What Happened to the Real Me
Mavis Staples Lyrics


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You went away without a warning
Left me in a cold world on my own
You molded me into your special woman
Now the soul I have is not my own

Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?
Look what you've done, my love
Why'd you do what you did to me?

I tried to win your love
You were cold, you kept your love from me
I tried to warm your heart
Now my heart is crying constantly

Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?
Look what you've done, my love
Why'd you do what you did to me?

How did you possess my soul?
Tell me why do I still need you so?

I feel the pain, pain of nothing
Without you by my side, I can't, I won't go on
And right now I feel your arms so warm around me
But you're gone, baby, oh, you're gone

Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?
Look what you've done, my love
Why'd you do what you did to me?
Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?
Look what you've done, my love
Oh
Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?
Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?
Look at me, my love
What happened to the real me?

Overall Meaning

In Mavis Staples's song "What Happened to the Real Me," the singer expresses the pain and confusion she feels after being abandoned by someone who had a strong influence on her identity. The song suggests that the singer's sense of self was molded and shaped by this person, but now that they have left, she feels lost and disconnected from her true identity. The lines "You molded me into your special woman / Now the soul I have is not my own" convey the extent to which this person had an impact on the singer's self-concept.


The chorus of the song, which repeats the line "Look what you've done, my love / Why'd you do what you did to me?", suggests that the singer feels hurt and betrayed by this person's actions. She had attempted to win their love and warm their heart, but her efforts were met with indifference. The lines "How did you possess my soul? / Tell me why do I still need you so?" suggest that the singer is struggling to let go of this relationship and move on from the hurt that she has experienced.


Overall, the song serves as a powerful reflection on the ways in which relationships can shape and impact one's sense of self, and the pain that can arise when those connections are severed.


Line by Line Meaning

You went away without a warning
You left me suddenly and unexpectedly


Left me in a cold world on my own
You left me alone in a harsh, unforgiving world


You molded me into your special woman
You shaped me into the person you wanted me to be


Now the soul I have is not my own
My spirit is no longer mine to control or possess


I tried to win your love
I did everything I could to make you love me


You were cold, you kept your love from me
You were unresponsive and withheld your affection


I tried to warm your heart
I attempted to bring warmth and happiness into your life


Now my heart is crying constantly
My heart is constantly in pain and sorrow


How did you possess my soul?
How did you come to control and dominate my spirit?


Tell me why do I still need you so?
Explain to me why I still feel such a strong desire for you


I feel the pain, pain of nothing
I am consumed with a sense of emptiness and suffering


Without you by my side, I can't, I won't go on
I am unable and unwilling to continue living without you


And right now I feel your arms so warm around me
I still yearn for your physical touch and presence


But you're gone, baby, oh, you're gone
But you are no longer a part of my life and I must accept that


Look what you've done, my love
Reflect on the impact of your actions, my dear


Why'd you do what you did to me?
Help me understand the reasons for your hurtful behavior


Look at me, my love
Direct your attention to me, my dear


What happened to the real me?
Why have I lost touch with my true self?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: HELGA PENZABENE

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