Not for Me
Marshall Crenshaw Lyrics


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I see you standin' helpless
Afraid to face a little sadness
If I follow your direction
Where would I be?

But I don't have to wonder I know definitely
That it's just not for me
Yeah I know what happened last time
And someday you'll wake up to find that
You've be waiting around for something
You'll never see

I don't have to wonder I know definitely
That it's just not for me
So I know what not to do
Cause I learned it from you yeah
Now I feel sorry for you

And I hope that someday I can thank you
Now you're still waiting around for something
You'll never see
I don't have to wonder I know definitely
That it's just not for me
So I know what not to do
Cause I learned from you
I feel sorry for you

And I hope that someday I can thank you
I know what happened last time
But you'll never recover lost time
If I follow your direction
Where would I be?




I don't have to wonder I know definitely
That it's just not for me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Marshall Crenshaw's song "Not for Me" express insight and a sense of caution. The song is about someone who is observing another person in a situation that they know is not going to end well. They see the other person standing "helpless" and "afraid to face a little sadness". The singer contemplates following the direction of the person they are observing, but ultimately decides against it because they know "what happened last time". There is a sense of resignation and sympathy in the lyrics, as the singer "feels sorry" for the other person and hopes that someday they can thank them. Overall, the song is about learning from the mistakes of others and making a conscious decision to avoid repeating them.


Line by Line Meaning

I see you standin' helpless
I observe that you are in a state of hopelessness and despair.


Afraid to face a little sadness
You are scared of experiencing any negative emotions.


If I follow your direction Where would I be?
I question where I would end up if I were to follow your lead.


But I don't have to wonder I know definitely That it's just not for me
I don't have to speculate because I know for certain that your way of life is not suitable for me.


Yeah I know what happened last time
I am aware of the negative outcome of a similar situation in the past.


And someday you'll wake up to find that You've been waiting around for something You'll never see
Eventually, you will realize that you have been waiting in vain for something that will never happen.


So I know what not to do Cause I learned it from you yeah Now I feel sorry for you
I know what actions to avoid because I learned from your mistakes and I empathize with your situation.


And I hope that someday I can thank you
I aspire to be grateful for the lessons I learned from you.


Now you're still waiting around for something You'll never see
Currently, you are still holding out hope for a futile outcome.


I know what happened last time But you'll never recover lost time
I am aware of what happened before, but it is not possible to regain the wasted time.


I don't have to wonder I know definitely That it's just not for me
Again, I am certain that your way is not suitable for me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MARSHALL H CRENSHAW

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