Stay Or Leave
Matthews Dave & Reynolds Tim Lyrics
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Winters warm there you and I
Kissing whiskey by the fire
With the snow outside
And when the summer comes
In the river
Swims at midnight
Shiver cold
You and I
With muddy toes
Stay or leave
I want you not to go
But you should
It was good as good goes
Stay or leave
I want you not to go
But you did
Wake up naked drinking coffee
Making plans to change the world
While the world is changing us
It was good, good love
You used to laugh under the covers
Maybe not so often now
But the way I used to laugh with you
Was loud and hard
Stay or leave
I want you not to go
But you should
It was good as good goes
Stay or leave
I want you not to go
But you did
So what to do
With the rest of the day's afternoon hey
Isn't it strange how we change
Everything we did
Did I do all that I should
That I could of done
Remember we used to dance
And everyone wanted to be
You and me
I want to be too
What day is this
Besides the day you left me
What day is this
Besides the day you went
So what to do
With the rest of the day's afternoon hey
Isn't it strange how we change
Everything we did
Did I do all that I could
Remember we used to dance
And everyone wanted to be you and me
I want to be too
What day is this
Besides the day you went babe
What day is this
"Stay or Leave" by Matthews Dave & Reynolds Tim tells a story about a couple who has gone through ups and downs in their relationship. The first verse paints a beautiful picture of a cozy winter scene where the couple is enjoying their time together. However, as the seasons change, so do their experiences. The second verse describes a moment where they are making plans to change the world while it's also changing them. The lyrics show how love can be both good and complex. The chorus addresses the difficult decision of whether to stay or leave in a relationship and how sometimes, despite wanting the other person to stay, it's best to let them go.
The bridge poses the question of what to do with the rest of the day's afternoon after the other person has left. It speaks to the idea of feeling lost and wondering if you did everything you could have in the relationship. The song concludes with a nostalgic description of how the couple used to dance and how everyone wanted to be them. Overall, the song captures the bittersweet reality of a relationship’s end, and how despite the pain, there are beautiful moments to cherish.
Line by Line Meaning
Maybe different but remember
Although things have changed, let us not forget the past
Winters warm there you and I
We had a cozy and warm winter together
Kissing whiskey by the fire
We enjoyed each other's company over a drink by the fireplace
With the snow outside
It was snowing outside while we were enjoying each other's company inside
And when the summer comes
Looking forward to the arrival of summer
In the river
Swimming in the river
Swims at midnight
Taking a midnight swim
Shiver cold
Feeling the cold water on our bodies
Touch the bottom
Reaching the bottom of the riverbed
You and I
Together
With muddy toes
Our toes got muddy from the riverbed
Stay or leave
Deciding whether to stay or leave the relationship
I want you not to go
I don't want you to leave
But you should
Leaving might be the best option
It was good as good goes
Our relationship was good, but it had its limitations
Wake up naked drinking coffee
Starting the day together while in bed, enjoying coffee while unclothed
Making plans to change the world
Dreaming of doing something significant that would change the world for the better
While the world is changing us
The world is affecting and changing us, sometimes not for the better
It was good, good love
Our love for each other was great
You used to laugh under the covers
We used to laugh a lot together while lying under the covers
Maybe not so often now
Laughing together doesn't happen as frequently anymore
But the way I used to laugh with you
The way we used to laugh together was priceless
Was loud and hard
We laughed loudly and heartily like there was no tomorrow
So what to do
Wondering what to do next
With the rest of the day's afternoon hey
The afternoon is still young, and there's still time to make something of it
Isn't it strange how we change
It's strange how people change over time
Everything we did
Everything we used to do doesn't feel the same
Did I do all that I should
Did I make the most of our time together?
Remember we used to dance
We used to dance together
And everyone wanted to be
Others wanted to experience the same joy and connection we felt while dancing
You and me
Together
I want to be too
I want to recapture that feeling of joy and connection with someone else
What day is this
The day feels like any other day
Besides the day you left me
The day you left is the only thing that sets it apart from other days
What day is this
The day feels like any other day
Besides the day you went
The day you left is the only thing that sets it apart from other days
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DAVID JOHN MATTHEWS
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@nickrandles1102
Good lord, this one always guts me 😢
@rafabetico17che
Same
@KristinQD
Same, every once in a while I work up the courage to listen cause it’s a great song but yup 19 years later .. still gets me every darn time.
@JNieckarz
Me too.
@CementSeason
Are you experiencing dry eyes? Try Dave & Tim - the all natural, spiritual remedy that will have you bawling your eyes and your heart out within the first song.
Yeah, this one kills me too. Every darn time.
@LeahD-xv2jm
YES!!!
@TyRazor33
How can anyone not love Dave? See you guys in September ❤️
@CementSeason
Just got my cherry popped @ Labour-Dave last September. Now I know what I'm doing that weekend every single year for the foreseeable future!! See you in September <3♥
@cherokeegypsymama
One of my favorites EVER! 😢❤
@kristinehebert5621
No words. Best song ever.