Running and Hiding
Martha and The Vandellas Lyrics


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If you want my love
Why don't you come get it
This is your own tail
Why don't you come get it
You say you love me
And we'll be together
You say be patient
Must I wait forever

But when I want you
You're nowhere around
And when I feel the need
You can't be found
Just like a circus
And we're the clowns
I'm chasing, you're running
I'm battling, you're punning

You can't find love running and hiding
You can't find love running and hiding

I can give you love
I never gave before
Let me be the love
You've been searching
You say you love me
And we'll be together
We say be patient
Must I wait forever

Sitting here alone
You're nowhere around
Called you on the phone
You can't be found




Anticipation's getting me down
I'm chasing, you're running
I'm waiting, you're not coming

You can't find love running and hiding
You can't find love running and hiding

One thing keeps me holding on
I know when the gear is gone
You will run to bring your love to me
You will run to bring your love to me
You will run to bring your love to me"

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Running and Hiding" by Martha and the Vandellas vividly explore the emotional complexities of love, longing, and the frustration that often accompanies them. At the outset, the singer presents a straightforward plea that epitomizes the paradox of desire and unavailability. The repeated question “Why don’t you come get it?” serves to highlight a sense of urgency and directness that is often lost in relationships where one partner plays hard to get. The insistent nature of this request underscores a persistent yearning for connection, yet it is juxtaposed with a feeling of abandonment and confusion as the singer reveals her partner's lack of presence despite their professed love.


As the song progresses, the contrast between words and actions becomes increasingly prominent. The assertion that “you say you love me” is followed by the sentiments of waiting and frustration, painting a picture of love that is conditional or inconsistent. The metaphor of running and hiding suggests a game of cat and mouse, where love feels more like a pursuit than a partnership. The imagery of a circus, implying chaos and perhaps artifice, indicates a performance of love that fails to translate into authentic emotion. The singer becomes both the pursuer and the victim in this drama, further emphasizing the emotional turmoil inherent in the relationship. The motivations of the partner remain obscured, leading the singer to grapple with feelings of helplessness and confusion.


The chorus reinforces the core theme of the song: “You can’t find love running and hiding.” This refrain encapsulates the futility of evading love and the idea that genuine connection cannot be formed when one partner is disengaged or elusive. The repetition of this line adds to its significance, acting as a sort of warning that love demands presence and vulnerability. The urgency in the lyrics serves as a reminder that love is iterative—it requires engagement and a willingness to face fears and uncertainties together. The singer’s experiences evoke a sense of melancholy as she reflects on how love is supposed to feel, yet is trapped in a cycle of anticipation and disappointment.


In the concluding verses, a glimmer of hope emerges, suggesting that the relationship may yet have the capacity for transformation. The line “one thing keeps me holding on” reveals a flicker of optimism amidst the sadness, signaling the singer’s belief in eventual reconciliation. The anticipation that her partner will “run to bring your love to me” introduces a theme of resilience and the idea that love, despite its trials, possesses the potential for redemption. Overall, these lyrics encapsulate the essence of love's complexities—its ability to inspire profound joy and deep sorrow—with a powerful message about the necessity of presence, honesty, and commitment in fostering a genuine connection. The expert blend of longing and hope leaves the listener reflecting on their own experiences of love, making the song both relatable and poignant.


Line by Line Meaning

If you want my love
Should you desire my affection


Why don't you come get it
Why not come forward to embrace it?


This is your own tail
This is your own situation to address


Why don't you come get it
Why not take action to obtain it?


You say you love me
You profess your love for me


And we'll be together
And you promise we will be united


You say be patient
You advise me to remain calm


Must I wait forever
Am I to endure endless waiting?


But when I want you
However, in my moments of longing for you


You're nowhere around
You seem to be absent completely


And when I feel the need
And at times when I deeply desire your presence


You can't be found
You are elusive and unreachable


Just like a circus
It feels chaotic and disorganized, similar to a circus


And we're the clowns
We find ourselves in silly and frustrating roles


I'm chasing, you're running
I pursue you, while you evade me


I'm battling, you're punning
I am struggling to reach you, and you respond with jokes or evasions


You can't find love running and hiding
Love cannot be discovered while avoiding and evading it


You can't find love running and hiding
One cannot discover lasting affection by retreating from it


I can give you love
I am capable of offering you profound love


I never gave before
A love that I have yet to share in the past


Let me be the love
Allow me to be the source of love for you


You've been searching
As you have been on a quest for true affection


You say you love me
You assert your love for me again


And we'll be together
And you re-confirm our eventual union


We say be patient
We both echo the need for patience


Must I wait forever
Am I destined to wait indefinitely once more?


Sitting here alone
I find myself in solitude once again


You're nowhere around
You continue to be absent from my side


Called you on the phone
I attempted to reach you through a call


You can't be found
You remain unreachable and distant


Anticipation's getting me down
The suspense of waiting is beginning to weigh heavily on me


I'm chasing, you're running
I continue to pursue while you slip away


I'm waiting, you're not coming
I remain in expectation, yet you do not arrive


You can't find love running and hiding
Affection cannot be grasped when one is in retreat


You can't find love running and hiding
Real love will escape one who evades it


One thing keeps me holding on
There is one thought that strengthens my resolve


I know when the gear is gone
I understand that when circumstances change


You will run to bring your love to me
You will eventually rush back to deliver your affection


You will run to bring your love to me
You will hurry back to share your love once again


You will run to bring your love to me
You will come forth and present your love to me in time




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: IVY JO HUNTER, IAN GEOFFREY LEVINE, STEVEN CRAIG WAGNER, CRAIG WAGNER STEVEN

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@markplane5994

I start Spring Cleaning tomorrow and my stereo is going to get abused with Martha, Aretha, Motown and Northern Soul.( if you are familiar with the Northern Soul Genre) Nothing under 50 years old and I am going to literally shake the house as I clean (unless I blow my speakers, which would be a really bad day) Don't know about my hips being loosened, but I could have very well dislocated them by the end of the day. lol.

If you are not from the UK, have a look at this.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_soul

Here is a quick preview.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TEyxwXIRPs&list=PLfMaV_DTTyta-hFFXFtw0OyeNqRUfOx9x&index=3



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@leesher1845

The best Motown tunes ever. Great lyrics, great orchestration, great musicians, and of course great vocalists.

@oldermusiclover

the Funks could make Micky Mouse sound good

@geoffreyjonathanwilson9932

Oh yes!

@trademark1874

Jack Ashford on the tambourine right here!!!

@andrewbetsargis92

John 3:16
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Jesus Christ loves you all!❤✝

@hiddenpandacapital6990

Behind every good singer / vocalist / Motown group was ..... THE FUNK BROTHERS !

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@kdiamonds

No matter where I am or what I'm doing, whenever this song comes on I get emotional and goosebumps, unfailingly. Can't explain. Great song

@KittyKat-bf8bk

Climate change is not helping. I know this song is about love, but the refrain has gotten to be right haunting.

@kdiamonds

@@KittyKat-bf8bk never thought about it like that, you're right though, to be fair you can also say the say about Judgement Day etc., But it's a love song, just listen to it for what it is I think that's best

@bridget1780

Yeo. I just get up and dance!

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