I've Got A Tender Heart
Merle Haggard Lyrics


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You did me like someone you had it in for
You lied when you said you'd treat me fair
Don't you know you heard me when you're made to me
I've got feelings and you don't seem to care
I'm rough and I'm rowdy, I'm tough and I'm smart
And I've got a tender heart

I know you think I'm strong enough to stand the pain
I'll get over you and make a brand new start
I'm rough and I'm rowdy, I'm tough and I'm smart
But I've got a tender heart

I know you think I'm strong enough to stand the pain
I'll get over you and make a brand new start




I'm rough and I'm rowdy, I'm tough and I'm smart
But I've got a tender heart

Overall Meaning

In Merle Haggard's song "I've Got A Tender Heart," the singer uses contrasting images to express his emotions. In the first verse, he describes how the person he trusted did him wrong, and how their actions have hurt him. He expresses his vulnerability by saying that he has feelings and that the other person doesn't seem to care about them. Yet, in the following verses, he reaffirms that he is tough and smart enough to get over the pain and start anew. However, he still reminds the other person that he has a "tender heart" underneath his rough exterior.


The song discusses the pain of betrayal and the challenge of moving on. It touches on the fact that people often have deeper emotions than they let on and that being vulnerable is not a weakness. The lyrics suggest that despite the singer's resilience, he still has a soft side, and that he needs the other person to acknowledge his pain.


Overall, the song speaks to the universal experience of betrayal and the aftermath of trying to pick up the pieces. It is a reminder that even when people appear strong, they can still be deeply hurt.


Line by Line Meaning

You did me like someone you had it in for
You treated me with malice and ill-will, as if you had a personal vendetta against me


You lied when you said you'd treat me fair
You deceived me by making promises you had no intention of keeping, specifically to treat me with fairness


Don't you know you heard me when you're made to me
Your actions and words have caused me emotional pain that should be obvious to you


I've got feelings and you don't seem to care
I am a sentient being with emotions that you are disregarding and do not value


I'm rough and I'm rowdy, I'm tough and I'm smart
I have a tough exterior and am intelligent


And I've got a tender heart
However, despite my outward appearance, I am emotionally sensitive and easily hurt


I know you think I'm strong enough to stand the pain
You may believe that I am able to handle emotional pain, but that does not justify your actions


I'll get over you and make a brand new start
Despite the hurt you have caused, I will move on and start anew without you


I'm rough and I'm rowdy, I'm tough and I'm smart
Again, I may appear rough and strong, but I still have a deep emotional side


But I've got a tender heart
And you should not underestimate or dismiss my emotional vulnerability and sensitivity




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Jimmy Ray


on Carryin' Fire

I'm a co-writer on this song and the lyrics are not quite right here. Instead of the word high it should be higher. The last verse is A moth slowly circles the flickering candle, the fire is all it can see...

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