Were You There
Martha and The Vandellas Lyrics


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I thought you were my friend
But now I feel like a fool
Thought that I was using you
Not being used

I thought you were my friend

Found you when I was young
You said this might be fun
I found you when I was young
Then you blackened both my lungs

I thought you were my friend

Because you look so bright
Taste just right
Hold me all night long

Well one of you's alright
But two is always better
I stayed up with you all night
Till my insides turned to leather

I thought you were my friend

Because you look so bright
Taste just right
Hold me all night long

Baby can we go slow
I want you but I don't think I should stay here
Please baby can you hold me all night
Hold me all




Because you look so bright
Taste just right
Hold me all night long

Overall Meaning

In the lyrics to Martha and the Vandellas's song "Were You There?", the singer reflects on a complex and tumultuous relationship with a substance, possibly alcohol or drugs. The lyrics express a sense of betrayal and disappointment as the singer realizes that what they thought was a friendship turned out to be harmful and manipulative. The opening lines convey a sense of naivety and self-deception, as the singer initially believed they were in control of the situation but ultimately realized they were being used.


As the lyrics unfold, the singer recalls the allure of the substance in their youth, when it seemed like a source of fun and excitement. However, this initial appeal quickly gave way to destructive consequences, symbolized by the metaphor of "blackened both my lungs". This stark contrast between the initial attraction and the later harm encapsulates the cycle of addiction and its deceptive nature.


The repeated refrain of "I thought you were my friend" underscores the sense of betrayal and disillusionment the singer feels towards the substance. The conflicting emotions of attraction and aversion are captured in the imagery of something that looks bright, tastes right, and provides temporary solace, but ultimately leads to self-destruction. The juxtaposition of longing for comfort and the realization of the substance's detrimental effects creates a poignant and conflicted narrative.


The plea for restraint and a desire to break free from the harmful cycle is evident in the lines "Baby can we go slow / I want you but I don't think I should stay here". The singer acknowledges the pull of the substance while recognizing the need to resist its destructive influence. The request for comfort and solace, to be held all night long, conveys a longing for genuine human connection and support in the face of addiction. Overall, the lyrics paint a vivid portrait of a tumultuous relationship with a substance, exploring themes of betrayal, self-deception, and the struggle for liberation from its grasp.


Line by Line Meaning

I thought you were my friend
I believed that you were my ally and confidante


Found you when I was young
I encountered you at a young age


Because you look so bright
Your appearance is appealing and attractive


Taste just right
Your taste is pleasing and satisfying


Hold me all night long
Embrace me throughout the night




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