm


Getting to know you
The singer is expressing a desire to get to know the person they are addressing


Getting to know all about you
The singer wants to learn everything they can about the person


Getting to like you
The singer is expressing a growing fondness for the person


Getting to hope you like me
The singer is expressing a desire for the person to like them in return


Getting to know you
Repetition to emphasize the importance of getting to know the person


Putting it my way
The singer is adding their personal touch to how they are getting to know the person


But nicely
The singer is being polite and respectful while getting to know the person


You are precisely
The singer is saying that the person they are getting to know is exactly what they like


My cup of tea
The singer is using a figurative expression to mean the person is their ideal match


Getting to know you
Repetition to emphasize the importance of getting to know the person


Getting to feel free and easy
The singer is expressing a sense of comfort and relaxation around the person


When I am with you
The singer is referring to times spent with the person


Getting to know what to say
The singer is learning what conversation topics to bring up around the person


Haven't you noticed
The singer is asking if the person has noticed a change in their demeanor


Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
The singer's mood has improved due to the positive experience of getting to know the person


Because of all the beautiful and new
The singer is learning new things about the person


Things I'm learning about you
The singer is excited about the things they are learning about the person


Day by day
The process of getting to know the person is a gradual one


Getting to know you
Repetition to emphasize the importance of getting to know the person


Getting to feel free and easy
The singer is expressing a sense of comfort and relaxation around the person


When I am with you
The singer is referring to times spent with the person


Getting to know what to say
The singer is learning what conversation topics to bring up around the person


Haven't you noticed
The singer is asking if the person has noticed a change in their demeanor


Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
The singer's mood has improved due to the positive experience of getting to know the person


Because of all the beautiful and new
The singer is learning new things about the person


Things I'm learning about you
The singer is excited about the things they are learning about the person


Day by day
The process of getting to know the person is a gradual one


Getting to know you
Repetition to emphasize the importance of getting to know the person


Getting to feel free and easy
The singer is expressing a sense of comfort and relaxation around the person


When I am with you
The singer is referring to times spent with the person


Getting to know what to say
The singer is learning what conversation topics to bring up around the person


Haven't you noticed
The singer is asking if the person has noticed a change in their demeanor


Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
The singer's mood has improved due to the positive experience of getting to know the person


Because of all the beautiful and new
The singer is learning new things about the person


Things I'm learning about you
The singer is excited about the things they are learning about the person


Day by day
The process of getting to know the person is a gradual one




Writer(s): R. Rogers, O. Hammerstein ii

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@aminsadeghpour1549

I remember very well the first time I saw this musical with my family on VHS.

it was back in January of 1991. my family had just come back to the United States after a year and a half in the country of Nicaragua.

I had to go have a heart surgery. the night before I went to the hospital to have my surgery my dad rented The King and I from the local library for my family to watch that night. I remember sitting down in the apartment that night enjoying the musical very much.

I was only 7 years old, but I understood the importance of this song.

Anna came from another world where things are quite different. this song was basically telling us but no matter how different people are they still can get to know each other if they get a chance too.



All comments from YouTube:

@joannagardner3446

I am 71 years old and have my first grandchild in my arms as I write this. I learned all the songs from the king and I when I was 6 years old. I used to sing them all to my grandmother. I studied classical singing for many years. The memories of my Nani and sharing this music is one f my very best. Now I sing this song to my 4 month old granddaughter. What wonderful music. Full of love and is so very pure. Thank Rogers and Hammerstein.

@damaryscesani7743

Blessings to you and your grandchild.

@susanalopez5052

I LOVE how HUGE the skirt is, the way it twirls and even hit’s a lot of the kids in the face, the costume design of this movie is perfection

@HawkinaBox

I want to wear something like that.

@forreal245

It only "appears" to hit them in face. That is a very heavy skirt & would harm anyone if hit in face.

@bach1369

Deborah Kerr said those dresses weighed 40 pounds and were very warm. She thought everyone would call her, "the melting Miss Kerr." Irene Sharaff designed them, as well as for the stage show. She won an Oscar and went on to design for other productions including Flower Drum Song, Hello Dolly!, and Mommie Dearest.

@The1971orange

@@bach1369 I thought Irene Sharaff resigned from "Mommie Dearest" because Faye Dunaway was a terror to work with. She also won for "West Side Story."

@bach1369

@@The1971orange Irene Sharaff has the screen credit. I have heard the same story but didn't know she resigned. She also did the costumes for Flower Drum Song and Hello, Dolly!

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@crazeechickee11

The part where the little kids try to imitate her huge skirt just kills me every time. So sweet!

@russellwright1324

Agreed choreographer Jerome Robbins was a genius!

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