I'll Have to Let Him Go
Martha and the Vandellas Lyrics


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I saw him kiss another & watched him hold her tight
& I made up in my mind that very night
I've got to let him go, I've got to set him free
Even though I let him go, he's still a part of me
Oh now I know, yes I know there's someone he's thinkin' of
I'll have to let him go with all my love

I saw him (I saw him) but he didn't see me (but he didn't see me)
The tears just filled my eyes when he kissed her tonight
Oh it hurt me so inside, so much he'll never know
I'll simply hide my pride & I'll have to let him go (let him go)
Mmm I've got to let him go (let him go)

(Let him go) Move on, move on! my heart cries
(Let him go) Find yourself another; let him be
Oh (let him go) he's better off without me
(Let him go) This I know
My only wish is to make him happy, oh

I've got to say goodbye (got to say goodbye)
I've got to say so long (got to say so long)
Even though the years roll by, my love will carry on
Oh I must not tear his soul; surely he must know
That it's gonna hurt me so
But I'll have to let him go (let him go)
Yeah, it's gonna hurt me so
But I'll have to let him go (let him go)
I've got to say so long (let him go)
It's gonna hurt me so (say goodbye)




But I've got to say goodbye
...& fade

Overall Meaning

"I'll Have to Let Him Go" is a soulful song by Martha and The Vandellas that is about a woman who has to let go of a man she loves. The lyrics capture the emotions of heartbreak and decision-making that come with the end of a relationship. The song starts with the singer seeing her man kiss and hold another woman, and in that moment, she realizes she must let him go. While she still loves him, she knows it's not meant to be, and she has to set him free to find someone else. The chorus repeats the phrase, "I've got to let him go," emphasizing the struggle she's going through.


The second verse describes how the singer watched her man with the other woman, tears filling her eyes, not knowing how much it hurt her. She decides to hide her pride and move on, but her heart still cries out to him. The bridge conveys her desire for him to be happy, even though that means being without her. The final verse is about saying goodbye, knowing that it will hurt, but carrying on with a love that will remain despite the separation.


Line by Line Meaning

I saw him kiss another & watched him hold her tight
While watching him kiss and hold another woman tightly, I realized that I have come to the conclusion that I must let him go.


& I made up in my mind that very night
On that same night, I made a decision to myself.


I've got to let him go, I've got to set him free
I have to release him from my grasp and let him go.


Even though I let him go, he's still a part of me
Even though I let him go, thoughts and memories of him still linger within me.


Oh now I know, yes I know there's someone he's thinkin' of
I now know, without a doubt that he is thinking of someone else.


I'll have to let him go with all my love
I have to let him go, while still loving him with all my heart.


I saw him (I saw him) but he didn't see me (but he didn't see me)
I saw him, but he was not aware of my presence.


The tears just filled my eyes when he kissed her tonight
I couldn't help but cry when I witnessed him kissing her that night.


Oh it hurt me so inside, so much he'll never know
The pain I felt inside was indescribable, and he will never fully comprehend my pain.


I'll simply hide my pride & I'll have to let him go (let him go)
I will suppress my pride and have to bid him farewell.


Mmm I've got to let him go (let him go)
I must let him go, it's the only way forward.


(Let him go) Move on, move on! my heart cries
My heart pleads with me to move on and let him go.


(Let him go) Find yourself another; let him be
I must find someone else for myself and let him be with someone he loves.


Oh (let him go) he's better off without me
He will be much happier without me in his life.


(Let him go) This I know
Without any doubt, I know deep down that I have to let him go.


My only wish is to make him happy, oh
My only desire is for him to be happy.


I've got to say goodbye (got to say goodbye)
It's time for me to say goodbye.


I've got to say so long (got to say so long)
I must part, and say farewell.


Even though the years roll by, my love will carry on
Although time passes, my love for him will persist.


Oh I must not tear his soul; surely he must know
I should not break his heart; he must understand that I have to let him go.


That it's gonna hurt me so
It will pain me so much to let him go.


But I'll have to let him go (let him go)
Despite the pain, I must let him go.


Yeah, it's gonna hurt me so
Yes, it will hurt severely to let him go.


But I'll have to let him go (let him go)
Nonetheless, I must let him go.


I've got to say so long (let him go)
It's time for me to say goodbye and let him go.


It's gonna hurt me so (say goodbye)
It will cause immense pain to say goodbye.


But I've got to say goodbye
Nevertheless, I must say goodbye.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: WILLIAM STEVENSON

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Comments from YouTube:

Katsuhiro Seto

よく耳を澄ませると各楽器の音色が際立って美しい。60年代によくこんなテクニックがあったもんだと感心する。Very nice arrangement. I like the rhythm of the drums.

Rupert Daley - Fast Soul (60s & 70s)

Great tune ✔

Cory

it does sound like an alternate take. i believe the back-up vocals are louder on this take than on others.

R. Jackson

That was a practice at Motown. They had a couple versions of a song out at the same time.

Leonard Goodwin

BEAUTIFUL GIRL GROUP!!! THNX FOR KINDLY SHARING NICE POST!!! MUCH RESPECT!!!!

Tika Rai

so beautifull songs I loved all the marvelettsband

caroline tchoumou-gangwet

merveilleuses et puissante,

cari Lavin

ill have to set him free even tho i let him go hes still a part of me

Mia Wallace

sooo great

bill smallwood

Sounds like a perfect song for Mary Wells..........

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