The Things That I Don't Know
Marty Robbins Lyrics


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I've heard it said, what you don't know
Won't make you blue
But somehow with these words I can't agree
'Cause it's not the things I know you do
That breaks my heart, you see
It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me

I don't see you when you meet him secretly
But I think your arms have held him tenderly
So it's not the things I know you do
That breaks my heart, you see
It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me

The little things that you don't notice
Hurts me so
Little things no one but me could ever know
I will keep them hidden so no one will ever see
It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me

I don't see you when you meet him secretly
But I think your arms have held him tenderly
So it's not the things I know you do




That breaks my heart, you see
It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me

Overall Meaning

In Marty Robbins's song "The Things I Don't Know", the lyrics express the deep anguish and heartbreak of the singer. The song begins with the notion that ignorance can sometimes be blissful, as it is often said that what one doesn't know won't make them sad. However, the singer can't find solace in this idea because it's not the actions they are aware of that devastate them. Instead, it is the things they don't know that are tearing them apart.


The singer acknowledges that they are unaware of the secret meetings their partner has with someone else. They cannot witness these encounters firsthand, but they suspect that their partner's arms have held this other person tenderly. It is not the knowledge of these actions that crushes their heart, as they already assume them to be true. Rather, it is the uncertainty of the details, the things they cannot fully grasp or comprehend, that haunt them and cause immense pain.


The second verse introduces the concept of the "little things," which the singer notices but are seemingly unnoticed by their partner. These seemingly insignificant details are enough to deeply hurt the singer. They become the bearers of hidden knowledge that only the singer possesses. These secrets will be kept hidden from everyone else to preserve a fragile sense of normalcy and avoid exposing the internal torment. Ultimately, it is the absence of knowledge, the things that remain elusive and undisclosed, that torment the singer and contribute to their misery.


Line by Line Meaning

I've heard it said, what you don't know
I have come across the idea that ignorance can bring bliss


Won't make you blue
Will not cause sadness or distress


But somehow with these words I can't agree
However, I cannot find agreement with those words


'Cause it's not the things I know you do
Because the actions I know you take


That breaks my heart, you see
Are not what causes my heartache, you understand


It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me
It is the undisclosed things that are deeply hurting me


I don't see you when you meet him secretly
I am unaware of your clandestine encounters with him


But I think your arms have held him tenderly
However, I suspect that you have embraced him affectionately


So it's not the things I know you do
Thus, it is not the known actions you take


That breaks my heart, you see
That causes my heartbreak, you comprehend


It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me
It is the undisclosed things that are deeply hurting me


The little things that you don't notice
The insignificant details that escape your attention


Hurts me so
Cause me great pain


Little things no one but me could ever know
Minute details that only I am aware of


I will keep them hidden so no one will ever see
I will conceal them to prevent anyone from ever discovering


It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me
It is the undisclosed things that are deeply hurting me


I don't see you when you meet him secretly
I am unaware of your clandestine encounters with him


But I think your arms have held him tenderly
However, I suspect that you have embraced him affectionately


So it's not the things I know you do
Thus, it is not the known actions you take


That breaks my heart, you see
That causes my heartbreak, you comprehend


It's the things that I don't know that's killin' me
It is the undisclosed things that are deeply hurting me




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: JEANNE PRUETT

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on Johnny Fedavo

This is a fantastic, emotional song, thanks to whoever added the meaning behind the lyrics to this song. Makes it easy for some to understand a bit better!

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