She's So Mean
Matchbox Twenty Lyrics


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I kn-kn-know a girl
She gets what she wants all the time
'Cause she's fine
But for an angel, she's a hot, hot mess
Make you so blind
But you don't mind

'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl
She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl

She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

You kn-kn-know that if you don't shut your mouth
She'll freak out
You better get your shit together
'Cause she's bringing you down, now
Yeah, boy, you better, you better

'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl, girl
She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl, girl

She's got a wicked sense of humor, can't believe what she says
She drinks Bacardi in the morning till it goes to her head
And all you want is just to hold her, but she don't go for that
She has a hard time coming when she can't hit back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

Every now and then she makes you just a little bit crazy
She'll turn the knife into your back and then she's calling you 'baby'
Crazy

She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
Yeah, you want her




Yeah, I know how you want her, but she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

Overall Meaning

The song "She's So Mean" by Matchbox Twenty is about a girl who is very attractive and knows how to get what she wants. She is wild, unpredictable, and lives for the moment. The singer describes her as a hot mess and warns the listener that she will bring them down if they don't get their act together. The girl likes to party, drinks Bacardi in the morning, and has a wicked sense of humor that can be hurtful. She will make the listener crazy and turn the knife in their back, but they still want her despite her mean ways.


The song's lyrics capture the chaos and excitement of being with someone who is unpredictable and untamable. The girl is the life of the party, but also a liability. The listener is caught up in her web, unable to resist her charm, but also unable to control her. The chorus repeats the phrase "you want her/but she's so mean" as if to acknowledge the listener's conflicting desires. The verses describe the girl in more detail, highlighting her wild ways and the damage she can cause.


The song's upbeat tempo and catchy chorus make it a popular party anthem, but its lyrics reveal a darker underbelly. The girl may be exciting and attractive, but she is also a threat to the listener's well-being. The song's message seems to be that sometimes, the things we want most are also the things that will hurt us the most.


Line by Line Meaning

I kn-kn-know a girl
There's this girl I know


She gets what she wants all the time
She always gets her way


'Cause she's fine
Because she's attractive


But for an angel, she's a hot, hot mess
Despite seeming perfect, she has many flaws


Make you so blind
Her looks can make you overlook her flaws


But you don't mind
You're willing to accept her flaws


'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl
She's adventurous and a free spirit


She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl
She's wild and enjoys indulging


She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She's unreliable and may abandon you


She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
She's a party animal


And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's a messy and destructive person


She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back
Getting involved with her is risky and there's no turning back


You kn-kn-know that if you don't shut your mouth
You know that you need to be careful around her


She'll freak out
She's easily angered


You better get your shit together
You need to be prepared for her behavior


'Cause she's bringing you down, now
Her actions are negatively affecting you


She's got a wicked sense of humor, can't believe what she says
She has a sarcastic and unpredictable personality


She drinks Bacardi in the morning till it goes to her head
She has a drinking problem


And all you want is just to hold her, but she don't go for that
You want a deeper emotional connection, but she's not interested


She has a hard time coming when she can't hit back
She's defensive and struggles with vulnerability


Every now and then she makes you just a little bit crazy
Her behavior is erratic and frustrating


She'll turn the knife into your back and then she's calling you 'baby'
She's manipulative and can be both loving and hurtful


Yeah, and you want her
You're attracted to her despite her flaws


But she's so mean
She treats you poorly and can be hurtful


(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
You're holding onto her despite her negative impact on you


Yeah, you want her
You're still drawn to her


Yeah, I know how you want her, but she's so mean
I understand your attraction, but her behavior is unacceptable


(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
You're struggling to let her go even though it's the right thing to do




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: KYLE COOK, PAUL DOUCETTE, ROBERT THOMAS

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Lyrics

I kn-kn-know a girl
She gets what she wants all the time
'Cause she's fine
But for an angel, she's a hot, hot mess
Make you so blind
But you don't mind

'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl
She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl

She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

You kn-kn-know that if you don't shut your mouth
She'll freak out
You better get your shit together
'Cause she's bringing you down, now
Yeah, boy, you better, you better

'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl, girl
She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl, girl

She's got a wicked sense of humor, can't believe what she says
She drinks Bacardi in the morning till it goes to her head
And all you want is just to hold her, but she don't go for that
She has a hard time coming when she can't hit back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

Every now and then she makes you just a little bit crazy
She'll turn the knife into your back and then she's calling you 'baby'
Crazy

She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
Yeah, you want her
Yeah, I know how you want her, but she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)



All comments from YouTube:

@johnflynn4932

Rob Thomas is one of the most underrated vocalist in music. Be it solo or MB20 his vocals are 🔥🔥🔥

@chancock4222

I once heard a voice coach say Rob Thomas doesn't actually sing his lyrics, he bites them. It sounds like an insult but she was a huge fan of him. She says he is effortless in his style and no one can do what he does quite the way he does it. She said she tried it and was out of breath by the end of the song. She was like, "you just can't breathe doing it how he does it."

@ivanzinn6391

He's up there with our lady peace and eve 6

@amandahenry9207

Just seen him tonight in ohio... 🔥. Gonna have a hard time getting to bed. 😂 got rained on too

@amandahenry9207

​@C Hancock just seen him tonight and he killed it, so she lieddddd

@chancock4222

@@amandahenry9207 If he killed it I'd say she was spot on.

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@Vzla-bg6pd

Matchbox 20 will forever be a LEGENDARY band. Their songs have always saved me from bad days. Thank you guys. Really. Greetings from Venezuela!

@alfredaramouni5884

wow do venezuela still have intenet ??


(it is a joke pls don't kill me :p )

@Vzla-bg6pd

Hey Alfred! I won't hahaha it's a sad reality. I am in Mexico now but home will be Venezuela in my heart.

@amandadixon905

This song rocks

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