Real Love
Mary J. Blige Lyrics


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We are lovers true and through
And though We made it through the storm
I really want you to realize
I really want to put you on
I've been searchin' for someone
To satisfy my every need
Won't you be my inspiration?
Be the real love that I need

Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love
Someone to set my heart free
Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love

Ooh, when I met you
I just knew that you would take my heart and run
Until you told me how you felt for me
You said I'm not the one
So, I slowly came to see
All of the things that you were made of
And now I hope my dreams and inspirations
Lead me towards some real

Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love
Someone to set my heart free
Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love
I got to have a real love

Love's so true and, oh, baby
I thought your love was true
I thought you were the answer to
The questions in my mind
But it seems that I was wrong
If I stay strong maybe
I'll find my real love

So I try my best and pray to God
He'll send me someone real
To caress me and to guide me
Towards a love my heart can feel
Now I know I can be faithful
I can be your all in all
I'll give you good lovin' through the summertime
Winter, spring, and fall

Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love (real love, real love, real love)
Someone to set my heart free
Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love

Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love
Someone to set my heart free
Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love

You see I'm searching for a real love (real love)
And I don't know where to go (I'm searchin' for a real love)
Been around the world and high and low
And still I'll never know (someone to set my heart free)
How it feels to have a real love (real love)
'Cause it seems there's none around (I'm searchin' for a real love)
Gotta end it in this way because it
Seems he can't be found

Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love
Someone to set my heart free
Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love

Real love
I'm searchin' for a real love
Someone to set my heart free
Real love




I'm searchin' for a real love
Real love

Overall Meaning

"Real Love" by Mary J. Blige speaks of the desire for authentic love and the search for it in oneself and others. The song begins with the notion that the lovers have survived difficult times and have come out stronger. The singer sees the potential in her partner and desires to bring out the best in them. She admits to needing someone to fulfill her and becomes vulnerable, admitting her need for inspiration and a love that is genuine. Throughout the song, the singer seeks the kind of love that is not only exhilarating but that also lasts. She has been disappointed before but remains hopeful, believing that real love is possible.


The artist sings about her quest for "real love," which is a kind of love that is unconditional, long-lasting, and genuine. The song's lyrics convey the artist's longing for a partner who will fulfill her needs and be her inspiration. The song's message is universal in that everyone desires love that is true and enduring. The chorus, "I'm searchin' for a real love, someone to set my heart free," emphasizes the singer's desire for a love that is not just fleeting but one that will last forever.


Line by Line Meaning

We are lovers true and through
We are truly in love and committed to each other


And though We made it through the storm
Despite the difficult times we have been through together


I really want you to realize
I want you to understand and acknowledge my feelings


I really want to put you on
I want to empower you and help you succeed


I've been searchin' for someone
I've been looking for a person


To satisfy my every need
To fulfill all of my desires and wishes


Won't you be my inspiration?
Can you motivate and encourage me?


Be the real love that I need
Be the genuine and true love that I require


Real love
Authentic and sincere love


I'm searchin' for a real love
I am looking for genuine and true love


Someone to set my heart free
A person who can liberate and unburden my heart


Ooh, when I met you
When I first encountered you


I just knew that you would take my heart and run
I felt that you would capture my heart and leave me


Until you told me how you felt for me
Until you let me know your own feelings towards me


You said I'm not the one
You informed me that you were not interested in me romantically


So, I slowly came to see
I gradually realized


All of the things that you were made of
All of the traits and qualities that constitute your character


And now I hope my dreams and inspirations
And now I have aspirations and goals


Lead me towards some real
Lead me towards authentic and genuine romantic love


Love's so true and, oh, baby
Authentic love is so genuine, and it feels wonderful


I thought your love was true
I believed that your love was sincere and authentic


I thought you were the answer to
I believed you were the solution to


The questions in my mind
The uncertainties and doubts I had


But it seems that I was wrong
But it appears that my beliefs were incorrect


If I stay strong maybe
If I maintain my strength and resilience


I'll find my real love
I will discover my true, sincere love


So I try my best and pray to God
So I give my all and hope to God


He'll send me someone real
That God will grant me a genuine and sincere love


To caress me and to guide me
To comfort me and lead me


Towards a love my heart can feel
Towards an authentic and genuine emotional connection


Now I know I can be faithful
I now understand that I can remain devoted and loyal


I can be your all in all
I can be everything you need and want


I'll give you good lovin' through the summertime
I will provide you with excellent love and affection during good times


Winter, spring, and fall
During all seasons of life


You see I'm searching for a real love (real love)
As you can see, I am deeply longing for authentic, genuine love


And I don't know where to go (I'm searchin' for a real love)
And I am unsure about how to find it


Been around the world and high and low
I have travelled and searched extensively


And still I'll never know (someone to set my heart free)
Yet I will never discover that person who can liberate my heart


How it feels to have a real love (real love)
I will never know the sensation and emotions of true, genuine love


'Cause it seems there's none around (I'm searchin' for a real love)
Because it appears that there is an absence of genuine love


Gotta end it in this way because it
I must conclude in this manner because it


Seems he can't be found
Appears that the person who can offer real love cannot be found




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Mark Morales, Nathaniel V. Jr. Robinson, Kirk S. Robinson, Mark Cory Rooney, Roy C. Hammond

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