As a young musician wanting to make a name for himself, Sweet set off to Athens, Georgia in the mid '80s, to attend college and join the vibrant Athens music scene, most famous as the home base for R.E.M. and The B-52's. Sweet worked with R.E.M. leader Michael Stipe at this time, joining Stipe's sister in a band called Oh-OK and then forming another band, The Buzz of Delight. Before long he was signed to a solo recording contract with Columbia Records.
One album, Inside, was released by Columbia in 1986 to little success.
Sweet was then picked up by A&M Records where he released his second album, Earth (1989), again without commercial success. This period marked a personal and professional low point for Sweet, as A&M lost interest and his marriage failed.
Sweet quickly recovered, and put together a new band including Richard Lloyd, Robert Quine, Greg Leisz, Lloyd Cole, and Fred Maher. The new group spent 1990 putting together Sweet's next work, originally titled Nothing Lasts.
In 1990, A&M released Sweet from his contract, and he signed with rival Zoo Entertainment. The album, still under construction, was retitled Girlfriend and released in October 1991. This album featured a classic set of pop-rock songs, was considered by many to be an artistic breakthrough and quickly garnered impressive U.S. sales (spawning a top-10 single with the title track). The video for the title track was aired on MTV and MuchMusic and features Japanese animation (commonly known as "anime"), of which Sweet is a fan. The animated clips in the video for "Girlfriend" are taken from the movie Space Adventure Cobra, and the video for "I've Been Waiting" uses clips of the show Urusei Yatsura featuring the character Lum, of whom Sweet has a tattoo.
Sweet's follow-up album, 1993's Altered Beast, was borne out of an apparent determination not to become mainstream. A more diverse and less immediately accessible album than Girlfriend, the album divided fans and critics who had mixed reactions to emotionally intense and brooding tracks like "Someone to Pull the Trigger" and "Knowing People."
In 1995, Sweet released, 100% Fun, a darkly ironic title alluding to a quotation from Kurt Cobain's suicide note: "The worst crime I could think of would be to pull people off by faking it, pretending as if I'm having 100% fun." The album mixed bouncy pop style with darker lyrics, including a leadoff track, the self-deprecating "Sick of Myself". The track has frequently been covered live by fellow '90s power poppers The Posies.
Decidedly out of the musical mainstream, Sweet would issue a few more albums in the second half of the decade and maintain a devoted core of fans, but critical acclaim and chart success would be hard to come by.
Sweet's international success had been somewhat limited by his fear of flying; however he gained a significant following in Japan and his most recent album, Kimi Ga Suki * Raifu, was a Japan-only release in 2003.
In 2000, Sweet worked with the Canadian band Delerium, to release the song "Daylight" that appears in their album Poem.
In early 2002 he formed the supergroup The Thorns with Shawn Mullins and Pete Droge.
He released a new album of solo material, Living Things in late 2004, though the material on the album was recorded in 2002.
In April 2006 he partnered with Bangles lead singer Susanna Hoffs to release a collection of 1960's classics, titled Under The Covers. Featuring their take on such widely known '60s hits as "Monday, Monday," and "The Kids Are Alright", the album represented a return to the accessible and melodic approach associated with Sweet's early breakthroughs.
He is featured in the release in November of 2006 of the Activision and Red Octane Play Station 2 game, Guitar Hero 2. His hit song "Girlfriend" is featured on the hit game.
She Said She Said
Matthew Sweet Lyrics
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I know what it's like to be dead
I know what it is to be sad
And you're making me feel like I've never been born
I said
Who put all those thoughts in your head?
Things that make me feel like I'm bad
She said
You don't understand what I said
I said
No, no, no you're wrong
When I was a boy
Everything was right
Everything was right
I said
Even what you know what you know
I know that I'm ready to leave
And you're making me feel like I've never been born
She said
You don't understand what I said
I said
No, no, no you're wrong
When I was a boy
Everything was right
Everything was right
I said
Even what you know what you know
I know that I'm ready to leave
'cause you're making me feel like I've never been born
She said
I know what it's like to be dead
I know what it is to be sad
I know what it's like to be dead
I know what it is to be sad
Matthew Sweet's song "She Said She Said," was released in 1991 and was inspired by a conversation that John Lennon had with Peter Fonda at a party in 1965. In the song, Sweet uses the dialogue between two people to explore themes of death, sadness, and the cyclical nature of life. The song's lyrics are mysterious and thought-provoking, as they present a conversation between two individuals - one who claims to have experienced death and sadness firsthand, and another who struggles to understand their perspective.
The song begins with the female speaker saying, "I know what it's like to be dead. I know what it is to be sad. And you're making me feel like I've never been born." This opening line is reminiscent of the famous quote by Sylvia Plath, "I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart. I am, I am, I am." By acknowledging the experience of death at the beginning of the song, the singer sets the tone for the rest of the conversation. She is someone who has seen things from a perspective that most people cannot comprehend.
When the male speaker tries to question her, she responds by saying, "You don't understand what I said," emphasizing that her experiences are beyond his realm of understanding. However, the male speaker insists that he is ready to leave, suggesting that he is ready to move on from this conversation and possibly even from life itself. The female speaker repeats her initial statement about knowing what it's like to be dead and sad, effectively bookending the conversation and bringing the song to a close.
Overall, "She Said She Said" is a song that explores the complexities of human experience and the limitations of our ability to understand one another. The song's use of dialogue and ambiguous lyrics make it a fascinating and layered piece, one that is open to interpretation and invites listeners to consider the meaning behind its words.
Line by Line Meaning
She said
She spoke and conveyed her thoughts
I know what it's like to be dead
I have experienced a feeling of emptiness and darkness
I know what it is to be sad
I have felt a deep sorrow and despair
And you're making me feel like I've never been born
Your actions are causing me to feel as though I do not belong in this world
I said
I responded to her statement
Who put all those thoughts in your head?
What or who influenced you to have those negative thoughts?
Things that make me feel like I'm bad
Various situations or comments have caused me to question my self-worth
'cause you're making me feel like I've never been born
Your actions are giving me a sense of non-existence and causing me to feel unwanted
You don't understand what I said
You are not comprehending my message
No, no, no you're wrong
I disagree with your perspective
When I was a boy, everything was right
During my childhood, things were simpler and less complicated
Even what you know what you know
Despite what you may believe or think you know
I know that I'm ready to leave
I am mentally and emotionally prepared to move on from this situation
I know what it's like to be dead
I have experienced a feeling of emptiness and darkness
I know what it is to be sad
I have felt a deep sorrow and despair
Contributed by Matthew A. Suggest a correction in the comments below.