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I Don't Want To Take A Chance
Mary Wells Lyrics


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You say you love me, and I believe you do
You really really love me 'cause I love you

[Chorus]
I don't want to take a chance
I don't want to take a chance
I don't want to take a chance and come out
Oh, and come out, and come out
Only losin' in

I still remember the last love I had
Left me so blue and oh so sad
But I just want to let you know
(chorus)

I've had lonely days oh and lonely nights
That's something that I don't want to go through, no no
Just give my heart some time
And I know I'll make up mind
When I give it up, I'm gonna give it up to you
You, you you you

One day, baby, when my heart is stronger
And I'll have this fear no longer
Maybe then I'll come running to you
But right now

[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Mary Wells's song "I Don't Want To Take A Chance" are about the hesitation and fear of taking a chance on love after being hurt in the past. The first verse reveals the internal conflict of the singer as she believes her lover when he says he loves her but struggles to let go of her past heartbreaks. She wants to believe in love again but is afraid to take the risk of coming out hurt and losing once again. The chorus echoes her fears and hesitations as she asserts her choice to avoid taking the chance that could lead to losing again.


The second verse depicts the singer’s previous heartbreak and how it has affected her. The singer acknowledges that she has had lonely days and nights and refers to her past heartbreak in the third person to detach herself from the pain. However, it's her weeping out her vulnerability, and the vulnerability of love that she does not want to let anyone else exploit. She fears having to go through the same heartache again but also acknowledges that she must give love a chance and give her heart up again. But for now, she needs time to let her heart heal and get stronger before she can come running back to her lover with certainty.


Overall, "I Don't Want To Take A Chance" reveals the singer's struggles with fears and doubts, making it a song that many can relate to. It's rare to hear a mid-'60s love song that is so cautious and sober, and there's a kind of emotional maturity to the title and the response to it. This song was a modest hit for Wells, reaching #33 on the pop chart and #7 on the R&B chart, and cemented her as a rising artist in the Motown stable.


Line by Line Meaning

You say you love me, and I believe you do
I trust that you truly love me.


You really really love me 'cause I love you
Your affection for me is genuine and reciprocated.


I don't want to take a chance
I'm afraid to risk getting hurt again.


I don't want to take a chance and come out
I don't want to end up feeling disappointed.


Oh, and come out, and come out
Repeated for emphasis.


Only losin' in
I don't want to suffer another heartbreak.


I still remember the last love I had
I'm haunted by past failed relationships.


Left me so blue and oh so sad
The experience left me feeling depressed and unhappy.


But I just want to let you know
I want to be honest with you.


I've had lonely days oh and lonely nights
I've experienced deep feelings of isolation.


That's something that I don't want to go through, no no
I never want to be that unhappy again.


Just give my heart some time
I need to take things slow.


And I know I'll make up mind
Eventually, I'll figure out what I want.


When I give it up, I'm gonna give it up to you
If I decide to commit, you'll be the one I choose.


One day, baby, when my heart is stronger
In the future, when I'm more emotionally stable,


And I'll have this fear no longer
And I'm no longer afraid of being hurt,


Maybe then I'll come running to you
I might be ready for a serious relationship with you.


But right now
At this moment,


I don't want to take a chance
My heart isn't ready to take that risk.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BERRY GORDY JR, BERRY JR GORDY, WILLIAM STEVENSON

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@RichardKoenigsberg

Her greatest song, no contest. So intense.

@youngmado2714

Beautiful song from back in the day.  Take me back to my young days. . . .love it!

@sauquoit13456

On this day in 1961 {September 13th) Mary Wells was a guest on the Dick Clark ABC-TV weekday-afternoon program 'American Bandstand'...
At the time her record "I Don't Want to Take A Chance" was at #65 on Billboard's Top 100 chart, two weeks earlier it had peaked at #33 {for 1 week} and it spent 9 weeks on the Top 100...
Between 1961 and 1966 she had twenty-three records on the Top 100 chart, four made the Top 10 with one reaching #1, "My Guy", for two weeks on May 10th, 1964...
Besides "My Guy", her three other Top 10 records were "The One Who Really Love You" {#8 in 1962}, "You Beat Me to the Punch" {#9 in 1962, and "Two Lovers" {#7 in 1963}...
Two of her twenty-three Top 100 records were duets with Marvin Gaye, "Once Upon A time" {#19 for 3 weeks in 1964} and "What's the Matter With You Baby" {#17 for 1 week in 1964}...
Mary Esther Wells passed away at the young age of 49 on July 26th, 1992...
May she R.I.P.
And from the 'For What It's Worth' department, in 1961, besides "I Don't Want to Take A Chance" there were two other 'I Don't Want' records on the Top 100, "I Don't Want to Cry" by Chuck Jackson {#36} and "I Don't Want Nobody" by Ella Johnson with the Buddy Johnson's Orchestra {#78}...

@danielburns987

this song went to #33 on the pop charts in 1961!!!

@charleslawrence2027

I remember this song. This is the song that made me a Mary Wells fan.

@beatriceyoung3259

This is a true song! Sing it Mary.

Patricia Washington December 22, 2016

@MrBillbies

Excellent song....

@notalcno9

Shame she left Motown she was never as prolific, we can only guess how big she could of been,what a voice. Would have been nice if she'd dueted with maybe Smokey or Jimmy Ruffin.

@loisweiss6678

u r great on this Mary Wells

@kjchicago1

Released in July 1961 on Motown's Record Label as Motown 1011

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